I Spent Thanksgiving Alone in a Casino

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Then I’ll eat a pot gummy, dick around with some dice, and go to the sports book to bet Thursday’s football games before heading upstairs to take a long bath and maybe watch a movie. How do I know it will go this way? Because I did the same thing last Christmas, and the one before that. It was easy. I lied about my plans. Spent the day by myself. Long drive, casino, cards, newspaper, bath, television, silence, a long elevated view of the deep wild under slate-gray skies, and food. [Read the Full Story]( [MORE FROM ESQUIRE]( [There Are Only Two Options Left In Ukraine]( There Are Only Two Options Left In Ukraine Valerii Fedorchuk, a Ukrainian soldier who carries himself with both assurance and stirs of sadness, points toward the valley below us, where a row of ruined buildings scars the horizon. Heavy artillery rumbles from that direction, followed by plumes of smoke. 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