The Evening: A look inside Al-Shifa Hospital

Also, OpenAI pushed out Sam Altman, its high-profile C.E.O. 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Here’s the latest at the end of Friday. - A glimpse inside wartime Gaza - Sam Altman pushed out of OpenAI - Plus, how to prepare for Thanksgiving [A soldier holding a gun and looking to the side while a second has his back to the camera. Buildings stand in the darkness in the background.](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0T0aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNy93b3JsZC9taWRkbGVlYXN0L25vcnRoZXJuLWdhemEtaXNyYWVsLWhhbWFzLXdhci1ydWlucy5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~) Israeli soldiers escorted journalists to the grounds of Al-Shifa Hospital in Gaza City. Daniel Berehulak/The New York Times Times reporters got a rare glimpse of Gaza’s largest hospital Early this morning, three of my colleagues visited Al-Shifa Hospital, Gaza’s largest medical complex, which has become [central to the war between Israel and Hamas](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0ToaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNy93b3JsZC9taWRkbGVlYXN0L2lzcmFlbC1nYXphLXR1bm5lbC1oYW1hcy5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~). There, the Israeli military escorted them to a stone-and-concrete shaft with a staircase descending into the earth. It was evidence, Israeli officials asserted, of a Hamas military facility under the hospital. But a commander said that the forces, fearing booby traps, had not ventured down the shaft. The controlled visit did not settle the question of whether Hamas had been using Al-Shifa to hide weapons and command centers, as Israel has said. But it did offer my colleagues a rare opportunity to witness the wartime conditions inside Gaza City. Our Jerusalem bureau chief, Patrick Kingsley, [described houses flattened like playing cards](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0T0aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNy93b3JsZC9taWRkbGVlYXN0L25vcnRoZXJuLWdhemEtaXNyYWVsLWhhbWFzLXdhci1ydWlucy5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~), and a city utterly disfigured. They drove into a neighborhood Patrick had visited a dozen times over the past three years, yet he could hardly recognize it. “I could not find the fish market,” Patrick wrote. “The apartment blocks, I now realized, had been wrecked by shelling or strikes. The road had vanished, churned into a sandy, rutted track by the hundreds of Israeli tanks and armored vehicles that have fanned out across the territory.” As troops searched Al-Shifa for a third day, Israel announced that it would allow limited shipments of fuel to the enclave to avoid “epidemics” amid the wreckage of the territory. [The head and shoulders of Sam Altman, wearing a beige crew-neck sweater and looking at the camera. ](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TiaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNy90ZWNobm9sb2d5L29wZW5haS1zYW0tYWx0bWFuLW91c3RlZC5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~) Sam Altman helped found OpenAI in 2015. Jim Wilson/The New York Times OpenAI pushed out Sam Altman, its high-profile C.E.O. Sam Altman, the chief executive of OpenAI who became the face of the tech industry’s artificial intelligence boom, was [pushed out by the company’s board of directors](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TiaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNy90ZWNobm9sb2d5L29wZW5haS1zYW0tYWx0bWFuLW91c3RlZC5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~), OpenAI said. It was not immediately clear what had led to the decision, but the company said that if followed a review process, “which concluded that he was not consistently candid in his communications with the board, hindering its ability to exercise its responsibilities.” ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TzaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNi93b3JsZC9hbWVyaWNhcy9hcmdlbnRpbmEtamF2aWVyLW1pbGVpLWVsZWN0aW9uLWZyYXVkLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9NTcmZW1jPWVkaXRfbmVfMjAyMzExMTcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9MTA4MDM0Jm5sPXRoZS1ldmVuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0xNTAzNjcmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmVWyupXZTRYJIRSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAw~~ Javier Milei, a far-right presidential candidate. Sarah Pabst for The New York Times A Latin American leader adopts Trump’s playbook In Argentina’s runoff presidential election on Sunday, Sergio Massa, the center-left economy minister, is running against Javier Milei, a far-right libertarian economist who has [embraced comparisons to Donald Trump](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TzaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNi93b3JsZC9hbWVyaWNhcy9hcmdlbnRpbmEtamF2aWVyLW1pbGVpLWVsZWN0aW9uLWZyYXVkLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9NTcmZW1jPWVkaXRfbmVfMjAyMzExMTcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9MTA4MDM0Jm5sPXRoZS1ldmVuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0xNTAzNjcmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmVWyupXZTRYJIRSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAw~~). Like Trump, Milei has repeatedly warned that if he loses, it may be because the election was stolen — undermining many of his supporters’ faith in the nation’s electoral system. [Kyla Scanlon faces the camera while sitting in an office chair in front of a desk in her apartment. A dog naps on the carpet beside her. The room also contains a microphone stand and a whiteboard. ](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TkaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNy9idXNpbmVzcy9lY29ub215L3Rpa3Rvay1iaWRlbi1lY29ub215Lmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9NTcmZW1jPWVkaXRfbmVfMjAyMzExMTcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9MTA4MDM0Jm5sPXRoZS1ldmVuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0xNTAzNjcmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmVWyupXZTRYJIRSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAw~~) Kyla Scanlon, who posts TikTok videos about the economy. Stephen Speranza for The New York Times Economic despair pervades on social media Look at economic data and you might think that young people would be riding high. Unemployment is low, job opportunities are plentiful and inequality is down. But if you spend some time on TikTok, you could get a very different impression. On the app and other social media sites, economic despair dominates. Users, most of them young, express a deep-seated angst about the economy [and fret about the cost of living](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TkaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8xMS8xNy9idXNpbmVzcy9lY29ub215L3Rpa3Rvay1iaWRlbi1lY29ub215Lmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9NTcmZW1jPWVkaXRfbmVfMjAyMzExMTcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9MTA4MDM0Jm5sPXRoZS1ldmVuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0xNTAzNjcmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmVWyupXZTRYJIRSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAw~~). 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TIME TO UNWIND [A short video showing one plate of mashed potatoes with butter and another with turkey.](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TxaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vaW50ZXJhY3RpdmUvMjAyMy8xMS8xNC9kaW5pbmcvaG93LXRvLXBsYW4tdGhhbmtzZ2l2aW5nLWRpbm5lci5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~) The New York Times Cooking This weekend, prepare for Thanksgiving While the big day may be not be until next week, many hosts and cooks will use this weekend to get a head start on Thanksgiving preparations. To help readers of this newsletter have the smoothest holiday possible, we’ve gathered some of our best advice and ideas for the run up to the meal. Know when to start the turkey: We asked our food columnist Melissa Clark for her No. 1 tip, and she told us it was important to make sure to leave enough time to defrost the turkey. “Even if you think you ordered a fresh one, it might be frozen on the inside,” she said. “As soon as you get your turkey, unwrap it and put it in the fridge to let it thaw. A 12-pound bird will take three days, a 16-pound bird four days.” While it’s thawing, you can dry-brine it, Melissa said. She suggested rubbing the turkey inside and out with salt mixed with any seasoning you like, including herbs, pepper, spices, grated garlic or lemon zest. Shop for groceries: After writing out your Thanksgiving menu, divide your grocery list into perishables and nonperishables, and try to buy those nonperishables this weekend. And you’ll need space in the fridge for all those ingredients. Use J. Kenji López-Alt’s [guide to food expiration dates](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TMaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vYXJ0aWNsZS9leHBpcmF0aW9uLWRhdGVzLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9NTcmZW1jPWVkaXRfbmVfMjAyMzExMTcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9MTA4MDM0Jm5sPXRoZS1ldmVuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0xNTAzNjcmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmVWyupXZTRYJIRSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAw~~) to help clean it out. [Cranberry Sauce](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TxaHR0cHM6Ly9jb29raW5nLm55dGltZXMuY29tL3JlY2lwZXMvMTAyNDc5OC1jcmFuYmVycnktc2F1Y2Utd2l0aC1vcmFuZ2UtYW5kLWdvbGRlbi1yYWlzaW5zP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~) David Malosh for The New York Times Map out sides and dessert: This [classic cranberry sauce](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TxaHR0cHM6Ly9jb29raW5nLm55dGltZXMuY29tL3JlY2lwZXMvMTAyNDc5OC1jcmFuYmVycnktc2F1Y2Utd2l0aC1vcmFuZ2UtYW5kLWdvbGRlbi1yYWlzaW5zP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~) by Claire Saffitz is an ideal Thanksgiving accompaniment that can be made days ahead of time. Pie crusts can also be prepared in advance. Melissa’s [all-butter pie crust recipe](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TIaHR0cHM6Ly9jb29raW5nLm55dGltZXMuY29tL3JlY2lwZXMvNDQ4LXBpZS1jcnVzdD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01NyZlbWM9ZWRpdF9uZV8yMDIzMTExNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD0xMDgwMzQmbmw9dGhlLWV2ZW5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTE1MDM2NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZVbK6ldlNFgkhFIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAD) keeps in the freezer for three months; you just need to defrost it in the fridge overnight before you bake it. But as my colleagues in Cooking say, it doesn’t really matter what sides you make — what matters is how they taste: Aim to have something creamy, something crispy, something green and something tangy. Still looking for ideas? Our [Ultimate Thanksgiving Guide](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRnOm_KP0TxaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vaW50ZXJhY3RpdmUvMjAyMy8xMS8xNC9kaW5pbmcvaG93LXRvLXBsYW4tdGhhbmtzZ2l2aW5nLWRpbm5lci5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTU3JmVtYz1lZGl0X25lXzIwMjMxMTE3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTEwODAzNCZubD10aGUtZXZlbmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTUwMzY3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgplVsrqV2U0WCSEUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAM~) will help you come up with an ideal menu, step-by-step. 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