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[Listen now](​ 🌍 Human: Filmmaker Yann Arthus-Bertrand collected emotionally stirring stories from 2,000 women and men in 60 countries compiled them into this enchanting documentary. Hearing from such a collection of wide-ranging backgrounds speaks to a fundamental unity we all share in the human experience. [Watch Human here.](​ 🙂 Treasure Your Friends: This article examines the value of friendship. It explores the specialness of non-familial bonds because we have to actively choose to nurture them. Friends aren't just for fun. Research shows that a strong group of friends can help us live longer, happier lives. [Read more here.](​ Did someone forward you this email? Get this newsletter every week when you [sign up here.](​ 🎇 Image of The Week ​ Daniel Kordan accidentally captured this marvelous shot of a meteor in flight above the erupting Klyuchevskaya volcano in Russia. 🪙 Heads or Tails Economist Steven Levitt conducted a study that encouraged participants to make major life decisions using a coin toss. It found that those who chose change over keeping things the same felt happier 6 months after the decision was made. Here's the subtle wisdom revealed by the study in the words of Levitt: “A good rule of thumb in decision making is, whenever you cannot decide what you should do, choose the action that represents a change, rather than continuing the status quo.” What does this mean? If you're feeling stuck, it's time to shake things up. Even if the change introduces short term uncertainty, it's likely to lead to greater happiness down the line. Many people have been afforded time to reflect on their lives during this pandemic. A lot of people have been realizing they want to radically shift their current life trajectory. They want to spend time around uplifting, empowered individuals. They want to focus on making an important contribution to the world. They want to create a lifestyle of greater freedom and meaning. If that's you, [I want you to see this.](=)​ It's an experience crafted for those who are ready to unleash their gifts and align with their unique path. We're gathering a small group from all over the world to go on this online journey together. If this speaks to you... ​[Learn more here.](=)​ 🚪 Unexpected Visitors These words from Rumi are meant to inspire an openness to the full spectrum of your emotional experience: “This being human is a guest house. Every morning is a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor...Welcome and entertain them all. Treat each guest honorably. The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in. Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.” “Sorrow prepares you for joy. It violently sweeps everything out of your house, so that new joy can find space to enter. It shakes the yellow leaves from the bough of your heart, so that fresh, green leaves can grow in their place. It pulls up the rotten roots, so that new roots hidden beneath have room to grow. Whatever sorrow shakes from your heart, far better things will take their place.” 🤓 Learn This Word Māyā: this word translates to literally "illusion" or "magic" and has multiple meanings in Indian philosophies depending on the context. In later texts, Māyā connotes a "magic show, an illusion where things appear to be present but are not what they seem." Māyā is also a spiritual concept connoting that which "is constantly changing and thus is spiritually unreal" (in opposition to an unchanging Absolute), and which "conceals the true character of spiritual reality. ⏳ From The Archives A hand-picked classic HighExistence article. ​[Habit Gardening: How to Use Strategy to Change Your Life the Smart Way](=)​ How many times have you started a new habit, hobby, or project with passionate motivation — only to find yourself basically giving it up two or three weeks later? You go with your friend on a run, to their gym, or to a yoga class and you love it. You never exercise so you decide it’s time to get in shape. You make a plan to do it everyday after work. Your plan goes well until that first exhausting day, when you get to your couch back home and don’t want to do anything. You let that day slide, and then another day. You get discouraged. Soon enough your everyday routine becomes a maybe-once-or-twice-a-week thing… You read the first couple chapters of a great book. You feel like you’re learning so much. Wouldn’t it be amazing to read all the time? You read every day until you finish that book, then you don’t pick another one up for three months…. It’s easy to write, make music, or create art when you’re feeling inspired. New ideas spark motivation to take action. But most of the time we’re not inspired. Most days are just average days. You never create anything significant if you don’t learn how to create when uninspired. Are we doomed to cycles of motivation briefly making our lives awesome, followed by a lack thereof making most days boring? Can we ever actually make a habit stick? Actually, we can absolutely escape this cycle! We have the power to create strong, lasting, effective habits for ourselves. We’ve just got to take the usual advice about finding motivation and chuck it right out the window… ​[Continue Reading](=)​ 🎬 Endnote We hope you enjoyed this issue of Down The Rabbit Hole. Feel free to reply and tell us what you think. Want to help us spread the word? We love sharing these gems of wisdom and wonder with you each week. If you love receiving them and want to help us spread the word, here is one quick way you can do that: Forward this email to one friend. That's it. It will take 5 seconds and will help us spread the good vibes and reach more people. We appreciate you. With Wonder, Mike Slavin & The HighExistence Team P.S. Did a friend forward you this email? Read previous issues and sign-up to receive future issues here: [(​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​ ​[Unsubscribe]( | [Update your profile]( | 40 E. Main St. #1137, Newark, DE 19711 [Built with ConvertKit](