How Night Owl-Early Bird Couples Make It Work

Plus, Is Cracking Your Knuckles Actually Bad For You? %2F%2Fad.doubleclick.net%2Fddm%2Ftrackclk%2FN1503726.1913248BDGMEDIAINC%2FB27681266.334522169;dc_trk_aid=529049254;dc_trk_cid=172109760;dc_lat=;dc_rdid=;tag_for_child_directed_treatment=;tfua=;ltd=%3Futm_campaign=33307%26utm_medium=fatherlyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=c37e7b32-5b18-4c2b-a3ac-adb88aa64d4e/1/0100018212d35559-e8de83a4-4b48-43a4-81f5-521e1249d7d4-000000/XLVh16sYdQ8wMaexKVaLtQbroy4=278 [Fatherly](%2F%2Ffatherly.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=33307%26utm_medium=fatherlyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=c37e7b32-5b18-4c2b-a3ac-adb88aa64d4e/1/0100018212d35559-e8de83a4-4b48-43a4-81f5-521e1249d7d4-000000/sMQ8socrWRDXUT4xEAGaVV_R2uw=278) Jul 18, 2022 Bedtime preferences aren’t featured on dating profiles. Likewise, they don’t factor into first-date conversations. In fact, as a general rule, they go undiscussed long into the courtship process, setting up couples for a rude awakening if one is an early bird and the other is a night owl. Or at the very least it sets up a rude awakening for the night owl. The early bird is cheerfully flitting around the house with coffee brewing, NPR blaring, and the day’s Wordle completed as dawn has just started breaking. Differences in sleep patterns don’t matter until they do. So how can a couple consisting of someone who’s up and at ‘em in the a.m. and another who’s a snooze button slammer make it work? RELATIONSHIPS %2F%2Fwww.fatherly.com%2Flove-money%2Fnight-owl-early-bird-couples-how-they-adpated%3Futm_campaign=33307%26utm_medium=fatherlyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=c37e7b32-5b18-4c2b-a3ac-adb88aa64d4e/1/0100018212d35559-e8de83a4-4b48-43a4-81f5-521e1249d7d4-000000/pU_W38fTM3RueAIEBanXQnwXe_s=278 [I’m A Night Owl Married To An Early Bird. Here’s How We Make it Work.](%2F%2Fwww.fatherly.com%2Flove-money%2Fnight-owl-early-bird-couples-how-they-adpated%3Futm_campaign=33307%26utm_medium=fatherlyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=c37e7b32-5b18-4c2b-a3ac-adb88aa64d4e/2/0100018212d35559-e8de83a4-4b48-43a4-81f5-521e1249d7d4-000000/kh9_jt6HuIgnD_HJbbzk2kX4Mu4=278) When one partner is up and at 'em in the a.m. and the other is staying up late and slamming the snooze button, troubles can occur. [Here's how six couples adapted](%2F%2Fwww.fatherly.com%2Flove-money%2Fnight-owl-early-bird-couples-how-they-adpated%3Futm_campaign=33307%26utm_medium=fatherlyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=c37e7b32-5b18-4c2b-a3ac-adb88aa64d4e/3/0100018212d35559-e8de83a4-4b48-43a4-81f5-521e1249d7d4-000000/LHCxGLL_TUrT6wJx00mxlGj7utI=278)[.](%2F%2Fwww.fatherly.com%2Flove-money%2Fnight-owl-early-bird-couples-how-they-adpated%3Futm_campaign=33307%26utm_medium=fatherlyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=c37e7b32-5b18-4c2b-a3ac-adb88aa64d4e/4/0100018212d35559-e8de83a4-4b48-43a4-81f5-521e1249d7d4-000000/R9tVMe6SQ0WyAWZJyG4aBg2-fZI=278) [READ THIS STORY](%2F%2Fwww.fatherly.com%2Flove-money%2Fnight-owl-early-bird-couples-how-they-adpated%3Futm_campaign=33307%26utm_medium=fatherlyDailyV2%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=c37e7b32-5b18-4c2b-a3ac-adb88aa64d4e/5/0100018212d35559-e8de83a4-4b48-43a4-81f5-521e1249d7d4-000000/TvGE-uUNiPze5f9kGpRCBIievy4=278) When we had kids, I really started to appreciate how my husband is up with the sun naturally. He took care of the kids when they were toddlers waking up at some ungodly hour. 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