The Modern Rules of Merriment

Etiquette tips for the holidays. [For the best experience, read in browser.]( December 9, 2023 Good morning! Get into the seasonal swing with an expert's advice about [a head-scratching question of holiday etiquette](, then sink your teeth into [my favorite food gifts](. Also on tap today: a look at [Taylor Swift's big achievement](, the latest on [a surprising celebrity health update](, and much more. Let's dig in...   The Modern Rules of Merriment [Envelopes in the shape of presents, with $20 bills inside]( Getty Images The holidays are a time of joy, love, and togetherness — and, if you're anything like us, a heaping helping of anxiety about whether you're embracing the proper decorum. To get some clarity, we reached out to someone who's definitely on the nice list: Elaine Swann, a lifestyle and etiquette expert with ample experience in being on one's best behavior. First up, she shares [who you should (and shouldn't) tip during the holidays]( — and how much to give them. And if you're headed to a festive soiree this weekend, she also explains [the dos and don'ts of bringing a gift for the host](.   More Stories [Israeli soldiers head towards the southern border with the Gaza Strip]( Israeli soldiers head towards the southern border with the Gaza Strip. (Getty Images) Critical thinking: As the war between Israel and Hamas highlights controversial differences of opinion around the world, Jewish Currents editor Peter Beinart tells me about [how the conflict changed his opinion of Zionism]( — and what it's been like to shift his ideology in public. Sounding the alarm: Because Donald Trump has already been president, one might think we know what to expect if he takes the White House again. But a second term would likely be quite different from his first, thanks to [this conservative plan that could shake up the government in a serious way](. Pinpointing "The Change": Sick of wondering if you're having hot flashes or you've just set the thermostat too high? We've got the scoop on [a test that reveals whether you've started menopause](, plus relatable words from Gabrielle Union about how confusing this journey can be. Ready, set, shop: With the holidays coming up, our credit cards are getting a serious workout. Make sure you're being smart about your seasonal spending with [these helpful financial tips]( for navigating the most cheerful time of year.   Five-Star Snacks [Peppermint bark, maple syrup, waffles]( KCM Something delicious is always a crowd-pleaser during the holidays — and while I do try to focus on healthy picks, that doesn't mean they have to be boring! I'm sharing [8 treats I love giving as gifts](, with suggestions for every kind of craving. [SEE MY FAVORITES](   Saturday Spotlight [Illustration of a family portrait, with the people in silhouette]( "I Couldn't Actually Walk" Jamie Foxx made his first public appearance since a mysterious hospitalization, and his speech included a few startling details. [Read More »]( [Illustration of an open hand with a text bubble reading ''are you okay?'']( Reaching Out Few things are harder than watching a loved one lose the fight against addiction. Here's how you can help if you spot the warning signs. [Read More »]( [Taylor Swift]( Big Reputation Taylor Swift's seen her share of peaks and valleys. Here's why being TIME's Person of the Year could mean another shift is on the horizon. [Read More »](   Wrap It Up [Katie Couric surrounded by holiday gifts]( KCM If you still haven't started your holiday shopping, we won't judge — but we will give you the help you need with [our overstuffed 2023 gift guide](. From [Molner-approved picks for men]( to advice about [how to please the person who has everything](, we've got you covered. (And if you insist on waiting a little bit longer, we rounded up [presents that'll be delivered in a flash](, too.) [SEE EVERY SINGLE GIFT]( P.S.: Our gifting experts have intel on the hottest sales happening right now, and you'll get it in tomorrow's edition of The Shop Edit if you [sign up right here](.   Festive Feet Keep the party going down to your toes with this [set of four sparkly, sheer socks]( from our partners at Bombas. They even have sewn-in arch support and reinforced toes and heels for supreme comfort and sturdiness. [Four pairs of Bombas socks]( [STOCKING STUFFERS](   [Know it all, and help your friends catch up, too. Share Wake-Up Call and you'll earn some superb swag.](   Thank you for reading Wake-Up Call and being part of our community! If you have questions or comments, drop us a line at info@katiecouric.com. See you next week! [Alternate text] Update your preferences or [unsubscribe]( If you buy something through this email, KCM may earn a commission. Katie Couric Media, 75 Varick St, Ste 12, New York, NY - 10013-1917 Copyright © 2023 Katie Couric Media, All rights reserved.