🌀🐇 #107 gratitude, creative blocks, effortless relaxation

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This is one of the most impactful protocols, especially if you’re feeling under-rested or overworked – in part because it doesn’t require you to DO anything, so there’s far less motivation required than with some of the other practices. [Listen here.](=)​ 🙏 Gratitude Revealed: Gratitude is a state of mind that preserves our humanity amidst the chaos. This new movie from director of Fantastic Fungi explores its power. [Watch trailer here.](​ 👁 Coming Home: The Challenging Psychedelic Experiences Research Project. [Learn more here.](=)​ 🎇 Image of The Week ​ This is an image inside Son Doong Cave in Vietnam, the largest cave on earth. "Local man Ho Khanh discovered Son Doong in 1990 while searching Phong Nha-Ke Bang National Park for food and timber to earn a modest income. During his search he stumbled across an opening in a limestone cliff, noticed clouds billowing out from the entrance and heard the sounds of a river raging from somewhere inside. He returned home and forgot about the cave. Ho Khanh met Howard and Deb Limbert of The British Vietnam Caving Expedition Team, who were conducting exploratory caving expeditions in the area. After hearing his stories, they urged Ho Khanh to rediscover the cave, which he eventually did in 2008, after several attempts. In 2009, he led Howard, Deb and a team of other caving professionals to the opening. After the first survey in 2009, the team were able to conclude that the cave had the largest cross-section of any cave anywhere on the planet." ✍🏼 Navigating Creative Blocks I recently came across this brief video of John Mayer describing how to overcome writer's block. If you're a creative, I think you'll appreciate the wisdom. [twitter profile avatar] Billy Oppenheimer [Twitter Logo] @bpoppenheimer [John Mayer’s definition of writer’s block is the best I’ve come across: pic.twitter.com/sD5MObOU07]( [Video or Gif] September 29th 2022 212 Retweets 1,399 Likes 🙈 On Hiding Enjoy these words from the ever wise, David Whyte: "Hiding is a way of staying alive. Hiding is a way of holding ourselves until we are ready to come into the light. Hiding is one of the brilliant and virtuoso practices of almost every part of the natural world: the protective quiet of an icy northern landscape, the held bud of a future summer rose, the snowbound internal pulse of the hibernating bear. Hiding is underestimated. We are hidden by life in our mother's womb until we grow and ready ourselves for our first appearance in the lighted world; to appear too early in that world is to find ourselves with the immediate necessity for outside intensive care. Hiding done properly is the internal faithful promise for a proper future emergence, as embryos, as children or even as emerging adults in retreat from the names that have caught us and imprisoned us, often in ways where we have been too easily seen and too easily named. We live in a time of the dissected soul, the immediate disclosure; our thoughts, imaginings and longings exposed to the light too much, too early and too often, our best qualities squeezed too soon into a world already awash with ideas that oppress our sense of self and our sense of others. What is real is almost always to begin with, hidden, and does not want to be understood by the part of our mind that mistakenly thinks it knows what is happening. What is precious inside us does not care to be known by the mind in ways that diminish its presence. Hiding is an act of freedom from the misunderstanding of others, especially in the enclosing world of oppressive secret government and private entities, attempting to name us, to anticipate us, to leave us with no place to hide and grow in ways unmanaged by a creeping necessity for absolute naming, absolute tracking and absolute control. Hiding is a bid for independence, from others, from mistaken ideas we have about ourselves, from an oppressive and mistaken wish to keep us completely safe, completely ministered to, and therefore completely managed. Hiding is creative, necessary and beautifully subversive of outside interference and control. Hiding leaves life to itself, to become more of itself. Hiding is the radical independence necessary for our emergence into the light of a proper human future." 🤓 Learn This Word Fingerspitzengefühl: a german word that literally translates to “finger tips feeling", but means an intuitive feel or to have one's finger on the pulse ⏳ From The Archives A hand-picked classic HighExistence article. ​[How to Let Go of Anger: Seneca’s 16 Stoic Techniques]()​ It’s hard to admit, but I never used to know how to let go of anger properly. As someone who considers themselves “spiritual,” I hid this realization from myself for a long time. Spiritual people tend to act as if they are anger-phobic even if they don’t claim to be with their words. The spiritual mind is typically full of such incongruities, and if we walk the spiritual path with wisdom our aim should include the noticing of such delusions and blind spots. Without mindfulness there can be no change. But this is not always easy, and sometimes we fall prey to spiritual bypassing: that is we use spirituality as tool to avoid confronting reality and our own psyche, to push our shadow further into the darkness rather than illuminate and alter it’s icy grip on our life. One of the main reasons my lack of knowing how to let go of anger was invisible to me for so long was because I didn’t act out my rage with violent intent. My pre-frontal cortex, thank God, prevented me from hitting people or smashing up the house. Instead, my anger would leak out like a noxious gas—hard to notice, but still toxic to myself and those around me. While my anger was not explicitly noticeable behaviorally, it was certainly a felt phenomena by those whose company I shared. I have irreparably damaged relationships because I did not know how to let go of anger effectively. ​[Continue Reading]()​ Access 94 Summaries Of Books That Will Make You Better Stairway To Wisdom is our premium newsletter and library of wisdom-packed book summaries. [Get Your Free Trial](=) 🎬 Endnote We hope you enjoyed this issue of Down The Rabbit Hole. Feel free to reply and tell us what you think. Want to help us spread the word? We love sharing these gems of wisdom and wonder with you each week. If you love receiving them and want to help us spread the word, here is one quick way you can do that: Forward this email to one friend. That's it. It will take 5 seconds and will help us spread the good vibes and reach more people. We appreciate you. With Wonder, Mike Slavin & The HighExistence Team P.S. Did a friend forward you this email? 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