[Episode 28] Stimulate this before you stimulate that

[Episode 28] Stimulate this before you stimulate that   Want a body women crave? It’s easier than you think, and this free report reveals how you can quickly and easily reshape your body for maximum attraction effect [www.effortlesscommunication.com/fit.php]( ********** Hey Guys,   Angus Steele had just finished up his view on relationship equity and story telling, and was now about to get to some really good stuff. The primary purpose of attraction, after all, is dating, romance and relationships.   “Let me tell you a secret about women and stories,” Angus began. “If you want to stimulate a woman’s body, you must first stimulate a woman’s mind. And that’s what stories do. They activate a woman’s imagination, then move it in the direction of attraction in a safe, comfortable environment.”   A-ha. There was that word again—comfortable. Story telling fit right in with my Law of Comfort and Chemistry, and in fact, was the perfect example of that. Telling a woman a story first makes her comfortable, and if you tell it the right way (as Angus did) it led to chemistry.   Funny how all this stuff ties together.   Angus continued.   “I love your concept of personal authority, and that’s what story telling is all about—subtly displaying your ability to lead a woman to where she wants to go. That’s a giant turn on for women because so few men know how to do it.   They make the mistake of thinking women get turned on physically first like we do, and there’s rarely any chemistry there. But when you activate a woman’s mind through the use of stories, the chemistry can be intense.   Ever read any of those trashy romance novels they sell at the grocery store? For men they’re darn near impossible to get through—but women love them because they activate their imaginations, and turn them on.   It may sound kinda dumb, but they’re worth reading. You’ll see the male hero is always the same, and so is the heroine. It follows the same structure, and if you’ve read one, you’ve read ‘em all.   But women never get tired of them, because they activate a woman’s imagination, then lead her through a chain of emotional states that lead to the vicarious feeling of chemistry. Laugh all you want, but romance novels account for 50% of all fiction book sales.”   Amazing. It all comes back to chemistry, doesn’t it? What Angus just told me tracks with what The Hound told me, what Kat told me, and what the debacle with Lena told me.   That’s so important, it leads to another law of attraction, the Law of Female Behavior. That law simply states that “women make decisions about men based on whether chemistry is present or not. If it is, she’ll do anything to be with you. If it isn’t, she’ll do anything to get away from you.”   Makes attraction kinda simple, doesn’t it?    Well, at least conceptually—the devil is, of course, in the details and Angus had a lot more details to share about his story telling technique and why it was so powerful.    “How you start a story is really important,” said Angus. “If you don’t do it with the right energy, with the right intent, or with the right words, people will think you’re a bore… and boredom is a killer of attraction.   You’ve got to capture her interest immediately, and start building anticipation. You also have to set the stage, because during your story, you want to get a little naughty, want to layer in some innuendo so she starts feeling some attraction, and links it to you.   You don’t want to be blatant, but you don’t want to be antiseptic. Also, this isn’t tragedy, it’s comedy-- you want a woman, or better yet, a group of women, to laugh in spite of themselves. That’s when you know you’re on the right track.   So, here’s the absolute, best, no-fail way to start a story that hooks a woman’s attention…”   TO BE CONTINUED…   On with the fun,   -John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You”   PS   There’s a great book called “Dangerous Men, Adventurous Women” that breaks down the structure of romance novels. If you want to understand how to activate a woman’s mind through story telling, I highly recommend you get your hands on it.   You can get it on Amazon.com and it will give you an understanding of female psychology few men have.   If you go to my blog, here:   [(   …I’ve posted the link to the book on Amazon there. Well worth getting.                   Copyright John Alanis Art Of Steel, Inc. 4424 Gaines Ranch Loop #1035     Austin, TX, 78735 USA 512 892 8839 Phone secrets@womenapproachyou.com   You are currently subscribed to johnalanis as: {EMAIL} Add john@johnalanis.com to your email address book to ensure delivery. [Forward to a Friend]( | [Manage Subscription]( | [Subscribe]( | [Unsubscribe]( | [Snooze]( [Net Atlantic](