The judgers and the judged

The cold, hard secret about women which few men understand.... But when YOU do, you'll get the hot action most men only dream of: [>> Understand this cold, hard secret about women]( Hey Guys— The vast majority of men and women in the world share a common dread: the dread of being judged by other people. They dread being judged by friends, by teachers, by co-workers, by colleagues, by bosses, by parents, by relatives and so on. *****Photos of SEXY Women For YOU***** As part of an unusual experiment in male-female relations, sexy woman will send you a sexy photo once a day! To take part in this free experiment before it closes, go here now: [>> Click here if you enjoy sexy photos!]( ********************** Their dread is so great that not only do they let it bother them emotionally, they let it affect their behavior, doing things that are detrimental to them. Some people dress a certain way to avoid judgment by others. Some refuse to date certain kind of people. Others want to start businesses but never do, afraid of judgment by those who say they could get a steady job. They live lesser lives because of the fear of being judged. But rarely do they stop to think what qualifies others to “judge” them, and what does their “judgment” really mean? Is it something tangible, or is it only a selfish opinion based on limited life experience, a way to control something in a life they have no control over? Rarely is it anything tangible or meaningful, and when you make one simply shift in mindset, the dread of being judge dissipates, and the fear of being judged loses all its power. The mindshift is this: what qualifies ANY of the people judging you to make decisions about YOUR life and more importantly…what if YOU were judging them and they lived in dread of YOUR judgment? That one mindshift can completely remove the power of the judgers. Moreover, it makes them comical when you start mentally judging them, because their words and behaviors never live up to their snotty advice, and they become caricatures of what they think they are. Of course you don’t want to waste any mental energy sharing your judgments with them—it won’t make a bit of difference in their lives. Instead, use it as a defense against the dread of being judged, and realize that if you learn, study, take action and risks and gain real world experience, you know a hell of a lot more than they do. The only judgment I ever worry about is the judgment of the marketplace because I am a business owner, and judgment by the marketplace leads to profits, if you accept it. But other than that, no single person holds my mind prisoner by their judgment or opinions, freeing me to live a different, freer life. The fear of judgement by others can really hold people back, especially if you are just starting in life. But if you make it a point to gain experience and knowledge quickly, you soon become the judge, and others judgment turns from frightening to comical, and eventually to pathetic. The cold, hard secret about women which few men understand.... But when YOU do, you'll get the hot action most men only dream of: [>> Understand this cold, hard secret about women]( On with the fun… -John Alanis “The King of Let ‘em Come to You” PS Got something for me personally? Email it to: questions@johnalanis.com Copyright, Art Of Steel, Inc. MMXV This email is protected by copyright, MMXV, Art Of Steel, Inc. All right reserved. Reproduction in any form of any portion of this email is strictly prohibited without the express written consent of Art Of Steel, Inc. and John Alanis, Inc. John Alanis Art Of Steel, Inc. 4424 Gaines Ranch Loop #1035 Austin, TX 78735, USA 512 892 8839 Phone response@womenapproachyou.com Your email client cannot read this email. To view it online, please go here: To stop receiving these emails: