This is why most people live frustrated ...

because they keep on avoiding... ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌   You know why most people spend their lives frustrated ? Because they've been avoiding awkward conversations. Maybe they don't want to tell their parents they don't want to be a lawyer anymore. Maybe they know they need to let go of a friend that they've known since childhood. Or maybe they need to talk with their significant other about something they don't like. They know this needs to be done. And still... They keep on avoiding it. Telling themselves it's not the right time. That they'll do it another day. Even when you have that person sitting right in front of them. But... What happens when you actually don't have those difficult conversations? You end up frustrated. Feeling like the other person doesn't care for your feelings. There's something that bothers you about the other person. But you don't talk about it. Instead, you try sending indirect messages hoping the other person understands. And when they don't... All those negative emotions and frustrations keep growing within you. Until they end up taking over. You end up having that conversation. But not in the right way. All that rage and anger you stored for so long get the best of you. Telling the other person why you know better than them. Insulting them. Making them feel bad. And what could've been a friendly exchange of ideas... Ends up destroying your relationship altogether. Now, what can you do about this? How can you get the courage to have those difficult conversations on time? In reality, there's only one way. You need to detach your emotions from what you need to talk about. See ... Most people are not having difficult conversations because they're afraid of what might happen. What about if the other person gets offended? What about they never talking to me again? What about I end up hurting our relationship. Think of marriage for example. Maybe there's something you don't like your significant other to do. But, as you don't want to hurt them, you keep it to yourself. The thing is that. You can't run from that conversation forever. That anger and resentment will keep piling up. Until you can't hold it anymore and end up saying things in the worst possible way. So instead... What you need to do instead is detach yourself from the outcome. Detach yourself from the fear of what the other person might think. Let go of the pride of defending what YOU think it's right. And instead, come to the plate feeling neutral. That way, you'll see things objectively. And once you start doing this . You'll let go of the frustration you once felt. You'll be free from all the anger. You won't be afraid of having difficult conversations. You won't avoid them anymore. Instead, you'll look to have them. Because you know they'll help you grow the relationships you have with people. But first, You need to take that step forward. And I know you can. I believe in you. Keep on going, Simon P.S. If you want to learn how to conquer fear and start going after your wildest goals then... [Just click here and I'll help you with that]( Sent to: {EMAIL} [Unsubscribe]( Lifehack, Unit 33554, PO Box 6945,, London, W1A 6US, United Kingdom