Here’s The Ugly Truth About Pooping After Four Kids

Time for some very, very real talk. [Scary Mommy](%2F%2Fscarymommy.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=30135%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/01000181023fa350-6b7f6ee3-16e2-489a-801f-918d06dd3879-000000/jJ8twhtgfyVyfsSAXIWx-5O1B8E=271) May 26, 2022 %2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Flifestyle%2Fheres-the-ugly-truth-about-pooping-after-four-kids%3Futm_campaign=30135%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/01000181023fa350-6b7f6ee3-16e2-489a-801f-918d06dd3879-000000/s_fg3-689R8dS-Ccve0wEW5cFZs=271 [Here’s The Ugly Truth About Pooping After Four Kids](%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Flifestyle%2Fheres-the-ugly-truth-about-pooping-after-four-kids%3Futm_campaign=30135%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/2/01000181023fa350-6b7f6ee3-16e2-489a-801f-918d06dd3879-000000/Hupnr6dHDLXzKaGcGz5GIwl4WC4=271) Are you ready to get extremely real? Well, today we’ve got an anonymous mom talking about the current state of her pelvic floor: “Here I am, sitting on the porcelain throne after pushing out four beautiful babies over a period of eight years, and the reality of this scenario is — well — it’s bad.” She’s dealing with a condition called “rectocele,” a specific type of pelvic prolapse, and she wants you to know about it — because we should all be talking about this stuff: “These issues we have to keep quiet about are important. If people talked about them, we could all be more prepared.” Maybe, too, we could force modern medicine to come up with some better options. It’s brutally honest – and hysterically funny too. 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