What do you do when your marriage is not romantic?

Here’s what WE would do and why. [image] {NAME}, What do you do when your marriage is not romantic? When you miss what you used to have? Our answer…. [image]( Romance is the product of the effort you put in, not just your expectations of what you should be receiving. Happiness is a choice, not an outcome. Because love is a choice, not just a feeling. You decide your way into happiness- you won’t just stumble into it. But I promise you, happily ever after is NOT just a fairytale! It can be your reality- if you want it and create it. How about about a little romance evaluation: - Are you still flirting? - Do you tease each other? - Do you write playful love notes? - Do you send flirtatious text messages? - Do you have private “inside jokes?” - Do you use anticipation? - Do you surprise each other? - Do you spoil each other? - Do you feel totally cherished and adored? Yes, you are husband and wife. But you should never stop acting like boyfriend and girlfriend. Romancing your spouse is an investment you continually need to make. After all, we want happily EVER after- not just happily for a couple of years after. ;) NEVER stop pursuing each other. NEVER stop making each other feel special. Now at this point you might be thinking…. “Well that’s nice and all, but easier said than done, Tara!” Or…. “I totally agree but how can I get my SPOUSE on board? It takes two people!” I hear you! That might all sound great in theory but finding the time to make it actually happen is often where we run into trouble. We are all busy. We have a million things on our plates. And it’s soooo much easier if your spouse is “on board” too! Well… no more excuses… If you have 10 minutes… that’s all you and your spouse need to reclaim the romance and take your marriage to the next level!! The 10 Minute Marriage Challenge is a text message service for couples. These text challenges take 10 minutes or less since the ideas are already thought out for you and sent straight to your phone. So even the busiest of couples can participate. - No logging in anywhere. - No scrolling through blog posts or social media. - No printing or cutting. - Just easy ideas that fit your busy lifestyle sent straight to you. And it gets even better! Besides being convenient and realistic, it is also tailored for both husbands AND wives. So you don’t have to worry about trying to read each other’s minds. - WIVES, if you wish your husband was more romantic- well, you’re in luck! Our “HIS” version is full of ideas written by women. Hey, we know what we want and we’re going to tell your men exactly what they need to do to make you swoon. - HUSBANDS, don’t worry- we didn’t leave you out! Our “HER” version is full of ideas submitted by men. If you didn’t join the last challenge, here’s a quick explanation of how it all works… - For 3 months, every Tuesday and Thursday, HUSBANDS will complete a text challenge catered specifically to showing their wife love. - For those same 3 months, every Wednesday and Friday, WIVES will complete a text challenge to show their husband love. - With our text service, you and your sweetie are loving, serving, connecting, enjoying, and ROMANCING each other… in less than 10 minutes a day, FOUR days a week. - Aaaand we are even throwing in bonus date idea texts each Monday that you can take turns planning for Friday! [MORE INFO ON 10 MINUTE MARRIAGE CHALLENGE!](=) It's the little things that brought the butterflies in the first place. And it's those same small things that are the first to be forgotten when we get comfortable and busy. But getting them back is totally possible- and it can be a whole lotta FUN too! I strongly believe that small, simple things can have a big, lasting impact! And THAT is really the secret sauce to a happy marriage. It really is the little things that mean the most. [I WANT 10MMC TEXTS! (U.S. Only)](=) [I WANT 10MMC EMAILS! (International Challengers)]() Use coupon code 25OFF to claim 25% off at checkout. *CODE EXPIRES March 26th at midnight mountain time!! [Danica ] P.S. If you have any questions at all, send them to [divas@thedatingdivas.com.](=) [Unsubscribe]( The Dating Divas PO BOX 1038 Kaysville, Utah 84037 United States