Want to be better in conversations? Avoid these 10 phrases that are 'instantly unlikeable'

1 [Want to be better in conversations? Avoid these 10 phrases that are 'instantly unlikeable']( Conversation etiquette varies between generations, cultures and platforms. Younger age groups might take words once thought to be insulting and use them in an opposite way as a form of reclamation. In some countries, talking about politics or religion is considered rude, while in others it’s completely acceptable. And certainly, there are quite a few things muttered online that (hopefully) someone would never actually say out loud. (Though it might be a good practice to not type it, either.) And yet, despite all the nuance, there are a few key approaches that create a widely agreed upon golden standard, such as active listening, having a clear purpose in what’s being said and, ultimately, showing respect for who is being spoken to. These simple guidelines can help a person be more engaging and charismatic, which can obviously be useful traits whether you’re looking to change the world or just connect with new people. [Read the story]( 2 [Denzel Washington recalls his time as a garbage man as he speaks of the privilege of being in movies]( Denzel Washington has always been successful in winning with movies such as "Training Days", "Flight" and "Safe House." However, the actor is as down to earth as they come. A video now making the rounds on Twitter features a snippet of a director's roundtable where the filmmakers were asked: "Just going back and looking at your life, before you became filmmakers, what was your first job and what was your worst job before you entered the film business?" Washington responded, "I was a garbage man. As a garbage man, you get eight hours' worth of work, but you can do it in three." He added during The Hollywood Reporter segment: "Post office, you get three hours of work and you can make it last eight. I did both. I liked being a garbage man better. But they were not bad jobs. And people talk about the difficulty in making a movie and I go, it's a movie, relax. I don't play that precious nonsense. Get out of here. You know, your son got shot in the face, that is difficult but making it a movie is a luxury, it is a gift. It is an opportunity. It's just a movie, it ain't that big a deal." [Read the story]( Did a friend forward this to you? [Subscribe here]( 3 [Discover the perfect blend of style and sustainability with Allbirds women's slip-ons]( When it comes to protecting the environment, the importance of sustainable fashion cannot be overstated. That’s because the fashion industry is responsible for significant carbon emissions, contributing to the worsening effects of climate change. By choosing eco-friendly brands, consumers can play their part in minimizing the environmental impact of their clothing and footwear choices. And thanks to [a company called Allbirds]( finding stylish, sustainable footwear is easier than ever. [Read the story]( 4 [Great video shows guys having intense reactions to how overpriced women's essential items are]( Debates around the societal differences between men and women are likely as old as humanity. There will always be a shift in expectations and personal needs, but some things never get old, like men discovering just how expensive it can be to be born with female reproductive organs. Or to simply exist as a woman in America, specifically. So for everyone's viewing pleasure, the folks at the React YouTube channel gathered up a handful of average guys and asked them to guess what certain traditionally female items were used for, how they are used and how much they cost. The results were a mix between impressive and amusing. [Read the story]( 5 [Perfectly delivered Monty Python-themed prom proposal might just top them all]( As someone who firmly believes that getting a [prom date]( shouldn't be anywhere near as exciting ask [asking someone for their hand in marriage]( I'm generally loath to share "promposal" videos. Not to be too bah humbug about it, but the elaborate asks have gotten out of hand, and creating a memorable prom proposal feels like a lot to put on already-pressured teens. That being said, one ["promposal" video making the rounds]( on Reddit and other social media sites is worth watching. Not only does it shine with its clever concept, deft delivery and wholesome hilarity, but the simple joy it evokes crosses generations. Monty Python has had a rather miraculous hold on several generations and ["Monty Python and the Holy Grail"]( in particular has been a cult classic for nearly 50 years. So seeing a group of high schoolers use it as inspiration for a prom proposal has people of all ages giggling with delight. [Read the story]( Find us on the World Wide Web: [Facebook]( [Instagram]( [Twitter]( [Website]( [LinkedIn]( Copyright © 2023 GOOD | Upworthy, All rights reserved. 1370 N St Andrews Pl, Los Angeles, CA 90028 You can [update your preferences]( or [unsubscribe from this list](.