[Episode 40] Turn it up, turn it ON

[Episode 40] Turn it up, turn it ON   What will you do when the love of your life is suddenly attacked by a vicious criminal? Will you run and hide, or will you defeat him, sending him running with his tail between his legs? To make sure you are the victor if this situation ever happens, go here:   [( ********** Hey guys,   It was time for me to introduce touch with Kara, time for me to turn up the volume farther. So far I’d done everything right, but that meant nothing unless it continued. With attraction you’re either growing or you’re dying and I had to keep growing.   As you read this, you might be saying to yourself, “wow, that’s a lot of detail.” You’re right, it is—there are a lot of things to pay attention to in attraction, like driving a car. And they’re all important. But like driving a car, you start to get a feel for such things, start to notice patterns that repeat, and just know what to do next.   Your unconscious mind takes over and guides you, as a result of your prior experiences, both successes and failures. Any man who refuses to date multiple women while wanting to meet that special one is a dope.    If you don’t spend time with lots of different women, you will never acquire the skill to attract that special one when she was right in front of you. The lessons I’d learned in the past good and bad were serving me well with Kara. I knew what to do, when to do it, and my subconscious was guiding me.   [----Note from the Future----]   One thing that did help me with Kara was I’d gotten my body in pretty good shape, and there was no doubt she was attracted to it in the context of my behavior. Of course no body, no matter how fit, will overcome unattractive behavior, but it does add to attractive behavior.   Most men think getting an attractive body is hard or out of their reach, but it’s not, and it can really help you out when attracting women. Is it absolutely necessary? No. Is it helpful? Yes. Plus, every aspect of your life is better when you’re fit.   I’m a big believer in fitness, so I just put together a new report called “How to Get the Body Women Crave Even If You Don’t Deserve It” and you can claim your copy, plus hear the “fat zero to fit hero” story from my friend Roger Patton by going here:   [www.effortlesscommunication.com/fit.php](   [-----Back to my Story--------]     I was in the zone, and the game had slowed down for me. Now I was directing and controlling it, instead of being overwhelmed by it.   How to initiate touch the right way? Simple, in this case—the good ol’ fashioned bathroom break.   This was a case of my subconscious mind thinking several steps ahead. When we’d initially gone up to the room so I could drop off my luggage, I knew I had to make her feel comfortable. But my subconscious knew I’d have to move beyond comfort, and proceed to touch, so it “suggested” getting something to eat in a public place.   I drink a lot of fluid—water, ice tea, and diet coke, so when I have to go, I have to go. I stood up and said to Kara, “be back in a second, I gotta use the restroom.” Then (and this is important) I walked by her, put my hand on her shoulder, and gently squeezed it as I kept walking.   It was nonthreatening, yet it was touch at the same time. I looked back at her, and she smiled at me. The next hurdle had been crossed…but there were still many more to go. I kept telling myself, “be cool, don’t hurry this, keep turning up the volume.”   I came back, sat down for a bit, and we talked some more. The time had come for us to leave—if we stayed there, things would start to get stale, and the volume would subside. I paid out, and we walked towards the elevators.   I thought about kissing her when we got in the elevator, but my intuition told me that’d be a bad idea. It’d worked well with women in the past, but I got the feeling Kara wanted to “know me” better first.   One thing I’d learned from Kat was that she had to feel she “knew” a guy before she could get physical with him. She’d told me it wasn’t a “time” thing, it was a “feeling” she got. Some men she felt she’d never “know” in decades, some men she’d get to “know” in hours. But if that feeling wasn’t there, nothing was happening.   I got the intuition the same thing applied to Kara. When we got inside the elevator, I moved away from her slightly, to give her space. The last thing I wanted her to feel was that I was going to make a sudden move. We were heading up to the hotel room anyways, so there was no need to do anything else.   When we arrived on our floor, the door opened, and I gently put my hand on her shoulder in the same place I’d touched her before, and led her out. She looked back at me and smiled, and we walked to the door.   I knew I would have one shot once I got inside. If I did it right, I’d win the prize of a lifetime. Do it wrong, and the rest of the trip would be a disaster. I opened the door, and we walked inside…   TO BE CONTINUED…   On with the fun,   -John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You”   PS   Here’s an interesting secret about attraction: women LOVE to be talked into doing things by men. That’s why they pretend to resist at first, because they are turned on by a man’s words.   Remember, you must stimulate a woman’s mind before you stimulate her body, and talking women into doing things (as I was doing with Kara) ignites a woman’s mind.    I just put together a report on this important subject, entitled, “How to Talk Any Woman Into Anything.” I’m going to start selling this report soon for a decent chunk of change, but you can grab a free copy if you go here:   [(   Don’t delay, as I will be removing this soon.                   Copyright John Alanis Art Of Steel, Inc. 4424 Gaines Ranch Loop #1035 Austin, TX, 78735 USA 512 892 8839 Phone secrets@womenapproachyou.com You are currently subscribed to johnalanis as: {EMAIL} Add john@johnalanis.com to your email address book to ensure delivery. 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