Weekend: I can play on any court

Skimm’d with a smartly equipped SUV — Check out what we Skimm’d for you today September 9, 2023 [Subscribe]( [Read in browser]( [theSkimm Logo] Daily Skimm WEEKEND [Together with]( [Buick]( Skimm’d with [a smartly equipped SUV]( “Just put a grill over it and make some hot dogs” — [One person’s comment]( on the size of a [17-wick scented candle](. That’s one way to fan the flames. theSkimm With Fashion Insiders on the Return of ‘Heroin Chic’: ‘It’s Quite Frightening’ [New York Fashion Week]( is here. And it’s putting the state of diversity and size inclusivity within the fashion industry in the spotlight. While the [body positivity movement]( has grown in the past decade, [the number of midsize or plus size models]( cast for last season’s fashion shows dropped by nearly a quarter. That’s [sparked further concern]( that the industry may be backsliding. Not to mention the recent rise of [Ozempic and #heroinchic]( on social media. To learn more, we spoke with former magazine editors [Ruthie Friedlander]( and [Christina Grasso](, who co-founded [The Chain](, a non-profit that offers support for individuals in the fashion industry who are struggling with or recovering from an eating disorder. Q: After years of criticism for promoting extreme thinness, the fashion industry [vowed to increase]( body diversity. How has it measured up? Friedlander: We can point to some amazing strides that people in the industry have made — whether it’s with casting, size inclusion, or general awareness of mental health issues. But I think the real question is: What lasting changes has the industry at large made? Very few. It’s still extremely expensive for brands to [make things in every size]. It’s still not normal for brands to have inclusive sizing. Until those types of changes are made, everything else is going to be a surface-level decision. That’s best seen by the fact that [the fashion industry] had [a few years] of this body positivity movement, and then last year, it was back to the so-called heroin chic look ... It’s quite frightening to see how the trends from last season are so drastically in contrast to the body positivity movement, which we now fear was just another trend. Q: What more could the fashion industry be doing? Friedlander: One of the editors I worked with [used to say], “The fish rots from the head down.” What that means is: It starts at the top. You need to have people in corporate who care about the effect that things like casting, size range, and photos [have on others] … And it’s about being willing to make a change, which can be as simple as tweaking your Instagram captions because you’re using a word that’s triggering. Or, making a real investment because you’re only creating up to a size eight and that’s not a realistic way to grow a business. Q: New York Fashion Week is in full swing. What are your thoughts on the event and its influence? Friedlander: I personally don’t do New York Fashion Week anymore. I find the entire experience extremely triggering … Until people start having real hard conversations ... I don’t have an interest in participating in it ... There is a huge amount of work to be done on the part of the editors and the people at the top in magazines, PR, and influencer marketing in terms of how they’re speaking to people. Q: Are there any brands or designers that you think are doing it right? Grasso: The first one that came to mind is Harris Reed, who has a namesake brand and is also the creative director for Nina Ricci ... Peter Do does a pretty good job. And Christian Siriano is another one. Psst, this interview has been edited for length and clarity. [Facebook]([Twitter]([Email](mailto:?body=Fashion insiders Ruthie Friedlander and Christina Grasso on the industry’s “frightening” trends #theSkimm%0A3Ftype%3Demailurl%26r%3DSKIMM%26utm_source%3Demail%26utm_medium%3Ddsshare%23custom) What's Happening ❤️ In relationships… Turns out, [movers]( are picking up on your love life — not just your furniture. Meanwhile, [new research]( shows that opposites may not attract after all. And guys are dressing up for date night with [track pants](, which, you know, tracks. Just make sure they don’t [run off with your shoes](. --------------------------------------------------------------- 🩺 In wellness… Forest bathing, facials, and bonding over menopause? No wonder women are signing up for [these retreats]( in a flash. Speaking of changes, you might want to [reset]( your sleep if you’re having trouble catching Zzz’s. Or, consult your[sleep personality](. Plus, [fitness trackers]( can have real benefits. Of course, that’s only if you actually wear and charge it. --------------------------------------------------------------- 🛍️ In shopping... [Wine bars and bookstores]( are mixing up the perfect blend — and offering a novel setting for your next [Instagram paperback pic](. Though, if cooking is more your story, take a page from these [Le Creuset supercollectors](. Oh and apparently, [IKEA shoppers]( prefer the store’s maze-like layout. We’re floored, too. Forward this to a friend. [Click here](mailto:?&subject=Check out this Daily Skimm Weekend newsletter&body=Check it out . Skimm Reads "[Happiness Falls](" by Angie Kim…Let’s start September with a mystery, shall we? This book opens with the disappearance of 20-year-old Mia’s father, Adam. Mia’s brother, Eugene — a 14-year-old who has autism and Angelman syndrome, the combination of which leaves him unable to speak — is the only person with Adam when he goes missing. So what happened? This novel is full of twists as it goes searching for an answer. It’s a page-turner that wrestles with some existential questions, and you won’t be able to put it down. Skimm Picks Here are today’s recs to help you live a smarter life… 1. A buildable, cream-to-powder eye shadow that’s impossible to mess up. [Merit](’s blendable formula has a soft matte finish that doesn’t crease or fall out, for layers of sheer color that stay smooth. Pro tip: Apply it with their Brush No. 2 for extra precision. Eye-conic.* [Add to cart]( --------------------------------------------------------------- 2. The books our editors read and loved in August. These are [the books]( we're talking about to anyone who'll listen, from a [cozy mystery]( to a collection of [modern fairy tales](. [Start reading]( --------------------------------------------------------------- 3. Floral bouquets, arrangements, and accessories for every plant lover. Having flowers in your home makes you happier. (It's just a fact.) Here are some of our [favorite bouquets]( to brighten up your space and mood. [Take a look]( Psst...looking for more discounts on brands Skimm'rs love? Check out all of our exclusive promo codes [here](. Weekend Escape *Slams laptop shut until Monday.* We know the feeling. And we’ve got some tips for escape. It’s almost game, set, match at the fourth and final Grand Slam tournament of the season (aka, [the US Open](). This afternoon, Coco Gauff and Aryna Sabalenka will go head-to-head for [the women’s title](, while Daniil Medvedev and Novak Djokovic will [face off]( tomorrow. Whether you’re watching the action live in the stadium or from your home court (read: couch), there’s plenty of ways to get your head in the game. For starters... - Catch up on what’s happened on the court. From the start, all eyes have been on 19-year-old [Coco Gauff](, who became the [first American teen]( to reach the finals since Serena Williams — and [served up]( a lesson in advocating for yourself along the way. Meanwhile, Americans Frances Tiafoe and Ben Shelton also caused a racket. Not only did they [make history](, but they were among the three US men who made it to [the quarterfinals](, which hadn’t happened since 2005. Oh and while this year’s US Open marked 50 years of [equal prize money](, it’s also the first time in decades that women and men used the [same ball](. - ...And on the sidelines, too. Speaking of balls, ever watch the [ball crew]( and think, Could I do that? We don’t mean to smash your dreams, but you [probably couldn’t](. Plus, a lot of [familiar faces]( showed some love-love for the game — including the Obamas, Tina Fey, Shonda Rhimes, Maren Morris, and the Biebers. - Get a taste of the action. If you’re planning to raise a glass to this year’s winners, make sure to have the US Open’s [signature cocktail]( — [the Honey Deuce]( — on hand. You could also take a swing at recreating some of the tournament’s [winning snacks](, like [fried chicken]( from Harlem’s iconic soul food restaurant [Melba](’s. Or, [King Souvlaki](’s legendary [lamb gyros](. Prefer something sweet? Van Leeuwen’s Honeycomb Fudge Slam ice cream is exclusive to the tournament, but its classic [Honeycomb flavor]( is sold at grocery stores nationwide. - Ace your look. Get into the spirit with the perfect match: [tenniscore](. That [includes]( preppy polos, pleated skirts, A-line dresses, and sweater vests — all in shades of white, cream, green, and navy. Not to mention accessories like visors, white sneakers, and, of course, [the tennis bracelet](. Men might also take some inspo from the players themselves — and sport [a sleeveless tank](. News Quiz Let’s see how well you kept up with the Daily Skimm this week. Which duo's new song has everyone going “Bongos?” A. Flo Milli and GloRilla B. Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion C. Ice Spice and Nicki Minaj D. Missy Elliott and Latto Check back tomorrow for the answer. But if you just need to know, you’ll find what you’re looking for [here](. Skimm'd by: Macy Alcido, Rasheeda Campbell, Maria del Carmen Corpus, Melissa Goldberg, and Clem Robineau --------------------------------------------------------------- Photos by Elsa via Getty Images, Hogarth, Tim Clayton - Corbis via Getty Images Design by theSkimm --------------------------------------------------------------- *PS: This is a sponsored post. Want to wake up with us every morning? [Subscribe to the Daily Skimm](. --------------------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------------------- Skimm'd something we missed? skimmthis@theSkimm.com Issues? 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