When you're stressed at work, learn to ride the wave

When you're stressed at work, learn to ride the wave | practice (split each time) | Want more gravitas as a leader? Ask these questions Created for {EMAIL} | [{NAME}]( at [{NAME}]( [For more relevant content - Update Your Profile]( | [Web Version]( September 17, 2024 CONNECT WITH SMARTBRIEF  [LinkedIn]( [Facebook]( [X]( [SmartBrief on Leadership]( Innovative Ideas. Ahead of the Curve. [SIGN UP]( ⋅ [SHARE]( ADVERTISEMENT Leading the Way [] [When you're stressed at work, learn to ride the wave]( [When you're stressed at work, learn to ride the wave]( (Peter Dazeley/Getty Images) It can sometimes be easy to get upset at work, but before lashing out, Lauren Florko, an industrial/organizational psychologist and founder of Triple Threat Consulting, recommends pausing to label your feelings -- be it anger or frustration -- then consider the consequences of acting and take a moment to calm down by visualizing your stress as a wave that swells and recedes. "It's not about shutting down feelings," Florko writes. "It's about learning how to ride them without letting them sweep you away." Full Story: [Psychology Today]( (9/15) [LinkedIn]( [X]( [Facebook]( [Email]( [] Put it into practice: Another way to calm your stress at work is [to practice progressive muscle relaxation]( that "involves systematically tightening and then loosening your muscles bit by bit," writes Florko, who outlines how to do it. "It's a great way to shift your focus from your emotions to your body." Berkeley Executive Leadership Program Enhance your leadership skill set and transform your career. Join us for our globally recognized five-day Berkeley Executive Leadership Program. Learn from our renowned UC Berkeley Haas faculty alongside a global cohort of leaders. [LEARN MORE]( ADVERTISEMENT: [] SmartBrief on Leadership [] [Want more gravitas as a leader? Ask these questions]( [Want more gravitas as a leader? 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The most powerful is an even, deep breathing exercise that involves inhaling slowly for four to five counts and exhaling for the same amount of time, preferably through your nose. This practice lowers your heart rate and eases anxiety. Another practice is the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method, which involves looking around the room and identifying five things you see, four things you can touch, three things you hear, two things you smell and one thing you taste. Like the progressive muscle relaxation technique, this gets you out of your emotions and into your body. My other favorite technique, when it's possible, is to take a walk. Taking a break from the situation can release tension and clear your mind so you're feeling refreshed whenever you have to return to the office. What calming activities work for you? [Let me know, and we'll share them tomorrow](mailto:candace.chellew@futurenet.com)! If this newsletter helps you, please tell your colleagues, friends or anyone who can benefit. 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