10 signs you're a people-pleaser (and how to stop)

Jack Black cancels his tour after his bandmate's controversial comments. July 17, 2024 | [VIEW IN BROWSER]( [This is TODAY] Senate Democrats call on Sen. Bob Menendez to resign after he was found guilty on all counts in a corruption case. Plus, Jack Black cancels Tenacious D's tour after his bandmate's Trump comment, and 10 subtle signs you might be a people-pleaser.   The Latest   NJ Sen. Bob Menendez found guilty in corruption trial. Democrats tell him to 'resign or face expulsion.']( Sen. Bob Menendez, a Democrat from New Jersey, was [found guilty yesterday on 16 federal counts]( after his trial on charges of accepting bribes that included [cash, gold bars and a Mercedes-Benz](. Prosecutors said three businessmen paid bribes to Menendez and his wife in exchange for the senator taking actions to benefit them and the governments of Qatar and Egypt. Multiple Senate Democrats called on Menendez to resign, with some [endorsing expulsion]( if he doesn't step down. [Here's the latest](. [🎸 Jack Black canceled Tenacious D's tour after his bandmate's controversial Trump comment.]( "School of Rock" star Jack Black [canceled the remainder of the tour]( for his longtime band, Tenacious D, after bandmate Kyle Gass made a [controversial statement onstage]( Sunday about the attempted assassination of former President Trump. Black said he was "blindsided" by Gass' comment, while Gass called the line "highly inappropriate" in an apology on Instagram. [Here's what to know](. [🙏 10 subtle signs you're a people-pleaser, plus tips to start putting yourself first.]( you avoid conflict at all costs and apologize excessively? You may be a [people-pleaser](. Therapist and TODAY contributor Niro Feliciano explains why people-pleasing can be a bad thing that causes chronic stress and relationship issues. She also shared [10 signs you might be one](, and some simple steps to help break the habit. [See her advice](.   Shop TODAY   Budget-friendly deals, gift guides and more from Shop TODAY. [Prime Day ends tonight! These deals over 65% off are worth shopping now]( If you missed Day One of Amazon Prime Day, you’re still in luck! Our Shop TODAY team is sharing the steepest discounts that you can shop from brands like Coach and Laura Geller — all 65% off or more. [SHOP NOW](   Start TODAY   Achieve your life and health goals with easy tips. Therapist Dr. Anita Phillips shares how to start your day feeling empowered with 3 steps to reduce stress and boost your confidence. [READ MORE]( [GET THE NEWSLETTER](   What's For Dinner?   Allow us to do the meal-planning for you Keep it light for dinner amid the heat with some summer sandwiches like Italian tuna salad (above), peach and bacon caprese or Tortas de Milanesa de Pollo from chef Alejandra Ramos. [VIEW RECIPE]( [♡ SAVE RECIPE](   Daily Delight   A little pick-me-up before you go. Few people can say they were talented enough to play in the NBA. Nobody can say they were athletic enough to play basketball at the highest level and [beach volleyball at an Olympic level]( — until now. Six-foot-7 [former NBA forward Chase Budinger](, 36, will be chasing gold in Paris as one half of a duo with partner Miles Evans. “It just really shows my commitment and my dedication and my hard work to both sports,” he told TODAY.com. [Read how he made the switch](.   Thanks for letting us in your inbox! See you tomorrow. Written by Scott Stump | Edited by Philip Caulfield Enjoying This is TODAY? Invite a friend to[subscribe here.]( Send us Feedback Follow us on Facebook More TODAY Newsletters Copyright © 2024 TODAY | 30 Rockefeller Plaza, New York, NY 10112 [MANAGE SUBSCRIPTION]( | [UNSUBSCRIBE](listvar=sub_today) | [PRIVACY]( | [SEND FEEDBACK](