I’m A Hot Mess Mom, But I’m (Mostly) Ok With It

You gotta own it. [Scary Mommy](%2F%2Fscarymommy.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=35577%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/01000182cc8bd5b2-9defb465-f968-46e6-b8fb-20256c41f2f9-000000/jKqeqsZG9tgXEYxtJoX7DsqO1d4=284) Aug 23, 2022 %2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fim-a-hot-mess-mom-but-im-mostly-ok-with-it%3Futm_campaign=35577%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/01000182cc8bd5b2-9defb465-f968-46e6-b8fb-20256c41f2f9-000000/tfN2-gnD4UjozPNTEdt4-bJTI3U=284 [I’m A Hot Mess Mom, But I’m (Mostly) Ok With It](%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fim-a-hot-mess-mom-but-im-mostly-ok-with-it%3Futm_campaign=35577%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/2/01000182cc8bd5b2-9defb465-f968-46e6-b8fb-20256c41f2f9-000000/SiHZ5VWjw-iHfwaREAAhxyt4ILg=284) Anybody else worried about returning to the school-year grind or facing it for the very first time? For a little inspiration, please read this piece by CJ Kelsey, who is admitting the truth as her kids start back to class: “I’m a hot mess mom. I wish I was a Pinterest mom, a PTA mom. A soccer or a dance mom. But we don’t do consistent extracurricular activities so I can’t adopt any of those labels. So for now I’m just the messy mom. I’m self-aware enough to know this, and I’ve almost made my peace with it.” Sometimes, you’ve just gotta own it. 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