The 3-step Harvard conversation trick that makes shy people more likable

September 03, 2024 | [Read Online]( [fb]( [fb]( [fb]( [fb](mailto:?subject=Post%20from%20the%20Upworthiest&body=New%20Post%3A%20%0A%0Ahttps%3A%2F%2Fnewsletter.upworthy.com%2Fp%2Fnew-post-2dd9) [The 3-step Harvard conversation trick that makes shy people more likable]( This will ease social anxiety at your next party. Many people, especially those who are [introverted and shy](, are uncomfortable making small talk with someone new, whether they’re at a party, work event, or just standing in line at the grocery store. However, [a Harvard study]( revealed a simple 3-step trick to make you more likable and conversations more comfortable. The researchers found that when approaching someone[you have never met](, asking a question and then 2 follow-up questions dramatically increases your likeability. The study was conducted by Harvard researchers and published in the [Journal of Personality and Social Psychology.]( [Read the story]( [Drew Barrymore makes 'vulnerable' post about taking away her tween daughter's phone]( "Within three months, I gathered the data of the texts and behavior. I was shocked by the results." As far as modern [parenting]( goes, there’s no tough love quandary quite so universal as setting [phone boundaries](. It can be difficult for parents to find the balance between being overly strict, potentially setting their kid’s up to be left out from friends groups, and being far too lax, exposing their still-developing minds to technology’s more harmful characteristics. Recently [Drew Barrymore]( reflected on her own decision to take away her daughter's phone in a "vulnerable" message, captioned “Phone Home,” shared to her Instagram account on Aug 30. [Read the story]( [A 6-year-old designed a custom t-shirt for his first day of school and it's seriously the best]( Thank you, Blake, for bringing some much-needed sunshine into our day. When 6-year-old Blake Rajahn showed up to his first grade classroom, he arrived bearing an uplifting a message for his fellow students. Blake's mother, Nikki Rajahn, runs a custom personalization business in Fayette County, Georgia, and she asked her son what kind of t-shirt he wanted for his first day of school. He could have chosen anything—his favorite sports star's number, a cool dragon, a witty saying—anything he wanted, she could make. Blake chose something unexpected—an orange t-shirt with a simple, sweet message for the other kids at his school to see. Five little words that might just mean the world to someone who reads them. [Read the story]( [Colts tight end Kylen Granson explains he wants to set good example with the ‘Guardian Cap’]( “You’re not soft for wearing one.” One of the big concerns about [American football]( is head-to-head contact. Even though the players are wearing helmets, slamming into another players helmet or being thrown to the ground during a play can cause significant trauma to the brain. While the NFL has banned helmet-to-helmet contact out of safety concerns, it can still happen and nothing can stop a player's head from contacting the hard astroturf or grass covered field. That's where the "Guardian Cap" comes in. The padded cap slips over the hard shell of a football helmet to add additional padding to the players head in hopes to reduce traumatic brain events caused by contact during football. [Read the story]( [fb]( [tw]( [ig]( [yt]( [tk]( [in]( Update your email preferences or unsubscribe [here]( © 2024 GOOD | Upworthy. All rights reserved 1370 N St Andrews Pl Los Angeles, CA 90028, United States of America [[beehiiv logo]Powered by beehiiv]( [Terms of Service](