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We have room to talk out thoughts and navigate our feelings (Feelings, yes, we have them too!). Sometimes we disagree, sometimes we find common ground. The sweet spot is the tension. This week, I initially wanted to have a conversation with black colleagues at The Times about *gestures wildly* everything that is happening. But we thought it might be interesting to hear from our white co-workers about how they are taking it all in, talking to their families and friends, and looking toward the future. I asked a group of black people at The Times to pose questions they’ve wanted to ask white people at The Times. Are they thinking about the same things? Does this feel like such a moment for them? Who knows! I sent them five questions to discuss, which you’ll see below. Just like I can’t speak for all black people, these folks can’t speak for all white people. That’s OK. What’s not OK: No one remembers Farrah’s dramatic exit from Destiny’s Child. We all have a lot to learn. Thank you for reading and as always, I’m curious what you think and the questions you have. Let me know at wait@nytimes.com. I read them all. — Lindsey Underwood, Styles editor Who are you, where do you live, and what do you do? Pia: Pia Peterson. I work on the magazine photo desk and I live in Brooklyn. Bonnie: Bonnie Wertheim, editor on Styles, living in Brooklyn just like most everyone else in here. Ezra: Ezra Marcus. I live in N.Y.C., but I’m in Richmond, Va. for the summer. I’m a fellow for Styles! I started last week. Choire: Choire Sicha, Styles desk. I’m a paper-pushing middle-manager. I live outside NYC. Phoebe: I’m Phoebe Lett, an audio producer in Opinion, currently working out of the Bed-Stuy bureau (my apartment). [Continue reading the main story](#a11y-skip-0) ADVERTISEMENT ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0RtaHR0cHM6Ly9saXZlaW50ZW50Lm5ld3lvcmt0aW1lc2luZm8uY29tL2NsaWNrP3M9MTYxOTcxJmxpPUxJJm09YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDcmcD1MSV8yMDIwMDYxNlcDbnl0QgoAJMwd6V7un2cYUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~ ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0RtaHR0cHM6Ly9saXZlaW50ZW50Lm5ld3lvcmt0aW1lc2luZm8uY29tL2NsaWNrP3M9NDMzNjgyJmxpPUxJJm09YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDcmcD1MSV8yMDIwMDYxNlcDbnl0QgoAJMwd6V7un2cYUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~ ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0RtaHR0cHM6Ly9saXZlaW50ZW50Lm5ld3lvcmt0aW1lc2luZm8uY29tL2NsaWNrP3M9NTY0NzUyJmxpPUxJJm09YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDcmcD1MSV8yMDIwMDYxNlcDbnl0QgoAJMwd6V7un2cYUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~ Can you give an example of something from your life you now recognize as an instance or product of white privilege, racism, or bias? Ezra: I had a couple run-ins with the police in high school over small stuff like drinking in public and trespassing, which ended with me apologizing and being let go without getting in any trouble. Both could have gone very differently if I wasn’t white. Pia: I used to have an old crappy Volvo, and I would get pulled over a ton for what seemed like no reason at all. Police always pulled me over, half the time they didn’t even ask for my registration and let me go. I also know that my grandfathers both served in some capacity in World War II, and were able to take advantage of housing and education grants that were far more available to white veterans than black veterans. When I start there, it’s hard to see anything that isn’t a product of privilege and systemic racism. Ezra: Same here. My grandfather served in World War II and was able to enroll in medical school immediately after. 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Then I send her the books or the articles but I’m not sure if she ever reads them. Bonnie: White privilege has influenced most of my life’s outcomes up to this point: my upbringing, my education, my career. I’m met in the world with very little resistance, largely because I am white and also because I look younger than I am. This is a truth I have been aware of to some extent since childhood. Phoebe: While I think there isn’t a single person who walks into the NYT that doesn’t feel impostor syndrome at first, my feeling of being out of place never had anything to do with my race. It had to do with my age, my background, my gender, sure. White men primarily held positions of power, so I saw limitations in representation of what I could accomplish based on gender. But never, ever, ever my race. Choire: You mean like being completely underqualified for job after job and mediocre-ing your way to the middle in a way that only a loud tall white man can really pull off? No, so sorry, I don’t know anything about that. The scams of being a white man are unending! Ask me, I will teach you some. [Continue reading the main story](#a11y-skip-2) ADVERTISEMENT ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0RtaHR0cHM6Ly9saXZlaW50ZW50Lm5ld3lvcmt0aW1lc2luZm8uY29tL2NsaWNrP3M9NzMwMjAzJmxpPUxJJm09YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDcmcD1MSV8yMDIwMDYxNlcDbnl0QgoAJMwd6V7un2cYUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~ ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0RtaHR0cHM6Ly9saXZlaW50ZW50Lm5ld3lvcmt0aW1lc2luZm8uY29tL2NsaWNrP3M9NzMwMjA0JmxpPUxJJm09YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDcmcD1MSV8yMDIwMDYxNlcDbnl0QgoAJMwd6V7un2cYUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~ ~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0RtaHR0cHM6Ly9saXZlaW50ZW50Lm5ld3lvcmt0aW1lc2luZm8uY29tL2NsaWNrP3M9NzMwMjA2JmxpPUxJJm09YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDcmcD1MSV8yMDIwMDYxNlcDbnl0QgoAJMwd6V7un2cYUht0cmlzdHJhbWJhbGR3aW45MEBnbWFpbC5jb21YBAAAAAA~ Why now? Like … honestly, what is it about THIS time that got your attention, if it did at all? Pia: I moved to N.Y.C. in 2017, and went to observe protests when I was in grad school. Before that, I lived outside of the U.S., and news of major protests in U.S. cities sparked conversations with family and friends — but I wasn’t actively participating. I’m currently living with a partner, and we talk about what’s going on right now every damn day. I feel like being able to process this in a space with someone in real time is helping us shape our reaction and participation. It’s tricky in journalism, I’ve been to cover protests as a reporter and observer, but I’ve often wondered if deep down I’m using that as an excuse for not doing more to get involved in political issues. Like, if given free rein, how involved would I have gotten in the past? I’m really interested in local politics, and I feel like I would like to be so much more involved. Phoebe: What’s different this time is I am forcing conversations with all of the white people I can, starting with family and friends. I am positioning myself as a person really willing to answer questions and talk through realizations of systemic white supremacy. Because having those open conversations is the first step toward changing their biases, and then their behaviors. And because I don’t want them to turn to people of color to carry the emotional burden of walking them through those conversations. Bonnie: My friends and colleagues have been more outspoken in recent weeks about the racism they face daily in spaces that are essentially neutral for white people. So that is something that feels different about this moment, and I am grateful for their honesty. It would also be impossible to ignore the protests outside my window and in so many other neighborhoods around the city, the country and the world and not feel that something has changed, that the urgency for creating an alternative to policing in America is higher than ever. While I don’t feel that this moment has suddenly woken me up to racism and inequality, it has committed me to being a more engaged citizen: learning about local budgeting and what a new model of community safety could look like. Choire: I know what you mean, I think. People are really willing to put up with atrocities in their backyards. “Life is tough all over,” people think. They’ve got bills to pay and is Aunt Beth addicted to her Oxy and then there’s so much good TV and then suddenly … you’ve just decided the world is fine, because it’s fine for you. I think social media did help to make it visual. I also think generations change. Phoebe: Also, barriers to accessibility of resources have been broken down thanks to the internet. I can stream Ava DuVernay’s “13th” instead of having to be in a city with a theater showing it, or renting it on VHS at Blockbuster (see, Choire, some of us also remember the ’90s!). It’s never been easier to learn without humiliating yourself by asking a stupid question. Google doesn’t judge! Have you ever wondered if black journalists can be objective about racism in their reporting? Why is that? Phoebe: To put it plainly, black journalists don’t have the privilege of needing to learn how to see racism before they set out to tell its story fairly. I pause when I see white journalists reporting on racism, always wondering, what didn’t you see because you’ve never had to? Who didn’t you talk to because you didn’t realize they were impacted? A podcast that made me think differently about this is “[The View From Somewhere,](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0StaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cubGV3aXNwYW50cy5jb20vP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTQzJmVtYz1lZGl0X2xpXzIwMjAwNjE2Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTE5NDQ2Jm5sPXdhaXQtLi4uJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0zMTA2OCZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKACTMHele7p9nGFIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA)” which I recommend for its critique of objectivity in journalism, and how it upholds the status quo. Bonnie: Beyond the reporting, I think the editing really matters here. The Times is just one of many news organizations with majority-white leadership where framing and language on stories about the deaths of black people at the hands of police officers has been indirect or euphemistic. Sometimes there’s a legal justification for that, but other times it’s hard to see why we’re not being more direct. Ezra: I have not wondered that. I remember following discussion of the issue around Ferguson, with regards to reporters like Wesley Lowery facing criticism for not being “objective.” This seemed totally absurd, since black reporters were the ones producing by far the best, most insightful work on the subject. Pia: A co-worker has been really open speaking about this on social media over the last few years, and it’s helped me frame this. Years ago, he was like: There is no not talking about this, this is who I am and saying “black lives matter” is not a political issue. I think about him a lot in these moments. Choire: Reporters should always be suspicious and distrustful. We all bring a framework to our job that we use to sort facts. That’s good, not bad. Can you name all the former members of Destiny’s Child who aren’t Beyoncé? Ezra: Without looking it up, I knew Kelly Rowland, but couldn’t remember Michelle Williams. Lindsey: Wow, Michelle erasure. Phoebe: Lindsey, please. I’m a millennial who found God through Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter. Kelly Rowland, Michelle Williams, LaTavia Roberson and LeToya Luckett. (THERE’S ANOTHER, BUT I’D HAVE TO CHEAT AND WON’T, FOR JOURNALISM!) I have “[Making Beyoncé](~/AAAAAQA~/RgRgy6LMP0TgaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cud2Jlei5vcmcvc2hvd3MvbWFraW5nLWJleW9uY2UvNzFiOGRlNTctYjJiZS00ZTAzLTg0ODEtNjgzMjU4ZGUzZWMxP2NhbXBhaWduX2lkPTQzJmVtYz1lZGl0X2xpXzIwMjAwNjE2Jmluc3RhbmNlX2lkPTE5NDQ2Jm5sPXdhaXQtLi4uJnJlZ2lfaWQ9Nzc2NzQ5NTImc2VnbWVudF9pZD0zMTA2OCZ0ZT0xJnVzZXJfaWQ9YWE0OTFlZjdmMWQ5NjRlNDk3OWZiNzg0ZTc0ZTAxZDdXA255dEIKACTMHele7p9nGFIbdHJpc3RyYW1iYWxkd2luOTBAZ21haWwuY29tWAQAAAAA)” from WBEZ to thank for some of this knowledge, and my mom for buying me Destiny’s Child CDs in the early aughts. Choire: Oof, I also forgot the one that Phoebe forgot and now feel bad. (I’m gay.) Phoebe: Also a guilty queer here. I’ve now looked it up and I have erased TOO MANY non-Kelly/Michelle/Bey children of Destiny. I apologize publicly to each of them. 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