🌀🐇 #78 beauty in everyone, on transience, the mountains

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[Watch it here.](=)​ ❤️‍🔥 Loving Kindness: A moving meditation track with Tara Brach's vocal guidance and Vivian' Koch's musical composition: [Listen here.](=)​ 🎇 Image of The Week ​ This incredible shot of a brewing storm in West Texas was captured by Lauren Rowe. This isn't the first time I've included a cloud formation as the image of the week. These skyward cotton balls can be so astonishing. And you never know when their beauty might strike. 🥊 Battling The Inner Critic Let's talk about the inner critic. You know...that voice in your head that tears you down and spits on your creations. It can be a mean little voice, can't it? I've noticed many will try to eliminate this voice. But let's investigate a possibility. Perhaps this desire for elimination is the reason why this voice has become so scathing and harsh. The critic doesn't feel listened to so the fangs get ever sharper. What if the critic had some valid points that have been long denied? This might be hard medicine to swallow. It might not feel compassionate to let this in but what if it's more compassionate than denying the critic room to speak? We don't need to eliminate the inner critic but to improve our relationship with it. To transform the critic into a coach. You see this part of you could be deeply in touch with the wisdom that's needed to improve what you're doing. It might just be terrible at delivery. It must remember that there is a real difference between an imagined ideal and the enacted art, between a vision and the final product. It's hard to create something that aligns fully with our taste, our sense of how good something could be if we were operating at our highest level. The critic needs to remember that our standards are guideposts and targets, not thresholds determining our worth. If we could reform this relationship to the critic, we could unleash ourselves more fully into our creations while GAINING from the observations of this facet of our consciousness. Using its insight to ever improve our craft. But we have to lay down our arms. Because the ongoing battle creates entrenchment. The conflict gets prolonged. The criticism grows sharper. It makes our mindspace harder to inhabit. Leading us to give up on expressing our creative energy to avoid the daggers of criticism. We no longer take risks with our creativity. This is tricky stuff but profoundly important if you want to unleash your creative potential and experience the peace of self acceptance. Want to do the deep work of repairing your relationship with your inner critic? I've got something that can help but we're not talking about it publicly. If you're serious about experiencing transformation in this area, [click here]( and I'll reach out to you in a separate email. 🏔 Go Home To The Mountains Enjoy these electric words from John Muir: “I don't like either the word [hike] or the thing. People ought to saunter in the mountains - not 'hike!' Do you know the origin of that word saunter? It's a beautiful word. Away back in the middle ages people used to go on pilgrimages to the Holy Land, and when people in the villages through which they passed asked where they were going they would reply, 'A la sainte terre', 'To the Holy Land.' And so they became known as sainte-terre-ers or saunterers. Now these mountains are our Holy Land, and we ought to saunter through them reverently, not 'hike' through them.” “Thousands of tired, nerve-shaken, over-civilized people are beginning to find out that going to the mountains is going home; that wildness is a necessity; and that mountain parks and reservations are useful not only as fountains of timber and irrigating rivers, but as fountains of life. Awakening from the stupefying effects of the vice of over-industry and the deadly apathy of luxury, they are trying as best they can to mix and enrich their own little ongoings with those of Nature, and to get rid of rust and disease.” 🤓 Learn This Word yielbongura: the things that knowledge cannot eat. Used to refer to things like grief because knowledge cannot help you metabolize it. ⏳ From The Archives A hand-picked classic HighExistence article. ​[On Transience: A Reminder From Freud During Times of Great Change]()​ We’re currently surfing through some giant waves of change as a species. And it has made many of us painfully aware just how transient life can be. Facets of our lives that feel relatively stable can completely disintegrate in a day’s time. This can feel very unsettling but with radical acceptance of this as a fact of life, it can liberate us into deep feelings of appreciation for all that we still have. Sigmund Freud raised this point in a short essay he wrote in 1915, 3 years before the Spanish Flu pandemic. It was called “On Transience” and it begins with describing a walk he went on with the poet Rilke. Below I recorded a video discussing how to navigate loss and touch on how Freud’s essay is relevant to the circumstances we find ourselves in. You find the full essay just below the video. ​[Continue Reading]()​ 🏡 The Good Neighbor The next issue of our premium newsletter [Stairway To Wisdom](=) is coming out on Friday and we'll be diving into The Good The Neighbor: The Life and Work of Fred Rogers by Maxwell King. =​ Here's just a taste of what's inside this book: "But Fred Rogers was much more than his gentle, avuncular persona in the Neighborhood. He was the genius behind the most powerful, beneficial programming ever created for very young children; he was a technological innovator and entrepreneur decades before such work was popularly recognized; he was a relentless crusader for higher standards in broadcasting; he was an artist whose deep creative impulse was expressed in the music of his show; and he was a Presbyterian minister, bearing witness to the values he saw as essential in a world that often seemed to lack any ethical compass. He was a husband and father, and a loyal friend. He was also, in many ways, a driven man." Want access when it's released on Friday plus 60+ additional book breakdowns? Sign-up for the Stairway To Wisdom. Right now you can claim a free trial so you can test-drive with zero risk. [Get Your Free Trial](=) 🎬 Endnote We hope you enjoyed this issue of Down The Rabbit Hole. Feel free to reply and tell us what you think. Want to help us spread the word? We love sharing these gems of wisdom and wonder with you each week. If you love receiving them and want to help us spread the word, here is one quick way you can do that: Forward this email to one friend. That's it. It will take 5 seconds and will help us spread the good vibes and reach more people. We appreciate you. With Wonder, Mike Slavin & The HighExistence Team P.S. Did a friend forward you this email? Read previous issues and sign-up to receive future issues here: [(​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​[Unsubscribe]( | [Update your profile]( | 40 E. Main St. #1137, Newark, DE 19711 [Built with ConvertKit](=)