[Episode 46] The Choice (Part 3)

[Episode 46] The Choice (Part 3)   Here’s A Cut And Paste Email Message That Gets Women To Reply To You EVERY Time! Are you meeting women online? If you’re not, you’re really missing out. You see, in this day and age of punks, geeks, and girlie men, women are staying inside and using the internet to carefully screen men. Most men fail their tests.   But when you use this cut and paste email message to reply to a woman’s profile, you’re guaranteed a response darn near every time:   [www.effortlesscommunication.com/date-online.php]( ********** Hey Guys,   The flight to Seattle was bad. There were delays, missed connections, bad weather and anything else that could go wrong. On one hand it didn’t really matter—my mood couldn’t get any worse, and I walked around the airport feeling like I was wearing shoes of lead.   On the last leg of the flight (from Oakland to Seattle), I sat next to an attractive older woman. She was very perceptive, and halfway through the flight she said, “you have a very heavy energy about you, as if you just had your heart broken.”   “Yeah,” I said. “It’s tough, real tough. But I’ll make it through- I’m not the first guy to have it happen, nor the last.”    She smiled when I said that, a smile of knowledge and wisdom. “You cannot understand love, until you understand heartbreak,” she said. “In time, you will come to understand what that means.”   I never even knew her name, but what she said was prophetic, as you will see. I actually felt a bit better after talking with her.   The plane landed, and we parted ways. I got my luggage, and walked slowly towards the passenger pickup area, to meet Kara.   The weather was miserable, and she was late. I stood outside in the cold and drizzling rain, thinking how the weather matched my mood. I could have waited inside, but I felt better outside.    Finally she arrived, and I saw her for the first time since her email. She was as beautiful as I could remember, but she was also distant. She gave me a quick hug, and said, “Welcome to Seattle.”    It was awkward. There is no worse feeling in the world than being close to a woman, then having her withdraw that closeness to be with another man. It was going to be a long four days.   We stayed at her friend’s house that night, and it was cordial enough. I noticed Kara kept looking at me out of the corner of her eye, then would quickly avert them when I looked her way. She also made a show of calling the guy she was “serious” about two or three times while we were there.   The first time she did it, I started to get pissed- how disrespectful can you get? But my attraction training came to the rescue—“be cool,” it told me, “and see how this plays out. Things aren’t always as they seem to be.”   What I needed was information, and if I lost it, I wouldn’t get it. I needed to know what was really going on with her and this guy, because I had a feeling she was up to something. She looked at me a little too often, and called this guy a little too much. Hmmm.   The next day we left her friend’s house and went to a hotel we’d booked previously. Separate beds, of course, and she made a big show of staying on her side of the room. So, I asked her, “how’d you meet this guy?”   Turns out she met him online, read his profile, and decided she was “the one” for her. They’d had a first date in a local park, had a great time, and right then and there she fell in love with him. This was less than a month ago, and things had been heavenly since.   I smelled a rat on the spot. That ain’t how long term attraction works. The girlie men in the media may believe in love at first sight, but that doesn’t happen in the real world. Every time anyone tries it, it ends in disaster.   Everything suddenly became clear. She was engineering a situation not for him, but for me. It was a “takeaway,” a very effective form of salesmanship. She wanted me to confess my feelings for her, and for me to commit to a long term relationship then and there.   Wow. I didn’t know whether to admire her or feel disgust for her—she was playing to win at any cost, and I was the prize.    I have to admit, I almost fell for it. Almost. And if I hadn’t had all my experience with attraction, I might have. Heartbreak is a powerful thing, and when you’re in its clutches you will do anything to break the spell—including committing to a woman you’re destined to break up with.   I had a choice to make, and four days to make it. I could end my heartbreak then and there, and restore the attraction to where it was. But at what price, at what cost? Initial attraction always fades, and then you’re left with the person as they are.   As I said in a previous episode, Kara had a lot of good qualities about her. But she also had some that were not so good, including a manipulative, vindictive side. It made her exciting to be around—now. But what would happen in the future when that side turned on me?   That was something I had to take into account when I made my choice, the choice of a lifetime…   TO BE CONTINUED…   On with the fun,   -John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You”   PS   There is an odd “quirk” in female psychology, that can allow you to bypass a woman’s normal attraction filters, and create attraction in minutes that takes other, lesser men weeks, even months to create.   Check out this very cool presentation that exposes this “loophole,” here:   [www.effortlesscommunication.com/weird-loop-hole.php](                 Copyright John Alanis Art Of Steel, Inc. 4424 Gaines Ranch Loop #1035 Austin, TX, 78735 USA 512 892 8839 Phone secrets@womenapproachyou.com You are currently subscribed to johnalanis as: {EMAIL} Add john@johnalanis.com to your email address book to ensure delivery. 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