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[Read in your browser here.](=) â I Hate Writing (And So Will You) âThe opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.â â Ellie Wiesel To commit to loving something is to commit to sometimes hating it. Itâs easy to love your daily writing routine when youâre feeling motivated and inspired and just as easy to hate it when youâre tired, busy at work, or crushed by the burdens of life. For writers, the question isnât: âHow do I stay committed when Iâm in love with my work?â The question is: âHow do I stay committed when I temporarily hate it?â Temporary is the key word there. If youâre indifferent about a piece of writing or it feels like busy work to you, stop working on it. And if you permanently hate writing, donât write. Cut the masochism and do something else. When I hate writing, itâs because I love it so much. An experienced writer is somebody who knows when the hatred is temporary. The week I spent putting finishing touches on [Peter Thielâs Religion](=) was one of the most grueling weeks of my career. I cared so much about that piece. It drove me nuts â every word, every sentence, every anecdote. At times, the flames of frustration burned so brightly that I wondered why I even tried to write it in the first place. Because I needed to write it. Thatâs why. Nobody had really connected the dots between Thielâs faith and his business philosophy, and I felt called to do it. I loved and hated writing that piece, but I was never indifferent about it. It taught me a lesson too. The difference between a âwriterâ and âsomebody who writesâ is the difference between showing up on a schedule and only showing up when youâre inspired. If you insist on always loving the craft, youâll quit in the face of turmoil. Greatness isnât always rainbows and butterflies. Great musicians practice their scales even when their fingers are calloused. [Great writers]() get their daily words in even when it means waking up at 5am to get some alone time before the kids wake up. [Great bodybuilders]() push through their final set even when their muscles are screaming and their veins are about to explode. To be [disciplined]() is to resist your short-term emotional whims in service of your long-term goals. Let everlasting love triumph over the temptress of temporary hate. Have a creative week, [David Perell Logo 2x]
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