I Have Major Body Issues And I Am Terrified My Daughters Will Too

Maybe my own past holds the key. %2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fdp%2FB0919V4MR9%2Fref=apubna_mq_bs_30456_nl_dp_2_2204%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/RW9qQu6SAwxLTwT5iw4Sb51XY80=268 [Scary Mommy](%2F%2Fscarymommy.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/Se8ZWJLlVMasjRpWJDWVniBAuuE=268) Apr 27, 2022 %2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fmajor-body-issues-terrified-daughter-will-to%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/RMUCeuqw90M41JzK-wk4jHsvkRw=268 [I Have Major Body Issues And I Am Terrified My Daughters Will Too](%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fmajor-body-issues-terrified-daughter-will-to%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/2/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/EJaAKj4eVEAJWxEVyLykX6l0Ou0=268) Today we have a raw and honest piece from Samm Burnham Davidson about her fear that her daughters will inherit her body image issues. It opens with her four-year-old checking herself out in the mirror while wearing a new hand-me-down and concluding: “Wow. I am so beautiful.” Davidson needed a moment, because her reaction was so complicated: “I’m so proud that I haven’t f*cked her up yet, but so worried that I will. Life has yet to beat the self-love out of her, but I’m sad knowing that will come.” She can’t even imagine feeling the same way — and she wants to do whatever she can to protect that instinct in her daughter. “After 37 years and four kids, admiring my own reflection feels near impossible,” she admits. “But maybe if I figure out how I got here, I can create a better path for her.” — Kelly Faircloth, Executive Editor [READ MORE](%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fmajor-body-issues-terrified-daughter-will-to%2F%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/8EuiGNk6bUrAugqrAGJkRRnQVcM=268) %2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2Fdp%2FB0919V4MR9%2Fref=apubna_mq_bs_30456_nl_dp_2_2204%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/2/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/GMLyz7bt21TmMBSZjj7KhgUAIvw=268 [Latest] [Latest] %2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fmom-strategy-for-anger-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/0VQ9djaAFyuYDlsqZCiN5WyxY4s=268 PARENTING WITH RESPECT [This Mom Found The Perfect Phrase To Help Kids Deal With Their Anger](%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fmom-strategy-for-anger-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/2/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/qgBQoX5gzPSnja8KXG-aJU3kA5o=268) “I found a phrase that helps my daughter to express her anger,” she explained. “I still want to teach her that anger is not a bad thing.” [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fmom-strategy-for-anger-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/3/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/XFDjjgoqrsfdmJKNyu6qJzvxBhk=268) %2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fwhen-your-brother-has-autism%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/1/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/YUZ8AH31F-CuFCkDCSzc6k-q7XE=268 MENTAL HEALTH [I Had No Idea How My Son’s Autism Would Affect His Little Sister](%2F%2Fwww.scarymommy.com%2Fparenting%2Fwhen-your-brother-has-autism%3Futm_campaign=28010%26utm_medium=scaryMommyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=33bffe7e-9403-4594-a37e-5a45d2b75c10/2/010001806ce1f269-1595b500-f750-46af-96fa-4031ca06c88e-000000/el7n_NoDxhBpbR5eU30ZIPowtcs=268) “Elle also began to refuse to go to school, and at night she couldn’t sleep from worrying about the next day. 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