“How could this be possible??”

It wasn't until he died that I began to pay closer attention to him……………. Hey Tristan,  It wasn't until he died that I began to pay closer attention to how he lived…  Matthew Perry - AKA Chandler from "Friends" - was both very funny and, as I recently became aware, a deep-thinking guy who really lived life to the fullest.  Recently, I saw a clip on Instagram of him, circa 50 years old, reflecting on a remarkable moment he shared with Jim Carrey at age 24. A moment, that would not have been possible until AFTER he got super famous, got the big car, the pool, and all the trappings of success.  You see Jim had been offered the role of Chandler in 1994, before the show had even premiered. But get this, he turned it down! So Matthew recounts the time Jim finally came over to see him and said:  “I'm sorry that I have not called you in two years. I could not handle that you got rich and famous on a show that I turned down. We were both good enough to get that role.”  Matthew responded, “Of course, we were. But let me tell you something, pal. It doesn't do what we all thought it would do.”  Jim, listening intently, stepped back in disbelief. Matthew had one of the BEST jobs on TV. A job any actor would have died for making incredible money and had worldwide fame. How could it be true? It didn’t make sense.  Matthew explained why: “I got the job. I bought a house. The house had a pool. I had the American dream. And I really, really liked it, loved it for about six months. And then I walked in my house and went:  “Oh, man, this is not fixing this problem that I have.   How is that possible?”  The funny thing is: This happens ALL the time for people, for super successful folks and almost everyone else striving for success.  Because the things we think we want or need don’t solve the problems we actually have.  Which leads me to today’s question:  Are you solving the actual problem you really have Tristan?  Are you working on the right things so you can become the person you truly aspire to be, equipped with the skills and capabilities you've always desired? Skills that become even more valuable with time.  Then [go here to change that.](  The truth is, most of what people buy this time of year – those shiny things - we believe will make us happy, don’t. Their satisfaction is short-lived. They don’t give us greater successes or lead to inner satisfaction and fulfilment.  But every one of the training solutions in our Black Friday Super Sale is designed to make your life better, more successful and critically, help you to live a more fulfilling AND successful life.  Think of it as You 2.0.  With 30 programs in our super sale, there’s no better time to invest a small amount today to enjoy a HUGE impact in the days, weeks and years ahead.   So if you are up for levelling up your life, and finally solve the real problem behind your problems so you can have an incredible 2024…  […then head over here and grab one of our tailored solutions now.](  To your success, Tom  [www.nlptimes.com](   Real NLP Skills For The Real World [Unsubscribe]( | [Edit your details]( D&T New Media Limited Office E, 25th Floor, King Palace Plaza Kwun Tong Kowloon Hong Kong [Powered By Kartra] - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -