How to seduce like a spy

Master the one-two punch of sexpionage [Image](https://) Greetings Everyday Spy, Spies will always use sex to get secrets. Yes, I'm talking about the birds and bees - but not the ones you might think. In the first part of this series, you learned how sex can make you better at everyday things by releasing good hormones in your body. In the second part, you found out the hidden advantage between 'desire' and 'drive' that regular people miss and spies love. The idea of using sex to help others and the 'power trap' it creates. Now it's time to learn more about how you can use sex like a spy to get what you want. Spy shows and movies often have stories about using sex to get information. These are called "honey pots", "sexpionage", "sparrows" (sexy women spies), and "ravens" (sexy men spies). These ideas didn't start in Hollywood. They are real spy tricks that are still used today. They work because sex speaks to basic human needs for connection, partnership, and pleasure. When you understand these basic human needs, you can use the same tricks to be a great partner, spouse, and lover. Chinese and Russian spies are known for using sex and seduction in their work. A famous British report in 2010 showed that China uses sex spies to target important people in government and business. Since then, sex has been found in 71% of all caught espionage cases in the United States. Russia has long been known for using sparrows to seduce Westerners and get information, blackmail, steal, or even kill their targets. But these tricks don't just target straight people. Gay, transgender, and all kinds of "kinky" lifestyles have been used to trick people with access to valuable secrets. And in every case, there is one common thing that gives you a hint to make your own relationships better: paying attention to details. 19% of Americans said they were unhappy in their current relationship and 51% said they were unhappy with their sex life. Why? Because they didn't feel like their partner was interested in them. Not as a person. Or as a professional. Or even as an equal. Now ask yourself: Do you know everything about your partner? Do you know what they like and don't like physically, emotionally, and mentally? If you don't have a partner, think about how you act around someone you like. Are you more focused on making them feel good? Or on how they can make you feel good? Paying attention to details is the base for every sex spy operation because foreign spies know that Americans are not happy in their relationships: - 49% of marriages end in divorce - the average marriage lasts 18 years - the chance of a second marriage working is less than 22% Ravens and sparrows on the hunt don't have to be pretty. They just have to pay enough attention to make their target feel interesting. Being thoughtful, observant, and curious are attractive, desirable traits that make for a good lover. Show these traits to your partner or love interest, and you're [taking a page from the pro-book of sex spying.]( Nobody cares about your hair, make-up, teeth, or acne as much as they care about whether you can make them feel interesting. Paying attention to details is the quickest way to ensure you ask the right questions, make the right moves, and win the night. The second step in the one-two punch of sex spying is persuasion. Persuasion and seduction are two sides of the same coin. Persuasion is about appealing to a person's emotions, not their logic. Because nothing kills romance or seduction like logic. 41% of American adults admit to avoiding sex because they are not in a romantic mood. Work, chores, deadlines, and other things take over their logical mind and shut down their emotional mind. Another 30% of adults say that raising children makes them want sex less. 19% say movies/TV/mobile devices distract them from making love. When you show interest in someone's emotional needs and interests (attention to detail), you re-engage their emotional brain and unlock the chance to persuade them. Seducing someone into bed is only one goal - but it's not the most valuable! What's far more valuable is building a connection based on trust and respect. After all, every honey pot operation started in bed, but ended in sharing national security secrets! The two hormones released during sex (oxytocin and vasopressin) naturally make you want to make a strong human connection. And couples who have been together a long time in strong, healthy relationships can make their partner's hormones release with simple looks, touches, and even certain words. Being able to [make your partner feel like they had sex with a few simple words]( is the ultimate form of persuasion. You've seen (and been) the person in the center of the room, wine glass in hand, with people hanging on your every word. And while that's an attractive display, it's just that: A display. True value comes by showing real curiosity in someone, creating trust based on their interests, and persuading their emotional mind to build a physical connection with you. Spies, sparrows, and ravens have been following this sex spying recipe for ages. Because it works; to steal secrets, to keep a marriage going, and to build a family legacy you can be proud of. Godspeed, #EverydaySpy P.S. You can [grow your power, influence, and control using basic sexpionage techniques]( without lies, manipulation, or ill-intent. Sex & Spies reveals the hidden spy sex arsenal that can take you and your relationships from average to irresistible. Andrew Bustamante, Founder of EverydaySpy.com, is a former covert CIA Intelligence officer, decorated US Air Force Combat Veteran, and respected Fortune 500 senior advisor. 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