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â Because, in the end, Zillow is about the fantasy of living other lives. We look at online real estate for the same reason people binge-watch House Hunters...because, what would it be like to live in that place? â
Yet, as a digital nomad, this is te-e-e-e-eeeeechnically supposed to conflict with my chosen lifestyle. Iâm not supposed to want houses: Iâm supposed to want freedom! And adventure! And three-day-old jelly donuts that I got on discount while backpacking around the world with a guy named Chris! But, letâs be honest: jelly donuts are disgusting. And secondly, that life I just described? Itâs (kind of) disgusting too. At least, it is to people like me: a thirty-eight-year-old Rumplestiltskin of a writer who has little patience for chub rub, noise past 8pm, or anything that requires me to squat. (You can just kind of picture the life of the young digital nomad, right? PERSISTENTLY SQUATTING.)
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And, I was one. (Okay, fine: I never had abs. And I never used a backpack, either. Personally, I really enjoy the masochistic thrill of lugging an oversized suitcase through rush hour in Paris.)
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I started one of the very first blogs about it. I stayed in hostels and I kissed boys from England and I train traveled on a whim and wrote creative copy for clients from around the world. When Airbnb launched, I was one of its first customers. I rented a room in a flat in Barcelona, and went to the end of the earth to Patagonia, and spent Christmas with strangers singing songs in other languages. Itâs been fourteen years since Iâve had to go to an office. My Macbook charger is considered an appendage. And the only person deciding how much I get paid this year is me. And yetâpreviously, my life was an anomaly: most people didnât make this choice. Sometimes it was for a lack of desire (kids! soccer! school!), but oftentimes it was short-sightedness with what was possible. Most people could not fathom a world in which you didnât go back and forth to an office. Most people couldnât see what was right in front of them: that the world was changing, and that included the way professionals earned a living. My lifestyle was written off as a risk most people were not willing to take, usually because of some combination of work, family, and a general lack of imagination around trivial items, like âwhat will we do with our stuff?â And then it happened. The pandemic forced a new reality on all of us. The pandemic showed people that working remotely was actually a thing, and that maybe they liked their life better as a result. They were like, wow, I actually can be with my kids! We can actually do things together! And we can do it in Utah, overlooking some rocks! Maybe this isnât a selfish lifestyle, but the most selfless thing I could do. â â â Right now, digital nomadism is growing at a faster clip than ever in history. And, itâs a wonderful thing. I choke up to imagine all of the people who once thought me crazy, irresponsible, flighty, now enjoying the sweet nectar of LIFE. Look at the size of those mountains, Mikey! Wouldja just look at that cheese board! You mean I can work on my laptop AND drink a beer the size of a wrestler's neck? All walks are joining in: old, young, married, unmarried, corporate, non-corporate, families, partners, mom, dad. Itâs the NEW digital nomad, and I am here ðð» for ðð» it ðð». But, itâs a completely different brand of digital nomadism than before. Age plays a role, as does the presence of family, partners, professional experience, standard of living, and general interests. This is not the backpacking crowd. These are not the people going to fly shots in Chiang Mai, Thailand. And frankly? Iâm not, either. Like so many OG nomads, Iâve long outgrown so many of the âcharacteristicsâ of the typical digital nomad (except lip gloss. LIP GLOSS FOR LIFE). This is why I find myself on Zillow now more than ever: because todayâs digital nomad IS different. And one of the biggest differences? Far superior earning power. The original generation of digital nomads are todayâs online executivesâyou just canât see them. They arenât wearing suits while dining at Jules Verne and eating Calotte de Boeuf before waiting for the valet to bring them their Mercedes. They're [Nathan Barry](. He started out as a web designer. Then he built an audience. Then he built [ConvertKit](*. Now, ConvertKit earns $25MM a year, and recently he [bought an entire ghost town](. Or how about my friend & business partner [Jamie](. We met online in 2009. Met up in France and L.A. Sheâs a writer and designer. Today, sheâs written two books, and her latest is being optioned as a movie. She has a course and a business. She just hopped on a plane to Paris this week. She doesnât have to answer to anybody. And then thereâs someone like me. I never wanted a big team. Never wanted to feel claustrophobic inside my own life. But what I did want? Was the freedom to explore this big, beautiful, creepy world in grand style. With the people I love. Doing the things that matter to me. With a hunk of grana padano in my mouth, and spaciousness in my days, and creativity in my soul. Perhaps the ability to study architecture in my free time. And photography. And to roll up my cuffs and tiptoe into the blue lagoons of the Andes. And spend hours walking through forests and along cliff sides and making friends with locals in pubs. And, I wanted to write. And write, and write and write. And, thatâs exactly what I did. By the time I was 35, I had made $5M from my writing. Not because I am special, but because I am so clear about what I want, that it becomes easy to say ânoâ to the things that do not fit my life. â Yesterdayâs nomad grew up, and our earning power grew with it. This is, perhaps, the characteristic we most share in common with the new nomad: years in the workforce, learning how to earn. The new nomad has also spent a decade or two climbing some ladders, growing their skillset, and increasing their earning power. Theyâre used to making six figures. And so, itâs a much different reality than the traditional globetrotting backpacker. So different, in fact, Iâd argue we need a separate title entirely. The term âdigital nomadâ is no longer accurate for us all: it feels a little bit like putting on Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle PJs from the 4th grade. We are a hybrid social group, falling somewhere in between the freedom and adventurous ambitions of our younger counterparts, and the stability and âI own a fringed fucking lampshadeâ sensibilities of our more established selves. Most notably, however, this shift in both demographics and earning power means that cities, towns, places, and the travel industry are going to experience a critical shift, too: - From primarily staying in hostels to staying in Airbnbs & subscription hotels
- From traveling to budget destinations to venturing toward the most in-demand destinations
- From existing on street food to pursuing dining experiences those that reflect a sophisticated palate
- From seeking out a party atmosphere to seeking out a family atmosphere
- From appreciating the architecture to wanting to own a piece of it
- And, from having the growing reputation of being piranhas on a place, to being able to contribute in more meaningful ways to the local economy: earning power translates into spending power, and that means that the new, professional-class digital nomad can now support local businesses in ways that werenât possible before; ways that the backpacking crowd never could This last piece is important, and will be a defining characteristic of this new class of nomads. This shift can finally offer increased financial benefits to the local population, ensuring a more mutually beneficial ecosystem between host community and nomad. (Backpackers donât offer it, and luxury vacationers donât either: [only $5 out of every $100 spent]() at corporate, globally-owned resorts and hotels goes back into the local economy. ð«¤) â Yes, perhaps one of the greatest silver linings of the pandemic is the chance for human beings to rethink their quality of life. Guilt-free. With a newfound appreciation for time. And a new lens with which to view the world. Turns out, a life of adventure and a life with a home arenât mutually exclusive anymore. In fact, today theyâre mutually complementary. I mean, who doesnât want to cozy up and hibernate in a New England lodge for the winter before setting off to explore the mountains of Norway in the spring? Who doesnât want the comfort of home, when itâs time to come home, and the financial resources to roam, when itâs time to roam? Itâs not an either/or discussion anymore. Itâs a both. Home, and roam. Family, and travel. Stability, and adventure. Yes, andâ¦yes. Which is why I sit here with my mediocre eggs (theyâre long cold by now), pulling up Zillow, wondering what it might be like to purchase the property at 89 Academy Drive, built in 1831, surrounded by Orange daylilies. Because I am no longer forced to choose the worldâs playground or a backyard of my own. I am no longer forced to decide between decisions that make me happy, and decisions that make me wise. And I am no longer forced to travel and feed my soul, or stay, and feed my heart. Because over here, down yonder? The best kind of living gives both. Now all I need are some abs. â FREE WORKSHOP How to Do Work You Love While Traveling the World â
If you want to create a nomadic lifestyle, you've got to create a nomadic workstyle. You need to make different decisions than most people. You need to have different priorities than most people. And you need to design your work differently than most people.
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You can't work like a typical freelancer. You can't build a business that never lets you leave the house. You can't be chained to your desk for 90 hours a day trying to bill enough hourly projects to afford underwear.
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Not if you hope to ever see the outside of your Airbnb.
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Exclusively selling your services is not compatible with your goals if your goals are to:
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Every decision you make costs you time. And, time is the new income.
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It doesn't matter if you're earning three million dollars if your life is not yours. It doesn't matter if you can afford a mansion in New Hampshire if you can't also f*ck off to Scotland.
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The concept of time as income is so important, I measure it as a real metric of business healthâI qualify this as $T. The goal is to optimize both $USD ð° and $T. ð°
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I've been developing a framework to maximize both of these, allowing you to create a successful remote business you can run from anywhere in the world. Maximum return on earnings. Maximum return on time. (AKA more of both.) If that sounds like JUST the thing you need in 2023, (a) Stay subscribed because this is going to be a real rager, and (b) Sign up for a free workshop I'm doing in January, below, before I run off to Vermont and really do buy that house. ð
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More on Selfish Forever ð - Study finds that [22% of American workforce will be remote by 2025]() ð§âð»
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- The #1 top trending travel destination for 2023, according to Airbnb bookings? [Malaga, Spain](=) ðªð¸
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- The CEO of Freehand Hotels says that now that the pandemic is over, [he doesn't want digital nomads](=)âso much so, one of his hotels has already removed power outlets to discourage working from computers in the lobby. ð (He may want to rethink that.)
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- Dutch supermarket has added â[slow checkout lanes](=)â for senior citizens who could use a chatâaannnndddd....I've never heard a better argument for visiting a place. ð¥°
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- Capture the Atlas announces [2022 Northern Lights Photography of the Year]( ð¸ (STUNNING)
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- â[This artist]( spent over 350 hours drawing every detail of the Duomo di Milano door âï¸ (meanwhile, all we have to show for it is a lousy TikTok video ð
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- The European Union will allow [phone calls on planes]() in 2023 ð
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Selfish Money ð° - Want to partner with brands this year & get PAY-UHD? [Creator Wizard](=)* ð§ is a muuuuust-follow
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- Matt McWilliams has a new book out called [Turn Passions Into Profits](* and there are ð¥ bonuses
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- Do you have a [Revolut Nomad Bank Account*]() yet?! MIND. BLOWN. You can send money like Venmo to anyone in the world, spend abroad at the local exchange rate ð¤¯, waltz into airport lounges, get 10% cashback on hotel stays, and more. (I signed up for this immediately, and then my friend [Matthew Kimberley]() immediately sent me money from Malta with a note "Have a drink on me!". Which really pisses me off, because now I'm going to just have to fly to Malta to have it with him. ð¤·ââï¸ Here's us in Barcelona recently (I ate my first razor clam!):
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â - I've got a few spots open on [my private consulting calendar]() for February & Marchâif you want to talk through your nomadic business, scoop one up and bring a stiff drink. ð¥ WE WILL ZOOM AND IT WILL BE THE ZOOM OF ALL ZOOMS. I may even wear a fake mustache.
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- We all need to buy ourselves a [Freewrite Traveler](=) for Christmas. And that's not an ad. I just really, really want one.
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- No, but should we seriously go hang in Vermont? ð They're offering a [$7,500 digital nomad grant](), and...how adorable would that be??? â â Share and Win Selfish (Holiday!) Surprises ð â â Share This Newsletter & Win Selfish Surprises! ð° ðº ð It's easyâjust share your link and we'll track who signs up through you. The more people who subscribe, the more prizes you win. My favorite? A $1,000 Airbnb gift card, and a round-trip plane ticket to *anywhere*. ð© Share the newsletter now to start earning! â¬ï¸ [(=) [facebook]( [twitter]() [whatsapp]( [linkedin]() [email]() So far, you've referred 0 subscribers [View your rewards & referrals >]() â ASH AMBIRGE is a nomadic business advisor & travel writer specializing in digital nomads, remote work, and balancing her Macbook in between her boobs and teeny, tiny airplane trays. She is the CEO of [IRREVERENT](=) and the [SELFISH FOREVER]( newsletter, and author of the book [THE MIDDLE FINGER PROJECT]() (Penguin Random House). She's probably on hold with the bank. â â â The Digital Nomad Career Companyâ¢
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