“The Most Important Skill Nobody Taught You” published in Personal Growt h by Zat Rana

[Medium Logo] Today’s highlights ztrana/the-most-important-skill-nobody-taught-you-9b162377ab77?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------0-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top [[The Most Important Skill Nobody Taught You](ztrana/the-most-important-skill-nobody-taught-you-9b162377ab77?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------0-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top) The Root of All Our Problems.](ztrana/the-most-important-skill-nobody-taught-you-9b162377ab77?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------0-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top) [Zat Rana](ztrana?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader-------------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549) in [Personal Growth]( min read dayna/saying-goodbye-to-the-tomboy-3d5545db7665?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------1-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top [[Saying Goodbye to the Tomboy](dayna/saying-goodbye-to-the-tomboy-3d5545db7665?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------1-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top) The disappearance of this gender trope means progress for identity and labels — but is there anything we…](dayna/saying-goodbye-to-the-tomboy-3d5545db7665?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------1-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top) [Dayna](dayna?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader-------------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549)[Member only content]10 min read laurenaissance/beyonc%C3%A9-and-jay-zs-apes-t-was-a-subtle-history-lesson-in-race-and-power-f03104d8f67?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------2-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top [[Beyoncé and Jay-Z’s ‘Apes**t’ Was a Subtle History Lesson in Race and Power](laurenaissance/beyonc%C3%A9-and-jay-zs-apes-t-was-a-subtle-history-lesson-in-race-and-power-f03104d8f67?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------2-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top) The Carters weren’t just flexing by shooting their latest music video in the world’s largest art museum](laurenaissance/beyonc%C3%A9-and-jay-zs-apes-t-was-a-subtle-history-lesson-in-race-and-power-f03104d8f67?source=email-6208280b72a3-1531091969840-digest.reader------2-51------------------17f9b33b_50d8_4b17_b66d_2cc286e3c549-1§ionName=top) [Lauren A. 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