I chose enjoyment and left my husband

Today on Zikoko: This 34-year-old woman is here to enjoy life completely, and no cheating husband can tell her otherwise. Plus: five Nigerian men share what its like to date sex-workers, and three Nigerian men talk about navigating the loss of a pregnancy. [Enjoy and Share!]( Enjoy and Share! [View Online]( [Enjoy and Share!](#) [article image](#) [article image](#) Enjoyment means many things to many people, and I don't think I've met anyone as devoted to their enjoyment as this 34-year-old Nigerian woman. Her main motto in life is that if someone gives you headache, leave them. That's how she left her husband of ten years, and started raising her two children independently. I don't think I'd ever have that much dedication to my own enjoyment [Editor Headshot] Itohan Editor. Enjoyment means many things to many people, and I don't think I've met anyone as devoted to their enjoyment as this 34-year-old Nigerian woman. Her main motto in life is that if someone gives you headache, leave them. That's how she left her husband of ten years, and started raising her two children independently. I don't think I'd ever have that much dedication to my own enjoyment [Editor Headshot] Itohan Editor. Do you have something to sell? Use Paystack Storefront! 👉🏾Learn more at [paystack.com/storefront]( Do you have something to sell? Use Paystack Storefront! 👉🏾Learn more at [paystack.com/storefront]( --------------------------------------------------------------- [article image]( [What She Said: Choosing Enjoyment Meant Leaving My Husband]( The subject of today’s What She Said is a 34-year-old Nigerian woman who grew up getting everything she asked for. She talks about constantly pursuing enjoyment, and how that led to her leaving her cheating husband and raising her two children independently. [continue reading]( [5 Nigerian Men Tell Us What It Is Like Dating A Sex-Worker]( I’ll be honest, I am truly fascinated by the lives of sex workers – digital sex-workers ie people with OnlyFans, physical sex-workers i.e escorts etc – because I wonder how they navigate a hypocritical and judgmental place like Nigeria. Over the long weekend, I began conversing with people I know who are sex workers and began asking them if their partners would be willing to speak to me for a story. Some weren’t, others were. And here is the story on what it is like being a Nigerian man dating a sex worker. [Continue reading]( [3 Nigerian Men Talk About How They Felt After Their Wives’ Miscarriages]( A few months ago, we spoke with two women who had suffered miscarriages about their experiences. This time, we spoke with three men whose wives had suffered miscarriages about how it affected them. This is what they had to say: [Continue reading]( [How I Became A Hedge Witch]( As told to Mariam: I have known Wendy for about three years and during this time, I have watched her go from being irreligious to religious and back to being irreligious. As an irreligious person myself, I was curious about her journey so sometime in March I asked her. Here’s what she told me: [Continue reading]( [QUIZ: If You Get 9/20 On This Quiz, You Were Cool In Secondary School]( If up to 9 things on this list apply to you, you were definitely a cool kid in secondary school. [Take Quiz]( If you enjoyed this newsletter tell someone about it, forward it to them. Stay safe. Stay awesome! If you enjoyed this newsletter tell someone about it, forward it to them. Stay safe. Stay awesome! [about]( [Advertise]( [Subscribe]( [READ MORE STORIES]( [ABOUT]( [Advertise]( [GOT THIS FROM A FRIEND? SUBSCRIBE!]( [FB]( [Twitter]( [IG]( [IG]( You are receiving this email because you subscribed to receive marketing communications from Big Cabal Media under the terms of our [Privacy Policy](. [Click here to unsubscribe]( Zikoko is a Big Cabal Media brand. Copyright © 2019