To watch or not to watch

The vicarious trauma of witnessing police brutality [Healthline]( [Wellness Wire]( IN a nutshell Hi, friends, and happy hump day. As another viral video of police violence tears across our feeds, we wanted to weigh in on one specific aspect of the conversation: How does watching these videos affect our mental health? Below, we talk with clinical psychologist Alixis Rhodes, PsyD, about [vicarious trauma](, how these videos help shape our perception of the world, and how to decide when (and if) it’s beneficial to watch a violent video. We’ll also be talking about: • [a book of puzzles designed to help you slough off stress]( • [oxytocin’s]( possible fall from grace • your tips for safely navigating the internet • [more health stories you need]( Stay sharp, Ginger Wojcik Newsletter Editor, Healthline Written by Ginger Wojcik February 8, 2023 • 6 min read [Should you watch videos of police brutality?]( what’s got us buzzing [Should you watch videos of police brutality?]( The recent footage of five police officers brutally beating Tyre Nichols — an unarmed Black man who later died from his injuries — has brought up an old debate on the internet: Should you watch these violent videos when they come through your feed? To understand what may be at stake when we decide to click “play,” we enlisted the help of clinical psychologist [Alixis Rhodes, PsyD](. First off, it’s important to note that the effects of witnessing [police brutality]( may differ depending on your race. If you’re Black, for example, these videos can be particularly distressing. “Because of the collective history of slavery, public lynchings, and brutality at the hands of authority figures, African Americans have a sense of linked fate with others of their race,” says Rhodes. “This makes us particularly susceptible to vicarious trauma.” First identified in the 1980s, [vicarious trauma]( is “the emotional residue of exposure to traumatic stories and experiences of others.” Although not the same as [post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)](, the [symptoms]( can be similar. For example, a [2019 study]( found that undocumented Latinx teens who had been exposed to images from immigration detention centers had increased symptoms of depression and PTSD. Another point to consider is how violent images can affect your perception of the world, regardless of your race. According to Rhodes, seeing too much violent content can make you believe the world is a scarier place than it really is. Conversely, it can have a desensitizing effect –– if you believe that violence is “just a way of life,” you may become less sensitive to the pain and suffering of others. If you don’t know whether to watch a video, Rhodes suggests asking yourself what you hope to gain in doing so, especially if you’re easily triggered by violence. If you think watching will motivate you to take action or help you take part in a larger conversation, you may ultimately decide it’s worth it to click play. tl;dr: The footage of Tyre Nichols being beaten by police — which ultimately led to his death — has renewed the conversation about how these types of videos can affect our mental health. We consulted clinical psychologist Alixis Rhodes, PsyD, to understand the effect violent imagery can have on our thoughts, emotions, and perception of the world. great finds Editor faves with health perks You know those great finds you just *have* to tell your friends about? 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Follow these simple steps for whipping up this classic cold and creamy treat. you’re up After watching “The Shining” when I was 13, I stayed up all night reading a novel, terrified that without something to concentrate on, images from the movie would come flooding into my brain. My memory has always latched onto violent, gory, or otherwise disturbing imagery, often plaguing me for months or years to come. So, my personal internet policy is to avoid any content where people or animals might be in considerable pain or distress. For this week’s poll, we’re curious how you protect your inner world during your travels across the World Wide Web. We want to know: Where do you draw the line when watching internet content? Let us know at wellnesswire@healthline.com. (Please note that we may share your name and response in an upcoming newsletter!) Last week, Mary A. wrote in to let us know how she keeps the zest alive in her life. Here’s an excerpt from her beautiful response: When I was 50, I met a man and besides falling in love, I had the great good fortune of his being a constant creative mentor. I began painting and found the zest I'd lost through the child-bearing years. Every mark of every painting fills me with overflowing joy and disbelief that I found this hidden facet buried within me. And that I'm good at it. 10 years later, more nights than not, I still announce that I can't wait to wake up in the morning so I can get back to painting. Until next time, [healthline]( Take care of yourself, and we’ll see you again soon! [Telegram] This edition was powered by my newfound love for prairie voles. [fb]( [tiktok]( [insta]( [View in browser]( Did a friend send you this email? [Subscribe here.]( To see all newsletters, [click here.]( [Privacy]( | [Unsubscribe]( © 2023 Healthline Media LLC 275 7th Ave., 24th Floor New York, NY 10001