Show up for each other

Skimm’d while giving mom the gift of ME Time — Check out what we Skimm’d for you today May 12, 2023 [Subscribe]( [Read in browser]( [theSkimm Logo] Daily Skimm [Together with]( [Massage Envy]( Skimm’d while [giving mom the gift of ME Time]( “A bunny” — [What]('s been terrorizing an Iowa community. Guess you could call it a bad bunny. [Facebook]([Twitter]([Email](mailto:?body=Bunnies are cute and apparently vicious too #theSkimm%0A3Ftype%3Demailurl%26r%3DSKIMM%26utm_source%3Demail%26utm_medium%3Ddsshare%23custom) Top Story Jordan Neely The Story Manhattan prosecutors are filing a [criminal charge]( in Jordan Neely’s death. How did we get here? On May 1, [30-year-old Neely]( and 24-year-old Daniel Penny, a former Marine, crossed paths on an NYC subway train. Neely, who was experiencing homelessness and mental illness, allegedly began shouting that he was hungry and thirsty. Video showed Penny holding Neely in a chokehold, as two other passengers helped restrain him. Neely was later pronounced dead at a hospital. Police had originally questioned Penny but released him without charges. Days later, the NYC medical examiner [declared]( Neely’s death a homicide. Now, prosecutors say Penny faces a second-degree manslaughter charge and could be arraigned as soon as today. What are people saying? In a [statement](, Penny’s lawyers said they’re confident the former Marine would be “fully absolved of any wrongdoing.” It comes after they said Penny acted in self defense and “[never intended](" to cause harm. [Neely’s family]( said Penny “acted with indifference” towards Neely’s life and “needs to be in prison.” The delay in prosecuting Penny led to protests across NYC, with some demonstrators calling it an example of "[white vigilantism](" against Black Americans. (Neely was Black and Penny is white.) [NYC Mayor Eric Adams (D)]( said Neely’s death “is a tragedy that never should have happened.” If found guilty, Penny faces up to 15 years in prison. theSkimm Jordan Neely's death has put a spotlight on how the US cares for its vulnerable populations, including people experiencing mental illness and homelessness. Now, as the investigation continues, mental health advocates and politicians are calling for change so this doesn't happen again. Related Stories - [Who Was Jordan Neely?]( - [How America’s Homelessness Crisis Is Worsening]( - [Jordan Neely's Death Is Reminding Some New Yorkers Of This 1984 Case]( [Facebook]([Twitter]([Email](mailto:?body=The arrest of the man accused of killing Jordan Neely is expected today #theSkimm%0A3Ftype%3Demailurl%26r%3DSKIMM%26utm_source%3Demail%26utm_medium%3Ddsshare%23custom) And Also...This What’s saying ‘show me the money’... [The Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation](. Yesterday, the FDIC board said 113 of the nation's largest banks will have to pay up following the collapse of [Silicon Valley Bank and Signature Bank](. When the two regional banks failed, the FDIC swept in to protect all of the deposits from both banks (beyond the [$250,000 insurable amount](). However, those lifelines depleted $15.8 billion from the FDIC's Deposit Insurance Fund (DIF). In general, banks pay a fee to the FDIC to receive coverage in case of a bank failure. Now, the agency wants to recoup all of its losses by placing an extra fee on large banks with more than $5 billion in uninsured deposits (looking at you JP Morgan Chase and Bank of America). The board's plan is open to a 60-day comment period, before becoming official and going into effect June 2024. --------------------------------------------------------------- What’s making changes... [The FDA](. Yesterday, the agency loosened its restrictions on blood donations from gay and bisexual men. In the '80s, men who had sex with men were banned from donating blood amid concerns of HIV transferring into the blood supply. Over the years, the FDA has [made changes]( to ease the ban. Now, under the latest policy, gay and bisexual men in monogamous relationships will be allowed to donate blood without having to abstain from sex for three months. The FDA will also do away with a special questionnaire based on sexuality. However, those taking HIV medications like PrEP are still banned from donating. America's blood centers said this would treat people with the "fairness and respect they deserve." Critics say the PrEP limitation adds "unnecessary stigma." ...Oh and speaking of changes, yesterday, [the WHO]( said mpox is no longer a global health emergency. The news comes as the WHO has recorded a nearly 90% drop in mpox cases in the last three months. --------------------------------------------------------------- Where tensions are high… [Israel and Gaza](. Over the past three days, the Israeli military and Palestinian militants have been exchanging crossfire and airstrikes. At least 30 Palestinians — including women and children — and one Israeli man have died. The latest wave of violence began on Tuesday with Israeli strikes that killed three Islamic Jihad commanders. The Israel Defense Forces (IDF) said it was targeting Iranian-sponsored [Islamic Jihad]( and weapons allegedly stored by the extremist group. It comes as Islamic Jihad is emerging as an [influential]( group in the region. Now, Egypt — a recurring mediator — is trying to secure a ceasefire. National security adviser Jake Sullivan is also pushing for a ceasefire and said there is a need to “deescalate tensions and prevent further loss of life.” --------------------------------------------------------------- Who's leaving the nest... [Twitter CEO Elon Musk](. Yesterday, Musk tweeted that he's stepping down as the head of the social media platform in about six weeks to make room for a new female CEO. He didn't say who it was, but a little birdy said it could be [NBCUniversal’s Linda Yaccarino](. Musk said he plans to transition to “overseeing product, software & sysops” in the coming weeks. --------------------------------------------------------------- What’s pedaling back… [Peloton](. --------------------------------------------------------------- What’s saying ‘substitutions are allowed’... [Good Morning America](. [Facebook]([Twitter]([Email](mailto:?body=FDA is easing restrictions on blood donations. A survey found job satisfaction is at its highest. And GMA3 is welcoming new faces. #theSkimm%0A3Ftype%3Demailurl%26r%3DSKIMM%26utm_source%3Demail%26utm_medium%3Ddsshare%23custom) While We’re on the Subject... Curious about today’s subject line? (Show up for each other) We saved you a google. It’s a… A: Scene from Season 8 of “[RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars](.” B: Scene from Season 7 of “[Queer Eye](.” C: Lyric from the Jonas Brothers’ new album, “[The Album](.” Scroll for answer. Click [here]( to submit a subject line. Forward this to a friend. [Click here](mailto:?&subject=Check out this Daily Skimm newsletter&body=Check it out . On theSkimm Screen [Together with]([Book Club]( [Book Club]( Imagine going to a bachelorette party that doesn’t involve any spreadsheets or matching ‘Bride Tribe’ tees. Sounds great, right? Well, with tickets for this highly anticipated movie sequel, you can experience it for yourself. Meet…. [“Book Club: The Next Chapter”]( It’s…a laugh-’til-you-cry comedy about four best friends who take their book club to Italy for a bachelorette trip. And…it’s chock full of scandalous humor, misadventure, and romance. Plus…it stars Hollywood heavy-hitters Diane Keaton, Jane Fonda, Candice Bergen, and Mary Steenburgen. Psst…it’s in theaters *checks cal* today. So [grab your tix ASAP](. See you at the movies. State of Women 64% of millennial women surveyed are “tired of trying to be a super mom, super wife, and/ or super employee,” according to our State of Women Report conducted by The Harris Poll. 73% of millennial moms “feel overwhelmed by the demands of being a parent.” And 84% agree men should “step up and become advocates and partners.” The state of women today? It’s not working. With Mother’s Day this weekend, there’s no better time to demand what mothers actually need: real change. Tap into our resources and [dig deeper into our State of Women data](. [Send our stats]( to your friends. And [send this script]( to the men in your life for expert-backed tips on how they can help establish more equality. Here are today’s recs to help you live a smarter life… 1. Dog food so delicious, your pup will forget to beg at the table. Refresh your furry friend’s diet with this [human-grade kibble alternative](. 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Let us know how your friends, neighbors, coworkers (and yes, even you) are making career moves, checking off goals, or making an impact in the community. Keeping the pace…Amanda N (IL). She is running the New York City Marathon this year to raise awareness and [funds]( for elephants in Zimbabwe. (Some) Birthdays…theSkimm's Olva Timorry (MA), theSkimm's Martha Upton (NY), Kathryn Maguire (NY), Maureen McNamara (CO), Caitlin Estes (OR), Maria DiCamillo (CT), Julia Kresky (CA), Shanna Howard (CA), Taylor Hosey (OH), Kaitlin Rathe (CA), Diane DeLauro (FL), Kaitlin McGill (NY), Molly Venturini (WI), Sheri Tarrab (NJ), Alicia Muzzi (MA), Chad Gent (NE). PS: Paging all members of theSkimm. Reach out [here]( for a chance to be featured. Answer: B. Today’s subject line (Show up for each other) is from season 7 of “[Queer Eye](,” where your favorite makeover team tackles a variety of projects — including everyone's worst nightmare…a frat house. However, the ultimate shade is over at Paramount+ with the eighth season of “[RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars](. ” Although, if you're looking for [deep conversations at the Waffle House](, then check out the Jonas Brothers' ever-so-creative album titled, “[The Album](.” Sophie? Priyanka? Anything you'd like to say? Skimm'd by: Melanie De Lima, Anacaona Rodriguez Martinez, Chantal Vaca, Maria del Carmen Corpus, and Mariza Smajlaj --------------------------------------------------------------- Photos by Alexi Rosenfeld via Getty Images, Stocksy, Brand Partners Design by theSkimm --------------------------------------------------------------- *PS: This is a sponsored post. Want to wake up with us every morning? [Subscribe to the Daily Skimm](. --------------------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------------------------------------- Skimm'd something we missed? skimmthis@theSkimm.com Issues? 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