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{NAME}, Do you have a formal dining room table? Iâm guessing if you do, you use it for special occasionsâlike holidays and dinner parties. And maybe the rest of the time, you eat in the kitchen. (And the table becomes a breeding ground for bills, junk mail, and other weâll-think-about-this-later stuff.) The standard job application process is like a formal dining room table. It looks good. It seems promising. But it just isnât that useful. And when it comes to finding a dream job, Indeed, Monster, ZipRecruiter, and other resume farms are just as useless as that neglected table. Job search technique The job search techniques of an average applicant vs top talent. What do you notice? Job board sites donât work Why is it unlikely youâll snag a job you love from a job board? Because job boards arenât built to favor standout candidates. Theyâre built to get companies MORE applications, not better applications ([and the numbers prove it]()). You could spend hours shot gunning your resume and never hear back, because: - You canât get past the gatekeeper. Some underpaid HR person whoâs having a bad day may toss your resumeâbefore the real decision-maker even gets to see it. - Your abilities arenât shining through. Most people donât use their resume to tell a persuasive story about their qualifications. (Look out for my email next week on how to massively improve your resume.) - The listed job isnât even available. The company might already know who theyâre going to hire and just posted the job publicly to comply with legal requirements. Of course, you donât know if or when any of these things happen. You just know that you apply and wait for weeks. Then you either get a boilerplate rejection email, or the job posting status mysteriously changes to âfilled.â Time to get up from the dining room table, {NAME}. Because no oneâs coming for dinner. All the action is happening in the kitchen. Ramit and family making pasta Making pasta with my parents and in-laws The real party is in the kitchen Unlike the formal dining room table that gets cleared off only when Aunt Myrnaâs in town, the kitchen table is where you actually eat most meals. Itâs warm. Itâs casual. It feels more accessible, which is why everyone always ends up standing in the kitchen at parties. In the kitchen, the barrier to entry is lowâ¦but the probability of delicious reward is high. Think of your personal network like your kitchen table. Look to your left and right to see who your friends, family members, and acquaintances are connected to. Once youâve identified someone interesting on the outer edges of your social circle, you can ask for an introduction. I can hear you already: âRamit, I donât know anyone influential!â
âI donât know how to network!â
âI donât wanna bother anyone!â I promise: You absolutely know someone who knows someone. And youâre not being a bother. The problem is that youâre thinking of networking as transactional. Try this reframe: When you ask for a connection, you make the person youâre asking feel important. Most of the time, theyâre happy to do you this small favor! Hereâs an email script you can use to prompt these warm intros: Email script for warm intros Personalize that script all you want. Just keep it genuine, and make your ask feel easy. My challenge for you today: Make a list of 3â5 people youâd like to meet. Then find and ask a mutual connection for an intro. The warm introductions you get from these connections will help you build your network. So even if youâre not looking for a new role right now, [when it comes time to change jobs](), youâll be able to skip the cold, impersonal âdinner tableâ job sites and head straight where the real action is. See you in the kitchen, [Signature] P.S. If youâve been feeling stuck in your job, I recently talked to GOBankingRates about the 7 questions to ask yourself if youâre feeling trapped by your income. [Check out the article here](). [Programs]() [Podcast]() [Netflix show]() [Books]() [Website]() [IG]() [in]() [X]() [YT]()
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