[Episode 39] Never a sure thing

[Episode 39] Never a sure thing   THIS free report is only for those men interested in taking their attraction skills to the next level. What is revealed is not for the weak, wimpy, or those uncomfortable with power. When you understand the awesome power of “setting and controlling frames” you will always be in control of all your interactions with women. Claim your copy here: [( ********** Hey Guys,   A big mistake many men make with attraction is they think once a woman’s interested in them, she’s a sure thing. They think they can show up, she’ll be all over him, and they’ll both fall into bed as quickly as possible.   He’s shocked when he tries that and gets a negative reaction—after all, it’s what he’d do, if she came from afar to meet him, right?   But that’s not how women think about attraction. Remember, we, as men, are switches—flip us on, and we’re ready to go with no waiting. Women are not that way. They are volume knobs, and it’s very, very important you understand that (that’s why I keep repeating it).   Furthermore, women never turn into switches—they always need to have their volume turned up. I could have messed up with Kara by trying to get physical with her without turning up her volume first. She’d flown to meet me, and was obviously wildly attracted… but I never forgot she was a woman and responded as such.   So I played it cool, letting the Law of Comfort and Chemistry take effect, letting her relax in my presence so I could oh-so-slowly turn up the volume. I’d reached the point where I was pretty good at that, enjoying the art of building her desire.   We were at the Johnny Rocket’s diner in the Reno Hilton, and she was talking about her favorite car, a ’57 Chevy. I decided to tweak the volume and said, “Ah, that’s the one with the big back seat, huh?”   She laughed and said, “Oh yeah, you can almost stretch out on it.” It was time to layer in some innuendo so I said, “Almost big enough for two, huh?”    She threw her head back and smiled seductively, then said, “Only if you’re laying on top of each other…”   My immediate comeback? “Oh yeah? Well, who’s on top?”   “Depends,” she said. “Let’s make it equitable, shall we,” I shot back. “We’ll take turns and see who’s better…”   “You’re bad,” she said with a seductive look in her eye. “Modesty prevents me from disagreeing with you,” I came back with.    Just then our food arrived, and we paused to eat. Comfort was starting to give way to chemistry, and we were getting back into the rhythm of attraction we’d so often experienced on the phone. Sometimes getting interrupted is a bad thing, but in this case it worked out.    Comfort was still paramount here, and by taking time out to eat, we were able to be comfortable in each other’s presence without talking. The nervousness was dissipating, and the anticipation was beginning to build.   But it could still come unraveled, and as I sat there in the presence of the sexiest woman I’d ever met, I stayed focus on the task at hand, taking her through the process of attraction without missing a step or making a misstep.   I often wonder how many relationships are killed because the guy made one wrong move, or did the wrong thing at the wrong time. Remember what I told you at the beginning of my story about ‘atta boys and aw shits?    One hundred ‘atta boys equals one aw’ shit—and that one aw shit can derail a lifetime relationship. I was determined not to let that happen here.   It was time to take the next step, time to introduce touch into the interaction. But it had to be done just right, and I knew it had to be done in public.   How could I do it without being sudden or blatant? The answer came to me, a result of all my prior experiences with women, and I reached into the bag of tricks, and pulled out one that’d always worked before…   TO BE CONTINUED…   On with the fun,   -John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You”   PS   As you can tell by my story so far, I was making all the right moves at all the right times, almost as if I was operating on autopilot. It was somewhat of a surreal experience because I really felt like I was simply driving a car, and automatically operating all the controls instead of thinking about them.   You know you’ve gotten good at attraction when your brain switches over from “conscious competence” to “unconscious competence,” and you simply act by instinct.   If you want to know how I accomplished this, and how you can too, I’ve put together all the details in my Ultimate Unlimited Lifetime of Power and Success with Women System. This is not for the man who wishes to merely dabble in attraction, this is only for the man who wishes to master it.    But, if that describes you, if you’re a man who truly wants to master attraction, then my Ultimate System is for you. Check it out at:   [(                   Copyright John Alanis Art Of Steel, Inc. 4424 Gaines Ranch Loop #1035 Austin, TX, 78735 USA 512 892 8839 Phone secrets@womenapproachyou.com   You are currently subscribed to johnalanis as: {EMAIL} Add john@johnalanis.com to your email address book to ensure delivery. 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