What Should I Do About a Friend’s Racist Figurines?

He is conservative, I am liberal. 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The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on how to deal with a friend who won’t give up their offensive knickknacks. By Kwame Anthony Appiah](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRka0ROP0TtaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8yMC9tYWdhemluZS9yYWNpc3QtZmlndXJpbmVzLWV0aGljcy5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjIwNTIxJmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYyMDAyJm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTI5NzQmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmKGTr-IYm-7UYxSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) I have been friends for years with someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum. He is conservative, and I am liberal. I try to understand where he is coming from, though we differ on many issues. When I recently visited his home, he had a collection of Santa knickknacks on the mantel. One that he thought was particularly hilarious was of a Santa in Black face, holding a large slice of watermelon. I explained how offensive and upsetting this was, but he shrugged it off, saying no Black person would see it. I replied that you don’t have to be Black to be offended. [Continue reading the main story](#a11y-skip-0) ADVERTISEMENT ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRka0ROP0RtaHR0cHM6Ly9saXZlaW50ZW50Lm5ld3lvcmt0aW1lc2luZm8uY29tL2NsaWNrP3M9MTYxOTYzJmxpPU1BJm09YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDcmcD1NQV8yMDIyMDUyMVcDbnl0Qgpihk6_iGJvu1GMUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~ I later sent him an article explaining the origins of Black face and why it is so upsetting and hurtful. I thought that when he read it, he would throw the figure away. Instead, he said he had talked about it with his wife (who bought the Santas) and that she refused to get rid of it. Again, his excuse was: If no Black person enters the house, what harm is done? I have always thought that by staying friends with him and explaining my views, some of his ideas might change. That isn’t happening, and I feel I can’t in good conscience remain friends with him. What should I do? [Read the Ethicist’s response here](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRka0ROP0TtaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8yMC9tYWdhemluZS9yYWNpc3QtZmlndXJpbmVzLWV0aGljcy5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTUyJmVtYz1lZGl0X21hXzIwMjIwNTIxJmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYyMDAyJm5sPXRoZS1uZXcteW9yay10aW1lcy1tYWdhemluZSZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTI5NzQmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmKGTr-IYm-7UYxSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~). Subscribe Today We hope you’ve enjoyed this newsletter, which is made possible through subscriber support. 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