Why L.A. loves radio dedication shows

Millions of people still call into radio stations across the U.S. each night to dedicate songs to their loved ones. ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ [Los Angeles Times] [Essential California Newsletter] February 13, 2023 [View in browser]( [Click to view images]( Laboe at KDAY studio. (JoMo for Art Laboe) By Julia Carmel Good morning, and welcome to the Essential California [newsletter](. It’s Monday, Feb. 13. I’m [Julia Carmel]( a feature writer for The Times’ [Lifestyle]( section who covers travel, local culture and things to do along the West Coast. Now that the Rihanna concert (and the sports surrounding it) are behind us, I’m focusing on our next big national event: Valentine’s Day. I’ve been thinking a lot about love since I moved to Los Angeles last August. On paper, I uprooted my life to take this job, but I also moved here from 2,500 miles away to be with my love, who has lived here since we started dating more than two years ago. It was a bit challenging to fall in love with L.A. — as a native New Yorker, I didn’t even have a driver’s license when I applied for this job. I started by finding rituals that made this place feel like home. The most comforting one became turning on my car’s radio each Sunday night to tune into KDAY 93.5 FM. As I learned the streets of my new neighborhood, I found something familiar in Art Laboe’s conversations with listeners. “Why have you never dedicated a song to me?” I asked my partner one night as we drove home from a movie. “Because it’s corny,” they replied. “But I’ll do it if you really want.” The streets were quiet when we turned onto my block a few minutes later. We lingered in the car for a minute to hear a stranger pour her heart out to Laboe — and thousands of listeners. [Laboe died]( last October, but his impact on the radio industry can be heard in the dozens of dedication shows that cropped up after he first went on air in the 1940s. As I read about his life’s work, I became fascinated with the call-in dedication format, eventually tracing it back through 80 years of California radio. These days, [Delilah]( the mononymous “queen of sappy love songs,” broadcasts a five-hour-long request show each night from her home near Seattle that has made her [the most listened-to woman on the radio](. She is nationally syndicated on about 150 stations, reaching about 8.3 million listeners each week. On L.A.’s KOST 103.5 FM, [Karen Sharp]( reaches nearly half a million listeners weekly. Even Laboe’s shows still broadcast Sunday nights on 93.5 KDAY, and Monday through Thursday night on Old School 104.7 KQIE. Calling into a radio station might seem like a relic from another era — a cinematic-yet-clichéd gesture, like holding up a boombox beneath a bedroom window or racing through an airport to stop the love of your life from getting on a flight (or a [radio DJ relaying an apology]( from Ross to Rachel in “Friends”). But the shows have a hold on listeners. Even in the age of cellphones and Spotify, legions of fans still tune in nightly. The host might be wishing a couple a happy anniversary or issuing a diplomatic apology on behalf of someone in the dog house. They’ll play songs like Selena’s “[Dreaming of You]( for long-distance couples, “[Kiss Me]( by Sixpence None the Richer for hopeful crushes and Dolly Parton’s rendition of “[I Will Always Love You]( for those wallowing in heartbreak. Nina Morales, from Sylmar spent seven years dedicating songs to her husband, Scrappy, while he was incarcerated in Delano, Calif. Though she’d been listening to Laboe’s show since she was 9, Nina didn’t call in until years later, when she dedicated Bertha Tillman’s “[Oh My Angel]( to her spouse. “The love that we had for each other,” she said, “he would hear it in my voice every time I called.” She continued calling Laboe’s show to dedicate songs to Scrappy five nights a week until his death in late 2021. “My husband was my best friend, my soulmate, the love of my life,” Morales said. “And Mr. Art Laboe would bring us closer, no matter the distance or time.” If you’re curious to read more about the history of these shows and the many people who have called into them over the years, you can find the rest of my story [here](. Send it to someone you love, if you feel so inclined. And now, here’s what’s happening across California: Note: Some of the sites we link to may limit the number of stories you can access without subscribing. ADVERTISEMENT L.A. STORIES Inside Echo Park’s weekly queer line dancing party. 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After six family members died in a matter of minutes on Jan. 16, authorities began to question the crime’s motive. “When the authorities arrested a pair of suspects 18 days later, they were not cartel assassins, but local gang members,” writes Matthew Ormseth. “Their work was not a professional hit, it now appears, but the culmination of years of beefs and simmering bad blood between two families who lived and hated one another on the same desolate patch of land.” [Los Angeles Times]( Support our journalism [Subscribe to the Los Angeles Times.]( HEALTH AND THE ENVIRONMENT Lake Oroville, a reservoir in northern California that plays a key role in the state’s water supply, has been on the rise. 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