Frustrated by your boss? How curiosity can cure it | Managers won't trust you if you throw them under the bus | Focus on these 5 areas to grow leadership skills
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Working for a frustrating boss early in his career taught Steve Keating that reacting by being a lousy team member won't improve the boss, but seeking instead to fill in the gaps with your own skills can improve everyone's experience. Being frustrated, Keating writes, "is a choice," and he recommends working to understand those who frustrate you through curiosity instead of choosing to criticize them or complain. Put it into practice: If you have a frustrating boss, look for their strengths instead of concentrating on their weaknesses, Keating recommends. Then, double your efforts to fill in the gaps with the skills you have to become even more of an asset to your company. Full Story: [LeadToday]( (1/23)
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Not backing up decisions of your direct reports or abandoning them when they need your support destroys trust, sows confusion and could lead to good managers finding a new job, writes Kate Nasser. "Managers who trust that their leader is authentic focus on results instead of looking over their shoulders to see if the leader is retreating," Nasser writes. Put it into practice: Do a self-assessment of your leadership style and identify your areas of weakness. Do you avoid conflict? Are you slacking off in communicating with your direct reports? If so, double down on being open and accountable. Full Story: [Kate Nasser]( (1/22)
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Leaders need to dedicate themselves to nurturing five areas of their capability including their responsibility to shareholders, creating a sense of purpose for their employees and pursing their own personal growth, writes Alaina Love. "As you navigate the personal growth leadership capability, be sure to confer with trusted individuals in your professional and personal circles," Love writes. Put it into practice: Create a system to track all five areas, and measure your progress against your intentions to hold yourself accountable, Love recommends. Full Story: [SmartBrief/Leadership]( (1/23)
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Get as many members of your team as possible to give their input in meetings or other settings by calling on them if they haven't spoken up in awhile, allowing them to finish their thought if they were interrupted and noticing who's missing and soliciting their ideas before moving forward, writes David Dye. "More often, people are absorbed in their usual way of doing things and didn't think about who else would have a meaningful perspective on the decision," Dye writes. Put it into practice: Review some of the questions Dye offers and use them at the next meeting or brainstorming session. If the same people stay silent time after time, it may warrant a private meeting to uncover any deeper issues. Full Story: [Let's Grow Leaders]( (1/23)
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Steve Keating has [some valuable advice]( today on how to deal with a boss that frustrates you. I've had some of those kinds of bosses in the past, especially the ones that thrive on micromanaging their team members. I wish I had known Steve's wisdom back then on how to change my view of these managers to appreciate their strengths and seek to fill in their areas of weakness with my own skills. Most often, I did what most of us do -- I left that boss, even when I enjoyed working for the company itself. How do you handle frustrating bosses? [Share your strategies](mailto:candace.chellew@futurenet.com)! If this newsletter helps you, please tell your colleagues, friends or anyone who can benefit. Forward them this email, or [send this link](. What topics do you see in your daily work that I should know about? Do you have praise? Criticism? [Drop me a note](mailto:candace.chellew@futurenet.com). And don't forget to send me photos of your pets, your office and where you spend your time off.
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