Plus, 20 Time Saving Tips for Extremely Busy Dads [Fatherly_Seahorse]( We’ve all been there at one time or another. Something is…just a bit off in your relationship. You can feel it. No, this isn’t a lets-draw-up-the-divorce-papers scenario. But there’s a palpable sense of distance and disconnection. Maybe it’s due to a sudden change in schedules. Maybe it’s because every day feels the same and you’ve both fallen into a little bit of a funk. Maybe it’s something else entirely. Whatever the case, you’ve noticed that your relationship feels distanced and want to take some steps to close that space. Good for you. Here are a few things to try. PARENTING [7article1]( [20 Time Saving Tips for Extremely Busy Dads]( Some expert tips to help you become more efficient and [create more opportunities to be a present and engaged dad.]( [READ THE STORY]( TIPS AND TRICKS Make Like a Cartographer and Draw Maps of Daily Routines Setting concrete routines for you and your family is going to be the first big step to make sure there are no wasted moments when you’re at your busiest. The most important time to take advantage of these routines is during daily transitions: getting out of bed, getting out the door, coming back from school, and so on. “Take or draw pictures of each step as a visual reminder of the next step in the process,” says Ann DeWitt, marriage therapist and co-host of the Passport to Parenting podcast. “Kids should be involved in making and adapting the routine so they have buy-in and ownership of it. This isn’t something we impose on our kids; it is helping them to learn a great habit that will benefit them for a lifetime.” Structure is a parent’s best friend. [Here are some more time-management tips to consider implementing.]( FURTHER READING -
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