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Design: theSkimm | Photo: Getty Images Raising Awareness: Saturday, October 15, is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day â which honors the individuals and families affected by miscarriage, stillbirth, and other losses. The Story The [loss of a pregnancy]( or infant is one many people have experienced firsthand â even if it doesnât seem like it. [Miscarriages]( (which technically means the loss of a pregnancy before 20 weeks) are most common, affecting up to [1 in 4]( known pregancies. Stillbirths (or the loss of a pregnancy at 20 weeks or later) happen in about [1 in every 175]( births. And infant loss affects [thousands of people]( every year, with causes ranging from [SIDS]( to [pregnancy complications](. I had no idea. Thatâs because, often, people process in silence. Todayâs all about bringing the issue front and center â so people can feel more comfortable talking about it, whether in private or in public. And so friends and family can help in a way thatâs most supportive. Because, letâs be honest, it can sometimes be hard to know what to do or say. Thatâs why we asked Skimmârs whoâve experienced this kind of loss to share what helped⦠- Talk about it. Many said it was helpful to hear from other people who've had a similar experience. Others wished that talking about miscarriage was more common, so they could feel more at ease sharing their stories. That goes for men, too, who may also be grieving. - Respond mindfully. For many, phrases like, âYou arenât alone,â âItâs not your fault,â âIâm sorry,â âItâs okay not to be okay,â and âI love you, and Iâm here for youâ are important to hear. (As a general rule, itâs best to follow the personâs lead, but some who lost their infant said they also appreciated when people mentioned their childâs name or talked about their baby.) Others shared a few phrases that, while well-intentioned, can feel minimizing or hurtful, like, âIf it was meant to be, itâll happenâ or âYou can try again.â - Create time and space in other ways. Thoughtful actions (think: offering to walk their dog, bringing them dinner, doing their laundry) can make a big difference. Because it gives them additional time to process. And grieving can make day-to-day tasks especially tough. - Make sure to check in, and keep checking in. Many said it helped when friends and family asked how they were doing regularly (think: every few weeks, or even more often if youâre close) without the pressure to respond. Remember, grieving can be a long process. theSkimm It can sometimes be tough to know how to give and receive support after a pregnancy or infant loss. But the truth is that these experiences are much more common than many realize. So consider today a reminder to lift one another up â and shine a light on the issue all year long. PS: If youâve experienced the loss of a pregnancy or infant, you can call or text the [Postpartum Support International HelpLine]( at 1-800-944-4773 for resources. [Facebook]([Twitter]([Email](mailto:?body=Today is National Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day #theSkimm%0A3Ftype%3Demailurl%26r%3DSKIMM%26utm_source%3Demail%26utm_medium%3Ddsshare%23custom) Bookmark'd Here's a look at the reads weâve saved, texted, and emailed to our friends⦠[How Colleen Hoover Rose to Rule the Best-Seller List](â¦rather than taking a page from someoneâs playbook, the cult-favorite author is paving her own way in the publishing world. [The Hidden Power of Coincidences](â¦odds are, youâll gain something from your next what-are-the-chances moment. [How Did Healing Ourselves Get So Exhausting?](...why wellness feels like yet another thing on your to-do list. Downtime Design: theSkimm | Photo: Getty Images Downtime doesnât have to mean doing nothing. Hereâs one idea for making the most of your weekend. A great weekend is as easy as apple pie â particularly now that apple picking season is in full swing. So grab your flannel and head to [your local orchard](, where youâll likely find a wide variety of options (plus, apple cider doughnuts). For something sweet, check out Fuji, Empire, or Golden Delicious. For something tart, try Jonathan or Granny Smith. Or, if you prefer a bit of both, look for Honeycrisp, Braeburn, or Pink Lady. Worth noting: Youâll also be able to find many of these at any farmersâ market or grocery store. Now, if youâre not sure what to do with your bounty, there are plenty of ways to satisfy your apple-a-day quota. You could whip up baked apple oatmeal or spiced apple pancakes for [breakfast](. You can add them to [sandwiches]( (see: apple, cheddar, and chicken melts), [salads]( (see: the kale salad), and even [soups]( (see: avocado and green apple gazpacho). And, of course, thereâs no shortage of [apple desserts](. Think: caramels and cobblers, tarts and turnovers, and â yes â plenty of pies. Skimm Picks Here are todayâs recs to help you live a smarter life⦠1. A must-have if youâve been tossing and turning. Having trouble sleeping? Add [this extremely comfy, cooling-infused memory foam pillow]( to your bedtime routine. You can adjust it as you move to your side, stomach, or back. Plus Skimmârs [get a special deal.]( Muuuch better.* 2. A major weekend sale at Everlane. For just a short time, full-priced items will be [20% off sitewide](. So get yourself some new jeans, like this [high-rise pair](. Go go go. *PS: This is a sponsored post. Skimm More More Skimm, more knowledge. Hereâs what else we've covered⦠- Up late for no reason? 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