It's bad to tell yourself "that will never happen." What you should ask is
To view this email as a web page, [click here]() If you were suddenly rich, what would you do? When I was a kid, we drove to LA in our van to visit our family. THAT was our vacation. For the rare times we stayed in a hotel, we got a motel or Holiday Inn and 6 of us slept in one room. The funniest thing is, none of us ever saw the hotel lobby since our dad told us to stay in the car while he went to check in. Then we would go through the side entrance and all stay in the room to save money. Hereâs the inevitable phone call to the front desk: âHi, could we have some extra pillows?â
âSure, room 302. Would 2 extra pillows be fine?â
âUh...how about 4, and a cot?â
âSIR, THIS ROOM IS ONLY FOR TWO PEOPâHELLO?â Itâs interesting how dreams change once you can actually achieve them. When we were young, how many of us wanted to go to Disneyland? Honestly, my dream was even simpler â to be able to order an appetizer at a restaurant without having to worry if it was too expensive. What's after Disneyland? Maybe the next level is to stay at the Disney hotel. Or to get that special car, or to live in that luxury apartment. Isnât it funny how the more you want â even if you donât tell anyone else â the more uncomfortable it starts to feel? I learned exactly how intensely uncomfortable it is for us to admit what we really want. For example, I spend over $50,000/year on luxury services. If 22-year-old Ramit saw that, he would have called me an idiot, then fainted. But if you know what you want, and you can afford it, Iâve always encouraged you to spend extravagantly. I had the fortune of having all of these dreams, then finding out what happens when you can actually get them. I donât look at prices in restaurants anymore. When I went on a 3-week vacation, my business automatically generated tens of thousands of dollars. Getting to these levels has taught me a lot of things I didnât expect. Not many people will talk about this because itâs taboo. I LOVE Reddit. A few years ago, I came across a great thread where people asked, â[If you were suddenly rich, what small luxury would you indulge in?]()â WHAT I LOVE: The question lets you imagine what you would do if you had the time and money to get essentially anything. What would it be for you? Daily massage? Someone to clean your house? Do these things sound awesome ⦠or feel sorta uncomfortable? Personally, I think they sound fucking awesome. (Notice how many people are uncomfortable with the entire topic of this email, as if itâs bad to buy things you want â as if it makes you a bad person.) WHAT I DONâT LOVE: After engaging in the fantasy for a minute, people wipe their hands, saying, âWell, that was fun but itâll never happen! Back to the grind...â without stopping for a second and saying â "Hey wait a sec. What could I do to get that kind of freedom?" It's bad to tell yourself "that will never happen." What you should ask is "what would it take to make that happen?" Itâs not about cutting back on lattes. [Meme] I canât imagine, at the end of my life, being satisfied with having cut back on lattes. I want to grow. I want to go out with friends, use my time and money to live a Rich Life with my family, and be generous with the resources I have. Iâve also learned how certain things arenât that important to me. I gave my car to my parents. Instead of just adding an extra â0â to our balance sheet, I wanted to take the resources of IWT and direct them toward building 12 schools around the world. We became the [largest fundraiser in Pencils of Promise history](). I never would have imagined this when I was young. Can you imagine what a tragedy it would have been if my dream had stayed the same as my 7-year-old self? That stupid dream of being able to order appetizers at a restaurant? I wish I could go back in time and shake myself and yell, âTHINK BIGGER, YOU IDIOT!!â Most people think of a dream as something you fantasize about, then go back to the real world. No! What seems crazy now can seem ordinary later â if you put the work in. Now, Iâd like to ask you to tell me something: - What was your dream when you were a kid? (Mine was ordering appetizers off a menu.) - Whatâs your dream now? DREAM BIG. Donât just say, âa million dollars.â Tell me if you want an online business (and what that would mean to you). Get specific! Reply to this email and let me know. I read every single one. [Signature] WHAT TO DO NEXT REPLY: What was your dream when you were a kid? Whatâs your dream now? (Get specific!) [SIGN UP]() How did you feel about todayâs email? [insta]() [Twitter]() [twitter]() [youtube]() [Linkedin]() [podcast]() This email was sent to {EMAIL}. If you no longer wish to receive these emails you may [unsubscribe]( at any time. 548 Market St #89946 San Francisco, CA 94104-5401