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How to deal with the micromanagers in your life... [Advertisement] Together with [Madewell]( [August 29, 2021]( | [View Online]( | [Sign Up]( [Sunday Edition illustration ] Lily Lambie-Kiernan IN THIS ISSUE How to deal with micromanagers The most popular professor at Yale Why movie piracy is surging   Editor's Note   Good morning. With many US colleges starting classes this week, I thought about whether I had any unique advice for students other than the classic “go to office hours,” “join all the clubs,” and “don’t schedule an 8am class on Friday” (all valid btw). And while it probably isn’t a galaxy-brain take, I do have one thought to share with all the students reading this: Don’t hesitate to switch. The hyper-concentration of social and academic life on college campuses allows you to switch up what you’re doing at such little cost compared to the professional world. So take advantage. If you’re not feeling inspired by your coursework this semester, explore classes in another department. Friend group getting toxic? There’s another one waiting on the next dorm floor.  Put another way, you’ll never be presented with such a buffet of opportunities and experiences as college affords, so don’t fill up on the stale dinner rolls. — Neal Freyman  CULTURE  Stock Watch [Stock watch: August 29] � � � mailto:?subject=Check%20out%20this%20story%20from%20Morning%20Brew%21&body=Stock%20Watch%3A%20August%2029%3A%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.morningbrew.com%2Fdaily%2Fstories%2F2021%2F08%2F27%2Fstock-watch-august-29%0A%0AWant%20more%20great%20content%3F%20Subscribe%20to%20Daily%20Brew%20%E2%80%94%20Delivering%20the%20latest%20business%20news%20from%20Wall%20St.%20to%20Silicon%20Valley%2C%20daily.%0Ahttps%3A%2F%2Fwww.morningbrew.com%2Fdaily%2Fr%2F%3Fkid%3Da905682a%26utm_source%3Demail_share%0A  Q&A  Icebreakers With...Happiness Expert Dr. Laurie Santos [[Dr. Laurie Santos] Dr. Laurie Santos]( Some college classes you’d never skip even if extremely hungover—like Dr. Laurie Santos’s “Psychology and the Good Life.” The class, which explores the science behind decision-making and what comprises a fulfilling life, is Yale’s most popular course in over 300 years. Luckily for us, Santos doesn’t keep her happiness secrets confined to New Haven, and she released the newest season of her acclaimed podcast, [The Happiness Lab](, this month.  Santos was kind enough to grant us time during office hours to ask a few questions. Given what we know about the relationship between nostalgia and happiness, what’s the optimal amount of pictures to take on vacation? I think pictures are kind of a mixed bag. On the one hand, pictures can help us remember things better, which helps us to access all our fondest moments. But there’s also a problem with pictures—they often take us out of the moment. And one thing we need for forming new memories is to be paying attention. So my advice is that if pictures help you stay present, if they cause you to attend to a scene and notice more things, then great. That’ll allow you to have a memento that will help you remember after the fact. But if taking pictures means that you're worrying about how your hair looks or forcing people out of the moment to take a picture, then they might not be such a good idea. What are some tips on coping with rejection? The most important tip is realizing that rejection really hurts. And neuroscience suggests that it hurts in the same way that an awful physical wound might hurt. That means we really need some rejection first aid—we need to treat the pain right away. The best thing we can do when we're feeling rejected is to remember why we're valuable. Take time to write down the things you like about yourself, why you’re valued. Literally write your values and strengths down to remember why you're important and why you matter.  A second important method of rejection first aid is to get some social connection. Meet up with the people who really care about you, and if you can't meet up with them directly, then do some “social snacking” and just look at pictures of people who are close to you. Just like getting a snack when you're hungry, a little social snacking can help you feel a lot better. How does a person know when they are happy? Is there a way of quantifying it? The best way to know if you're happy is to ask yourself, “How am I feeling right now?” There's no thermometer for happiness. Even as scientists, we do rely on people's self-reports. But the good news is that those self-reports are valid for happiness and well-being. Self-report measures seem to correlate with other important things like textual analyses of your journal entries or detailed interviews with your family. So really the best way to know if you're happy is to ask yourself. Is it easier for someone who studies happiness for a living to be happier than someone who doesn't? I think you're asking if I'm actually happier. And the answer is yes. Since teaching this class, I’ve gone up about a whole point on standard 10-point measures of well-being. One of the great things about being the person who teaches a happiness class is that I have to practice what I preach. Otherwise my students will notice and will call me out on it. And that means that I'm engaging in more gratitude lately. I'm taking more time to meditate. I'm doing all of the habits that I suggest to my students and my podcast listeners, and as the data might suggest, that has made me happier. You’ve spent a lot of time studying nonhuman animals. How often when you observe human behavior do you think, wow, I’m just looking at a bunch of monkeys? Well, it happens a lot in department faculty meetings, I'll be honest. But joking aside, I think one of the things you learn when you study primates, in particular, is that humans really are just animals ultimately. Lots of the kinds of things that we worry about come from our biology, and really mirror what we see in our closest living relatives, which I kind of take heart in. It's nice to see that humans are connected to their own biology. If your life were made into a movie, what genre would it be and who would play you? Well, statistically speaking, if my life were made into a movie it would probably be a documentary. Since it’s about my life. But if I had a choice I would love for it to be a comedy, and for me to be played by J.Lo. There’s more of the interview we couldn’t fit into the newsletter. [Give it a read here](. 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With a range of fit and size options, they also stand behind having the perfect fit for every body. Madewell denim fits so well, you’ll feel like the premium version of you. Plus, it’s made with sustainable materials in fair trade-certified factories. Madewell makes finding the perfect pair easy, offering denim fit experts in all of their stores and online. They’ve even got an easy-to-shop virtual denim bar for [women’s]( and [men’s]( styles where you can browse different fits and sizes. Like...dang. [Get $20 off a pair of full-price jeans with promo code BREW20](.  WORK LIFE  How to Deal With Micromanagers [Make It Work logo]( Each week, our workplace whisperer Shane Loughnane answers reader-submitted questions about work in 2021. Anything bothering you at work? [Ask Shane here](. I like my boss, but how do I get them to stop micromanaging me?—Sam in London Since going remote, my own four-legged boss has taken to micromanaging my every move. Currently, his head can be found draped over my shoulder, no doubt poised to critique this advice. Chances are, neither my attention-hungry pal nor your IRL manager is doing much to increase our respective productivity. Most micromanagers tend to have two things in common: They are well-intentioned, and they wouldn’t want to be considered a micromanager. Your boss likely became a manager in the first place because they excelled at a job (possibly yours) that they had a lot of control over. It can take time to relinquish that control and to fully trust someone else to be just as effective. Give a little grace, if you can afford it. While you’re being patient, also be preemptive. When you get a new project, ask your boss, “What would it look like if this were done perfectly?” Compel them to think about what they want ahead of time and to possibly even provide templates or examples, rather than interject on the fly. If they are nudging you for repeated updates, put a few reasonably distanced checkpoints on the calendar so that they know there’s a designated time set aside to pull up and debate the merits of Calibri vs. Helvetica (I’m a Garamond man, myself). Above all else, open the dialogue. Some people need (and want) more guidance than others. Does your boss know that their current style demotivates you? Very likely there are tasks that you would actually appreciate more direction on than others—let them know that, too. The [Situational Leadership]( framework is a model I’ve benefited from putting into practice and a great place to start the conversation at any level. Finding ways to introduce resources like these can help to limit unnecessary micromanagement and strengthen leadership skills throughout your organization. I have a large blank wall in my office and would like to put a vinyl quote on the wall. Could be motivational, not necessarily team-related, but definitely work appropriate. Any suggestions?—Rachel in Florida This seems like a fun one to crowdsource to Brew readers—anyone game to help Rachel out? I’ll lean on Michael Scott to help get us in formation by recommending an Office classic: “[I am Beyoncé, always](.”  Have a question about work you want to ask Shane? Have an idea for a quote for Rachel? [Write in here](. And coming soon...HR Brew. Be one of the [first subscribers]( to our upcoming newsletter on all things human resources. � � � mailto:?subject=Check%20out%20this%20story%20from%20Morning%20Brew%21&body=Make%20It%20Work%3A%20https%3A%2F%2Fwww.morningbrew.com%2Fdaily%2Fstories%2F2021%2F08%2F27%2Fmake-work%0A%0AWant%20more%20great%20content%3F%20Subscribe%20to%20Daily%20Brew%20%E2%80%94%20Delivering%20the%20latest%20business%20news%20from%20Wall%20St.%20to%20Silicon%20Valley%2C%20daily.%0Ahttps%3A%2F%2Fwww.morningbrew.com%2Fdaily%2Fr%2F%3Fkid%3Da905682a%26utm_source%3Demail_share%0A  NEWS ANALYSIS  A Movie Pirate’s Life Just Got Easier [TV/movie theater ]( What pirated movies used to look like: shaky camcorder recordings of movies taken in theaters and uploaded to piracy sites. What pirated movies look like now: 4K resolution and just a quick Google search away. So what changed? Theater owners are blaming the recent phenomenon of same-day releases for a spike in piracy. The backstory: After pushing back releases in 2020, many studios finally decided to debut their films in theaters—but with a streaming twist. Black Widow, The Suicide Squad, Jungle Cruise, and other would-be blockbusters [simultaneously debuted]( in theaters and on streaming services in summer 2021. It’s a seismic departure from the traditional method of releasing films in theaters, then waiting 90 days to make them available on digital platforms. That 90-day window did a lot more than protect the egos of directors who insisted their movies must be viewed on big screens. According to the Motion Picture Association, simultaneous theater-streaming releases have led to a surge in the number of pirated films flooding the internet—[within minutes]( of their streaming debuts. Last weekend at CinemaCon, the biggest annual expo for theater owners and studios, Motion Picture Association CEO Charles Rivkin accused one piracy group of single-handedly bootlegging 4,600 new movies in the past year. Black Widow was the most pirated movie in the world for three weeks running after it was released on Disney+ and in theaters on July 9, according to piracy-monitoring site TorrentFreak. Other summer releases, including The Suicide Squad and Jungle Cruise, also topped piracy charts shortly after their digital debuts. That’s making a dent in box office revenue Disney said Black Widow has earned $367 million at the global box office. But here’s what that headline number doesn’t tell you: A big chunk of the money came on the first day the movie was released in theaters...then [declined precipitously]( afterward in no small part due to pirated copies circulating the web. Revenue for Black Widow plummeted 41% from Friday to Saturday of its opening weekend and 67% from its first to second weekend—the largest box office drop of any Marvel movie, ever. The National Association of Theater Owners directly blamed piracy for the “stunning collapse.” While streaming platforms may recoup some money lost to piracy via digital rentals and subscriber growth (which has boomed for Disney+, HBO Max, and Netflix), theaters won’t see a cent of that. And depending on how their notoriously vague contracts are set up, neither will actors: Sources say piracy is one reason ScarJo is [suing Disney+](. 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