The Morning: The friends we keep

And those we let go. 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Our time and attention are valuable resources, and we’re in control of how — and on whom — we spend them. Allie Sullberg Good friends I got together this week with an old friend I hadn’t seen since before the pandemic. Before meeting up, I was seized with a now-familiar apprehension. Would we find our old dynamic? Or would we sit across from one another awkwardly, unable to reclaim the rhythms and repartee that used to come so easily? Only after the reunion went off without a hitch did I realize that I’d feared that if we hadn’t regained our groove, this could have been our last meeting for a while. Perhaps it’s the [clarity](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TTaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMC8wNC8xMy9vcGluaW9uL2NvdmlkLWdyYXRpdHVkZS5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) that comes from enduring a difficult period, but I’ve noticed, in myself and others, a diminishing tolerance for uncomfortable or unfulfilling social interactions. Seeing my old friend was thrilling. It felt nutrient-dense, almost like our connection was refueling my personality. But I’ve also experienced the opposite: a quick drink with an acquaintance that feels unduly exhausting. My colleague Catherine Pearson spoke to experts to determine [how many friends a person needs](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TeaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNy93ZWxsL2xpdmUvYWR1bHQtZnJpZW5kc2hpcHMtbnVtYmVyLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) in order to stave off loneliness. (A [2010 meta-analysis](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TkaHR0cHM6Ly9qb3VybmFscy5wbG9zLm9yZy9wbG9zbWVkaWNpbmUvYXJ0aWNsZT9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3JmlkPTEwLjEzNzElMkZqb3VybmFsLnBtZWQuMTAwMDMxNiZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) found that loneliness is “as harmful to physical health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.”) While no consensus emerged on an optimal number, Catherine did find that more isn’t always better: “Spending time with friends you feel ambivalent about — because they’re unreliable, critical, competitive or any of the many reasons people get under our skin — can be bad for your health.” Our time and attention are valuable and finite, and we’re in control of what we do with them. We forget this sometimes. We reflexively say yes to invitations because we happen to be free. We go to events out of a vague sense of obligation. We say, “Let’s meet for drinks,” because it’s socially easier than just saying, “Take care.” In “The Writing Life,” Annie Dillard writes: “How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives. What we do with this hour, and that one, is what we are doing.” It’s an encouragement to live with intention. It’s good wisdom to keep in mind when deciding whom we spend our time with as well. How are you spending your days? [Let me know](mailto:saturdaymorning@nytimes.com). For More - “The voluntary nature of friendship makes it subject to life’s whims in a way that more formal relationships aren’t”: “[How Friendships Change in Adulthood](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0T8aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudGhlYXRsYW50aWMuY29tL2hlYWx0aC9hcmNoaXZlLzIwMTUvMTAvaG93LWZyaWVuZHNoaXBzLWNoYW5nZS1vdmVyLXRpbWUtaW4tYWR1bHRob29kLzQxMTQ2Ni8_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~),” from The Atlantic. - Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman wrote [a book about their friendship](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TxaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMC8wNy8xMC9ib29rcy9yZXZpZXcvYmlnLWZyaWVuZHNoaXAtYW1pbmF0b3Utc293LWFubi1mcmllZG1hbi5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~). - From Glamour: “[The Upside of Losing Touch During the Pandemic](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TgaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ2xhbW91ci5jb20vc3RvcnkvdGhlLXVwc2lkZS1vZi1sb3NpbmctdG91Y2gtZHVyaW5nLXRoZS1wYW5kZW1pYz9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA).” WEEKENDS ARE FOR … 🍿 Movies: An Argentine heist thriller is among [our international streaming picks](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TqaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi9tb3ZpZXMvZml2ZS1pbnRlcm5hdGlvbmFsLW1vdmllcy10by1zdHJlYW0tbm93Lmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~). 🎧 Podcasts: Six that [go deeper on news and history](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TOaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMy9hcnRzL25ld3MtcG9kY2FzdHMuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). 🖼 Art: Fairs in New York include [Tefaf, for former museum works](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TlaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNS9hcnRzL2Rlc2lnbi90ZWZhZi1mYWlyLXBhcmstYXZlbnVlLWFybW9yeS5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~), and [NADA, showcasing painting and ceramics](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TeaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNS9hcnRzL2Rlc2lnbi9uYWRhLW5ldy15b3JrLWFydC1mYWlyLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~). THE WEEK IN CULTURE Marvel Studios - The “Doctor Strange” sequel premiering this weekend is set in a multiverse with multiple versions of multiple characters. [Keep track of it all](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TvaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNC9tb3ZpZXMvZG9jdG9yLXN0cmFuZ2UtbXVsdGl2ZXJzZS1vZi1tYWRuZXNzLXByZXZpZXcuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). - NPR asks [whether we’ve hit our TV limit](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TxaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnByLm9yZy8yMDIyLzA1LzAzLzEwOTU5NzM0NTgvdGhlcmVzLXRvby1tdWNoLXR2LXRvLWtlZXAtdXAtaGF2ZS13ZS1oaXQtdGhlLWxpbWl0P2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~). - The “Jeopardy!” champion Mattea Roach [ended her 23-game streak yesterday](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TXaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi9zdHlsZS9tYXR0ZWEtcm9hY2gtamVvcGFyZHkuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). - The Met Gala [had gowns](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TWaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vc2xpZGVzaG93LzIwMjIvMDUvMDIvc3R5bGUvbWV0LWdhbGEtcGhvdG9zP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~), [glam](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0ThaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMy9zdHlsZS9tZXQtZ2FsYS1mYXNoaW9uLWJlc3QtYW5kLXdvcnN0Lmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) and [after-parties](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TYaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMy9zdHlsZS9tZXQtZ2FsYS1hZnRlci1wYXJ0aWVzLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) (and glam-squad [after-parties](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TYaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNS9zdHlsZS9tZXRhLWdhbGEtYmVhdXR5LXRlYW1zLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~)). - Destination fashion shows have returned. [First up? Chanel](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TWaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi9zdHlsZS9jaGFuZWwtY2VsaW5lLWNydWlzZS5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~). - Pusha T [had his first No. 1 album](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TeaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMi9hcnRzL211c2ljL3B1c2hhLXQtYmlsbGJvYXJkLWNoYXJ0Lmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~), two decades into his career. - Bill Murray said a movie production was suspended [because a female co-star had objected to something that he saw as a joke](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TkaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMS9hcnRzL2JpbGwtbXVycmF5LW1pc2NvbmR1Y3QtYmVpbmctbW9ydGFsLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~). - “Buy now, pay later” options for online retailers [are increasingly sending young people into debt](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TlaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuc2ZnYXRlLmNvbS9uZXdzL2FydGljbGUvaW5mbHVlbmNlcnMtbGVhZC1HZW4tWi1pbnRvLWRlYnQtMTcxNDIyOTQucGhwP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~), SFGATE reports. - The Smithsonian museums [will return works from their collections](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TjaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMy9hcnRzL2Rlc2lnbi9zbWl0aHNvbmlhbi1ldGhpY2FsLXJldHVybnMuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) that were looted. THE LATEST NEWS Ukrainian soldiers greet each other yesterday.Lynsey Addario for The New York Times - Ukraine braced for a possible assault by Russia ahead of its Victory Day holiday, which may mark the start of an escalation. [Follow our updates](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TZaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vbGl2ZS8yMDIyLzA1LzA3L3dvcmxkL3VrcmFpbmUtcnVzc2lhLXdhci1uZXdzP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~). - Both sides [are focusing on one village at a time in Ukraine’s east](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TpaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi93b3JsZC9ldXJvcGUvdWtyYWluZS1ydXNzaWEtYXJ0aWxsZXJ5LWtoYXJraXYuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). - Republicans worried about voter backlash [have been quiet about the draft Supreme Court opinion](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TcaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi91cy9wb2xpdGljcy9yZXB1YmxpY2Fucy1hYm9ydGlvbi5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) overturning Roe v. Wade. - The nationalist party Sinn Fein was on track [to become the largest bloc in Northern Ireland’s government](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0T6aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vbGl2ZS8yMDIyLzA1LzA2L3dvcmxkL3VrLWVsZWN0aW9ucy1ub3J0aGVybi1pcmVsYW5kL3Npbm4tZmVpbi1ub3J0aGVybi1pcmVsYW5kP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~), a seismic shift. - The U.S. [added 428,000 jobs in April](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TyaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vbGl2ZS8yMDIyLzA1LzA2L2J1c2luZXNzL2FwcmlsLTIwMjItam9icy1yZXBvcnQ_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3I2pvYnMtcmVwb3J0LWFwcmlsLTIwMjJXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) and the unemployment rate remained low. - [Elon Musk’s goals for Twitter](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TjaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi90ZWNobm9sb2d5L2Vsb24tbXVzay10d2l0dGVyLXBpdGNoLWRlY2suaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) include quintupling revenue while reducing reliance on advertisers. Deeply reported journalism needs your support. The Times relies on subscribers to help fund our mission. [Subscribe now with this special offer](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TJaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vc3Vic2NyaXB0aW9uP2NhbXBhaWduSWQ9ODg4UjgmY2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~). RECIPE OF THE WEEK David Malosh for The New York Times. Food Stylist: Simon Andrews. By [Melissa Clark](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0S8aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vYnkvbWVsaXNzYS1jbGFyaz9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA) Sheet-Pan Pancakes Here’s a confession: I hate having breakfast in bed. All those toast crumbs, syrup drips and tea spills make me too tense to enjoy it — on Mother’s Day or any other morning. But I do love it when my family makes me breakfast. So I’ve put in a request for [Jerrelle Guy’s terrific sheet-pan chocolate chip pancakes](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0ThaHR0cHM6Ly9jb29raW5nLm55dGltZXMuY29tL3JlY2lwZXMvMTAyMDQwMi1zaGVldC1wYW4tY2hvY29sYXRlLWNoaXAtcGFuY2FrZXM_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~). This easy, satisfying recipe has become a favorite in our house, with two tiny tweaks. Instead of baking the batter in one large sheet pan, we divide it across two smaller, quarter-sheet pans (measuring 9-by-13 inches) so there are more crispy edges. It’s a tip pinched from the recipe notes, and it works. The second is nixing the chocolate chips, because that leaves more room for loads of softened butter, blueberries and a downpour of maple syrup. (Want more satisfying recipes? [Check out my column this week](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TbaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi9kaW5pbmcvc3ByaW5nLXZlZ2V0YWJsZS1wb2xlbnRhLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~).) REAL ESTATE Clockwise from left: Aspect Six/Florian Marschoun; Sarah Strunk for Sage Sotheby’s International Realty; Hampton Roads Real Estate Photography What you get for $475,000: A cottage in Amherst, Mass.; a Prairie-style house in Oklahoma City; [or a 1913 home in Norfolk, Va](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TyaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNC9yZWFsZXN0YXRlL2hvbWUtcHJpY2VzLW1hc3NhY2h1c2V0dHMtb2tsYWhvbWEtdmlyZ2luaWEuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). The hunt: They wanted to buy in Los Angeles without a bidding war. Which home did they choose? [Play our game](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TgaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vaW50ZXJhY3RpdmUvMjAyMi8wNS8wNS9yZWFsZXN0YXRlLzA1aHVudC1tYXJ0aW4uaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). In Dallas: After two midcentury renovations, [why not a third](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0T_aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMy9yZWFsZXN0YXRlL2hvdy1tYW55LW1pZGNlbnR1cnktcmFuY2gtaG91c2VzLWNhbi1vbmUtY291cGxlLXJlbm92YXRlLmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~)? Museum living: An art collector’s [home overlooking Central Park](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TlaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi9yZWFsZXN0YXRlL2hlc3Rlci1kaWFtb25kLWVsZG9yYWRvLWR1cGxleC5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~) is listed for $19.5 million. LIVING Samuel Aranda for The New York Times Making up for lost time: Europe’s [club scene is back](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TaaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNi9hcnRzL211c2ljL2liaXphLWNsdWJzLW9wZW5pbmcuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). Wedding registries: There’s [a right way to ask for cash](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TiaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNS9zdHlsZS93ZWRkaW5nLWNhc2gtZ2lmdC1mdW5kLWV0aXF1ZXR0ZS5odG1sP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~). A luxury look: [The $200,000 face-lift](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TeaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wMy9zdHlsZS9hbmQtbm93LXRoZS0yMDAwMDAtZmFjZS1saWZ0Lmh0bWw_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~) is here. 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GAME OF THE WEEKEND Xavier Burrell for The New York Times The Kentucky Derby: Grab your fanciest hat and mix some mint juleps: It’s Derby Day. The mile-and-a-quarter horse race is referred to as “the most exciting two minutes in sports,” and the winner gets a shot at horse racing’s premiere prize, the Triple Crown. For many, though, the party is the main draw. Coverage begins at 2:30 p.m. Eastern today on NBC, with the race set for 6:57 p.m. For more - The Times [previews the race](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TvaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vMjAyMi8wNS8wNy9zcG9ydHMvaG9yc2UtcmFjaW5nL2tlbnR1Y2t5LWRlcmJ5LXdhdGNoLXN0YXJ0LXRpbWUuaHRtbD9jYW1wYWlnbl9pZD05JmVtYz1lZGl0X25uXzIwMjIwNTA3Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTYwNzU3Jm5sPXRoZS1tb3JuaW5nJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD05MTYwMSZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKYnDxWHZiDaV95lIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA). - Here’s [our recipe for mint juleps](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TKaHR0cHM6Ly9jb29raW5nLm55dGltZXMuY29tL3JlY2lwZXMvMTAxNjI5NS1taW50LWp1bGVwP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~). - Revisit Hunter S. Thompson’s [classic 1970 dispatch from the Derby](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TuaHR0cDovL2dyYW50bGFuZC5jb20vZmVhdHVyZXMvbG9va2luZy1iYWNrLWh1bnRlci1zLXRob21wc29uLWNsYXNzaWMtc3Rvcnkta2VudHVja3ktZGVyYnkvP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTkmZW1jPWVkaXRfbm5fMjAyMjA1MDcmaW5zdGFuY2VfaWQ9NjA3NTcmbmw9dGhlLW1vcm5pbmcmcmVnaV9pZD03NzY3NDk1MiZzZWdtZW50X2lkPTkxNjAxJnRlPTEmdXNlcl9pZD1hYTQ5MWVmN2YxZDk2NGU0OTc5ZmI3ODRlNzRlMDFkN1cDbnl0QgpicPFYdmINpX3mUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~). NOW TIME TO PLAY ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRkWN3xP0TAaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubnl0aW1lcy5jb20vcHV6emxlcy9zcGVsbGluZy1iZWU_Y2FtcGFpZ25faWQ9OSZlbWM9ZWRpdF9ubl8yMDIyMDUwNyZpbnN0YW5jZV9pZD02MDc1NyZubD10aGUtbW9ybmluZyZyZWdpX2lkPTc3Njc0OTUyJnNlZ21lbnRfaWQ9OTE2MDEmdGU9MSZ1c2VyX2lkPWFhNDkxZWY3ZjFkOTY0ZTQ5NzlmYjc4NGU3NGUwMWQ3VwNueXRCCmJw8Vh2Yg2lfeZSG3RyaXN0cmFtYmFsZHdpbjkwQGdtYWlsLmNvbVgEAAAAAA~~ The pangram from yesterday’s Spelling Bee was weighty. 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