Weekend: A Genius Brownie Recipe 🍫

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Perhaps that explains why I currently have Jimmy John’s [silk scarf/shoulder bag/sandwich wrap]( in my cart. — Melissa Goldberg / Senior Editor / Washington, DC [READ: “Worry” by Alexandra Tanner] “Worry” by Alexandra Tanner theSkimm Alert: A genuinely funny book has entered the chat. Jules is 28. She has an MFA in fiction, an apartment in Brooklyn, and a disappointing day job. Then her younger sister, Poppy, comes to live with her, and things get marginally more interesting (Poppy adopts a dog named Amy Klobuchar, for one). This debut novel’s observations about life in 2019 — and in your twenties — are darkly hilarious and almost too spot on. We asked Alexandra Tanner a few questions. Here’s what she had to say… Q: Just like Jules, your younger sibling also lived with you. How did your experience compare to that of Jules and Poppy? Tanner: My sibling came to crash in my 200-square-foot West Village studio for five months back in 2016 — it was beautiful and unbearable. I had a daybed with a trundle underneath and that was how we slept every night, basically on top of each other. The refrigerator door was broken, and we’d both have to lift it off and then haul it back on, together, anytime we wanted to get something out. I was working retail, they were working at a news network. We ate pasta like four nights a week. We were stepping all over each other’s lives literally and metaphorically — but when we look back on it now, we look back with real tenderness. Q: What are a few things that, without a doubt, got you through the process of writing “[Worry](”? Tanner: The music of [Ornette Coleman]( and [Ichiko Aoba](, [this candle](, and getting some [good moody lighting]( in my office. Q: If you had to trade places with a real or fictional sibling for six months, who would you choose and why? Tanner: Elizabeth Olsen, so that I could get a bunch of free sh*t from The Row. Q: What’s the best book you’ve read recently? Tanner: I found myself unbelievably moved and thrilled by Marie-Helene Bertino’s newest novel, “[Beautyland](” … [which is] about a girl named Adina who’s born in Philadelphia in the 1970s and grows up believing that she’s an alien who’s been sent to Earth to report on humanity, the conditions of planet Earth, and whether it might make a good home for her people … I heard [Bertino] say in an interview that she wrote with the goal of making the familiar feel strange and mystifying, and she does it with such warmth and humor. [EAT] A Single-Serving Brownie Recipe for Emergency Chocolate Cravings theSkimm Picture it: You’ve had a long day and want to treat yourself to something a bit more exciting than whatever random and probably expired candy you can find. But you’re also not looking to make a batch of anything because (a) that sounds like a project and (b) you don’t need a batch of anything. You just need one freshly baked, perfectly gooey brownie — which is what you’ll get with Broma Bakery’s [Single Serve Fudgy Brownie](. It’s simple to make, doesn’t require any fancy equipment, and you’ll technically be left with two brownies, which you can share with someone else…or not. The Time Commitment: Just over 20 minutes — which, for those keeping track, is less than it takes to make a normal batch of brownies. Even sweeter? There’s just five minutes of prep. Our Tip: The recipe gives you the option of adding chocolate chips just before baking. But if you’re feeling wild, you can replace some (or all) of the chocolate chips with dried fruit, coconut flakes, peanut butter chips, or toffee bits. Other Takes: More of a cookie person? There are also recipes for a [Single-Serving Chocolate Chip Cookie](, a [Giant Sugar Cookie](, or a [Double Chocolate Cookie](. Same with [a wide variety of other desserts](, including a [Chocolate Cupcake](, a [Fruit Crisp](, a [Cinnamon Roll](, a [Strawberry Shortcake](, and a [Deep Dish S’mores Bowl](. Not to mention, [all those viral mug cakes](. [GO: Kansas City, Missouri] It’s Time To Add Kansas City to Your Travel Bucket List theSkimm Kansas City, Missouri is [having a moment](…and not just because of Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce. While “Traylor” undoubtedly boosted the city’s profile ([and economy](), KC was already [earning many new fans](, thanks to two new entertainment districts (see: [Pennway Point]( and [Rock Island Bridge](), a [history-making women’s sports stadium](, and an evolving culinary scene. 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Expect lots of exposed brick walls and industrial-chic decor, along with an on-site art gallery, a cafe, and “[one of the best rooftop bars in the city](.” [Ask An Expert Etiquette Edition] We asked you to vote on an etiquette question you’d like answered. The winner was: Q: I invited a friend to a concert, and she’s being really noncommittal. I feel weird giving her a hard deadline, but I also want to be able to invite someone else, if needed. How should I handle this? [Woman looking at phone while standing in front of computer and datebook] “More often than not the person who can’t commit is either buying time to say no because they are uncomfortable being honest or they are shopping their options [and are] waiting to see if something more appealing will come along. If the [date] is getting close, you can call [them and] ask, ‘Have you given the concert any more thought?’ If they [still] can’t commit, you can say, ‘I completely understand. 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