Should you be in therapy?

(Isn’t everyone else?) 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And the language of therapy is certainly everywhere these days. So we dedicated this year’s Health Issue to a topic on all our minds. [[Article Image] Illustration by Dadu Shin](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0ToaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xNi9tYWdhemluZS9kb2VzLXRoZXJhcHktd29yay5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjMwNTE5Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTkyOTM1Jm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTMzMzQ3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpkYiFQZ2SBlTd6Uht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) [THE THERAPY ISSUE Does Therapy Really Work? Let’s Unpack That. Research shows that counseling delivers great benefits to many people. But it’s hard to say exactly what that means for you. By Susan Dominus](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0ToaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xNi9tYWdhemluZS9kb2VzLXRoZXJhcHktd29yay5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjMwNTE5Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTkyOTM1Jm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTMzMzQ3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpkYiFQZ2SBlTd6Uht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) [[Article Image] Dina Litovsky for The New York Times](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0T0aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xNi9tYWdhemluZS9jb3VwbGVzLXRoZXJhcHktb3JuYS1ndXJhbG5pay5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjMwNTE5Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTkyOTM1Jm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTMzMzQ3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpkYiFQZ2SBlTd6Uht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) [THE THERAPY ISSUE I’m a Couples Therapist. Something New Is Happening in Relationships. For more and more of Orna Guralnik’s patients, the ideas behind Black Lives Matter and #MeToo are leading to breakthroughs at home. By Orna Guralnik](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0T0aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xNi9tYWdhemluZS9jb3VwbGVzLXRoZXJhcHktb3JuYS1ndXJhbG5pay5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjMwNTE5Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTkyOTM1Jm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTMzMzQ3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpkYiFQZ2SBlTd6Uht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) [[Article Image] Illustration by Sophi Miyoko Gullbrants](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0TkaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xNy9tYWdhemluZS9zdWljaWRlLXRlZW5zLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9NTImZW1jPWVkaXRfbWFfMjAyMzA1MTkmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9OTI5MzUmbmw9dGhlLW5ldy15b3JrLXRpbWVzLW1hZ2F6aW5lJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0xMzMzNDcmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmRiIVBnZIGVN3pSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) [THE THERAPY ISSUE How Do You Actually Help a Suicidal Teen? It’s a dark time for therapists treating adolescents in despair. But some things do work. By Maggie Jones](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0TkaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xNy9tYWdhemluZS9zdWljaWRlLXRlZW5zLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9NTImZW1jPWVkaXRfbWFfMjAyMzA1MTkmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9OTI5MzUmbmw9dGhlLW5ldy15b3JrLXRpbWVzLW1hZ2F6aW5lJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0xMzMzNDcmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmRiIVBnZIGVN3pSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) [[Article Image] Illustration by Daniel Barreto](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0TmaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xOC9tYWdhemluZS9zb21hdGljLXRoZXJhcHkuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [THE THERAPY ISSUE Want to Fix Your Mind? Let Your Body Talk. Somatic therapy is surging, with the promise that true healing may reside in focusing on the physical rather than the mental. By Daniel Bergner](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0TmaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xOC9tYWdhemluZS9zb21hdGljLXRoZXJhcHkuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [[Article Image] Illustration by Liana Finck](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0T1aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vaW50ZXJhY3RpdmUvMjAyMy8wNS8xNy9tYWdhemluZS90aGVyYXBpc3RzLWNvbmZlc3MuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [THE THERAPY ISSUE What Your Therapist Doesn't Tell You A dozen counselors on what it’s really like to sit in the other armchair. By Amy X. Wang](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0T1aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vaW50ZXJhY3RpdmUvMjAyMy8wNS8xNy9tYWdhemluZS90aGVyYXBpc3RzLWNvbmZlc3MuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [[Article Image] Photo illustration by Trevor Davis](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0ToaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xOC9tYWdhemluZS90aGVyYXB5LWJsYWNrLW1lbi5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjMwNTE5Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTkyOTM1Jm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTMzMzQ3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpkYiFQZ2SBlTd6Uht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) [THE THERAPY ISSUE Black Men Don’t Do Therapy. Or So I Thought. What used to seem like an admission of defeat became a source of strength. By Ismail Muhammad](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0ToaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xOC9tYWdhemluZS90aGVyYXB5LWJsYWNrLW1lbi5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjMwNTE5Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTkyOTM1Jm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9MTMzMzQ3JnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpkYiFQZ2SBlTd6Uht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) [[Article Image] Photo illustration by Najeebah Al-Ghadban](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0TjaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xOC9tYWdhemluZS9xdWl0LXRoZXJhcHkuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [THE THERAPY ISSUE I Had to Quit Therapy to Finally Be Ready for It Giving up on psychoanalysis made it possible to imagine going back. By Carina del Valle Schorske](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0TjaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xOC9tYWdhemluZS9xdWl0LXRoZXJhcHkuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [[Article Image] Mamadi Doumbouya for The New York Times](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0T4aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vaW50ZXJhY3RpdmUvMjAyMy8wNS8xNS9tYWdhemluZS9qZW5ueS1vZGVsbC1pbnRlcnZpZXcuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [TALK What If Instead of Trying to Manage Your Time, You Set It Free? The cultural critic Jenny Odell sees a way out of our obsession with personal efficiency. By David Marchese](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0T4aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vaW50ZXJhY3RpdmUvMjAyMy8wNS8xNS9tYWdhemluZS9qZW5ueS1vZGVsbC1pbnRlcnZpZXcuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) COLUMNS [[Article Image] Illustration by Tomi Um](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRmSdUhP0TvaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMy8wNS8xNy9tYWdhemluZS90aGVhdGVyLWRpdmVyc2l0eS1ldGhpY3MuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD01MiZlbWM9ZWRpdF9tYV8yMDIzMDUxOSZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD05MjkzNSZubD10aGUtbmV3LXlvcmstdGltZXMtbWFnYXppbmUmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTEzMzM0NyZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKZGIhUGdkgZU3elIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) [THE ETHICIST Our Theater is Fighting About Diversity. Who’s Right? 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