Belief is NOT enough

See which hot younger women are in your area, looking for a hot hookup with you: [>> See the hot women looking to hookup]( Hey Guys— A few years ago when I was doing a lot of marketing on Facebook, I’d pay attention to the Newsfeed. There were some very good marketers with some very good ads on there, and I wanted to see what they were doing. But after I learned what I needed to know, I simply tuned out and haven’t turned back in since. I got tired of photos of food I knew was now poop, tired of memes with pithy but meaningless sayings, tired of proclamations of true love and so on. *****Photos of SEXY Women For YOU***** As part of an unusual experiment in male-female relations, sexy woman will send you a sexy photo once a day! To take part in this free experiment before it closes, go here now: [>> Sexy photos for you!]( ********************** Every now and then I see a meme on a friend’s page (and most of my Facebook friends are actually people I know in person) that reminds me why I no longer pay attention to the Newsfeed or much social media in general. It said something like, “he (or she) believed, so they did.” Great. Fantastic. Wonderful. All you gotta do is believe, and by golly it will happen for you. Yes, it was just an inspirational image someone found and posted, nothing wrong with that, but it is also indicative of how most people want to live their life. They want to believe or think or manifest or chant or conjur, and success will finally “happen” for them. Is belief important? Yes, it is, but it is useless if 1) you don’t act on it (obvious) and 2) you change it (not obvious). Everyone agrees with #1, but not with #2. People always talk about the importance of “standing firm on your beliefs and principles” but that begs the question, what if your beliefs are WRONG? Or, what if they are off just a bit? If you stubbornly stand firm in your beliefs despite trustworthy, personal evidence to the contrary, your beliefs will get you nowhere. If you question your beliefs, and act on the questions, you will refine your beliefs so that you can take the correct action. Most men grow up believing that women like nice guys, and that you must be kind, sweet, and respectful to them, with no raunchy or filthy thoughts at all. If you persist in the belief, you will watch in disbelief as the bad boys, jerks, and cool guys say the filthiest, raunchiest things to sweet, good girls…and then get laid over and over, even when they don’t deserve it. You can stand by your beliefs and remain unlaid and disrespected by women or you can question and refine them, getting to what works. Refinement comes from action, and that involves failure and rejection. Questioning and rejecting your own beliefs is even harder, but pays off in the end. When you achieve a measure of success, you learn two things about your beliefs: after trial and error and failure and refinement, you arrive at a set of beliefs that hold up and serve you well. And then you must continue to question those beliefs over and over, changing them when new information comes to light. See which hot younger women are in your area, looking for a hot hookup with you: [>> See the hot women looking to hookup]( On with the fun, -John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You” PPS Questions? Comments? Send them to questions@johnalanis.com Oh, and hey, forward this email to your friends, too—don’t leave them out of the fun! Copyright, Art Of Steel, Inc. MMXIV This email is protected by copyright, MMXIV, Art Of Steel, Inc. All right reserved. Reproduction in any form of any portion of this email is strictly prohibited without the express written consent of Art Of Steel, Inc. and John Alanis, Inc. John Alanis Art Of Steel, Inc. 4424 Gaines Ranch Loop #1035 Austin, TX 78735, USA 512 892 8839 Phone response@womenapproachyou.com Your email client cannot read this email. To view it online, please go here: To stop receiving these emails: