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[Update location]( or [View forecast]( EDITORâS NOTE Happy Saturday. After a few delightfully warm days, Iâm ready to accomplish all the things that Iâve been too seasonally depressed to do, like shopping for spring clothes. Iâve already snagged [a surprisingly chic long denim skirt]( (words I never thought Iâd say), but I think Iâll pass on [cable-knit underwear]( and this [$328 âVarsity Bluesâ sweater with fake whipped cream pasties](. Same with the limited-edition [Cheesecake Factory merch](. Speaking of food, another thing that caught my eye this week was Ina Gartenâs [bagel-cutting technique]( â which, trust me, is worse than you think. To soothe your brain after that, Iâd suggest reading [the comments section]( of [this Free People post](. Or, watching this video of [a wildlife center employee dressed as a fox](. â Melissa Goldberg / Senior Editor / Washington, DC [âAnita de Monte Laughs Lastâ by Xochitl Gonzalez]
"Anita de Monte Laughs Last" by Xochitl Gonzalez theSkimm "[Olga Dies Dreaming](" fans, assemble â Xochitl Gonzalezâs second novel is here. Initially set in 1998, it follows first-generation college student Raquel Toro as she embarks on her art history thesis at Brown. Thatâs when she discovers the story of Anita de Monte, a Cuban artist who died a mysterious death in 1985. The novel takes place along dual timelines, bringing us into Anitaâs complicated relationship with her much older, white male lover (who may or may not have killed her) and Raquelâs parallel experiences with the wealthy white men around her. Both womenâs stories raise powerful questions about race, privilege, and who belongs in elite worlds. We asked Gonzalez, who also authored the viral article â[The Fake Poor Bride](,â a few questions. Hereâs what she had to say⦠Q: â[Anita de Monte Laughs Last](â revolves around two protagonists: Anita, who was inspired by the late artist Ana Mendieta, and Raquel, who, like you, grew up in Brooklyn and studied art history at Brown. Who was more challenging to write? Gonzalez: I think Raquel was the hardest to write. First, because it is remarkably difficult to take away years of knowledge and experience you have accrued and return to your world view when everything was new. But also, in doing that, you have to leave her much more vulnerable. Every hurt is a fresh bruise. She has less defenses and is uncalloused but still in a calloused world. So emotionally, too, she was difficult. This was also in contrast to Anita â who has been literally burned by the fury of life, right? But she has the room to rage. And rage can be fun. Q: Whoâs one artist more people should know about and why? Gonzalez: Thereâs this wonderful photographer, [Tigre Escobar](, whose work I fell in love with while in Cuba researching this book. They are actually based between New York and Mexico City but were being shown at Ona Galleria and I had to take one of the photographs home. They document queer life and identity in Latin America and thereâs this just energy about them that is both unapologetic, but also tender. Q: [Reese Witherspoon]( recently selected âAnita de Monte Laughs Lastâ as her March book club pick. If you had your own book club, what book would you pick first? Gonzalez: â[Malas](â by Marcela Fuentes. Itâs set in 1990s Texas and somehow mixes [the myth of La Llorona]( with the story of a girl mourning her grandmotherâs recent death, all set to a punk-rock and Selena soundtrack. It has secrets and cover-ups and political intrigue and teen angst â and itâs a brilliant ride. [Sheet Pan Salmon Nicoise Salad]
Sheet-Pan Salads Deserve a Spot in Your Weeknight Dinner Rotation theSkimm In our humble opinion, thereâs one category of sheet-pan recipes that hasnât gotten the attention it deserves â and thatâs [sheet-pan salads](. Aside from being delicious and satisfyingly efficient, youâre not stuck cleaning a million bowls and pans. And if you combine all the ingredients on the pan itself, youâll never eat another sad piece of undressed lettuce. One standout option? This [Sheet Pan Salmon Nicoise Salad]( from The Defined Dishâs Alex Snodgrass, author of three cookbooks, including â[Dinner Tonight](.â Itâs got the same je ne sais quoi as the French classic, but requires much less fuss â making it impressive enough for company, but also easy enough for a weeknight. The Time Commitment: Fifty minutes, as long as you prep and assemble the remaining components while the salmon, green beans, and potatoes are roasting. Our Tip: If you donât love salmon, keep it classic with tuna â either [adding fresh steaks]( to the sheet pan or adding a canned variety just before serving. Not a fan of Chicken of the Sea? [Swap it for actual chicken]( or leave it out entirely. Other Takes: Just as anything can become a salad, any salad can become a sheet-pan salad â whether thatâs a [Chopped Salad with Chicken](, a [Deconstructed Chicken Caesar](, an [Italian bread salad]( (aka, a Panzanella), or [your go-to Sweetgreen order](. Not to mention, this combo of [roasted sweet potatoes, crispy chickpeas, and tangy feta]( is also worth considering. [Carmel-By-The-Sea, California]
This Is the Most Enchanting Coastal Town in California theSkimm If you dream of living inside a Nancy Meyers movie, you need to head to [Carmel-by-the-Sea](. Located on Californiaâs Monterey Peninsula, the one-square-mile village still has old-school charm (thereâs no street addresses or parking meters), along with enviable beach houses, top-notch shops and restaurants, and a growing wine scene. So while we canât promise youâll suddenly fall in love with a charming local, you can expect at least one perfectly roasted chicken and plenty of white wine. Just be sure to pack the white linen set you impulse purchased. ð Wainscoted walls painted pistachio, upholstered floral furniture, woven rugs, gas log fireplaces â the 34 rooms at [Le Petit Pali at Ocean Avenue]( tick all the coastal grandmother boxes. Not to mention, guests can also expect Diptyque bath products, mini-bars with gourmet snacks, and homemade cookies delivered nightly. ð Spend a few hours wandering around the storybook-like streets and hidden courtyards in the center of town. There, youâll come across independent boutiques selling [vintage designer clothing](, [imported British candies](, [curated books](, and more. Youâll also discover nearly [100 art galleries](, including the townâs oldest, [Carmel Art Association](, and [Weston Gallery](, known for photographs by artists like Ansel Adams, who had a home nearby. [Carmel-By-The-Sea, California] ð
Outside of town, youâll find sandy beaches, dramatic coastlines, and scenic drives â like this [jaw-dropping, 17-mile stretch]( that weaves through Pebble Beach. (Stop at Spanish Bay and Lone Cypress for the best views.) Another great option for outdoorsy types? [Point Lobos State Natural Reserve](, where you can hike the popular [Cypress Grove Trail](. ð´ Carmel probably isnât what comes to mind when you think of California wine â but [Carmel Valleyâs]( numerous tasting rooms are gaining popularity. For dinner, head over to [La Bicyclette](, a neighborhood bistro with French-Italian fare like risotto nero, steak au poivre, and wood-fired pizzas. Or, grab a table at [the Restaurant at Mission Ranch]( (owned by actor and former mayor Clint Eastwood), where you can listen to live music and watch sheep graze. [Ask An Expert Etiquette Edition] We asked you to vote on an etiquette question youâd like answered. The winner was: Q: Iâm in a wedding party, and the bride is insisting that everyone get their hair and makeup professionally done. I donât want to cause drama, but itâs expensive and not something Iâd normally do. Is there a way to say no?
[Two friends talking on a bench.] âOutside of the bridesmaid dress, anything that the bride is requiring should really be covered by the bride ⦠So if itâs on the bridesmaid to pay for her own hair and makeup, you should be able to say no. Thereâs a few different ways to do that, but itâs important to have [that] conversation as soon as possible ⦠in person or over the phone ⦠One way [to] say no [is] something like, âIâm really excited to be part of your wedding day, and I appreciate you organizing hair and makeup. But with the cost of the dress, travel, and lodging, I wonât be able to use the professional service and will be more comfortable doing my hair and makeup. Let me know if you have inspiration photos, and I can practice the look youâre going forâ ⦠[Or you could say] âThe service provider you listed is outside of my budget, but Iâd be happy to find something that fits within my budgetâ ⦠You could even be a little more to the point and say, âThe cost for hair and makeup you shared is out of my budget. Iâm happy to do my own hair and makeup.ââ [Courtney Opalko]
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