The Wisdom of Bruce Willis

He has a lot to say, but it's tough getting it out of him, especially when he keeps getting up to take a leak. But stick around. It's worth it. [View in Browser]( [Esquire Sunday Reads]( The Collected Wisdom of Bruce Willis, 1:32-3:45 P.M., Thursday Five tiny pears on the tray in front of Bruce Willis. A couple of bottles of water, too. And these five pears. A setup from the hotel. Really small pears, small enough that all five pears would equal the bulk of one really hefty Bartlett from the Piggly Wiggly. He fusses with them throughout the conversation. He eats them each and all, doesn't offer to share. With a lot of time in between each one. Five times he voids his bladder. Five urinations over a little more than two hours. The bathroom is at the other end of the hotel suite. From the moment he excuses himself to the one where he sits back down again to talk about his movies, Bruce Willis stares into the palm of his hand, texting someone. This pattern inadvertently becomes the structure of the afternoon, as the subject changes every time he returns. It's fair to think the act of excusing himself, of having a pee, might be masking his opportunity to communicate with his wife, the model Emma Heming, who is out-to-here pregnant at this moment. "All I want right now," he says, "is to be with her, to stare at her belly." When he sits back down after the first urination, Willis begins again in earnest with the business of his life — assessing the upcoming Bruce Willis summer box-office deluge that might be his biggest ever, unraveling his delight in fatherhood, asserting and reasserting that he is simply happy and that he will not advertise any other part of himself or his life. "I'm happy every day," he says. This he repeats many times, as if to assert that there's no conflict in him and thus no story. It might be five times. Maybe more. Also fair to note: When he returns each time, the phone disappears. He's all business. 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It is coming for them, this force of wind and rain and some other power that feels unstoppable and ungodly, spiteful even. A tree spins through violent gusts, snapped cleanly from its roots. Manicured lawns in the housing development explode. Sidewalks heave and ripple. Windows shatter. It’s impossible to know where inside ends and outside begins. Time has stopped, yet everything else is still in motion. The edges of the world have blurred. I’m going to die, thirteen-year-old Oscar Isaac thinks as he hunches beneath flimsy sofa cushions with his brother and sister, with his parents and their already fraying relationship. I’m going to be hurled into the air by this hurricane and disappear. [Read the Full Story]( The Sexiest Erotic Novels of All Time Sex in fiction, like sex on a beach, ought to be a no-brainer. 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But, partly thanks to the pandemic, and the work required to keep a romantic relationship intact during several months in quarantine, I’ve discovered I have a drinking problem. We call him Gloominick. He’s a sneaky little turd. He waits until the next morning to come around. Mean, mopey, futzy, and, during those particularly rough hangovers–you know, those News Year Day-style hangovers–fully apocalyptic. “Go away, Gloominick,” my fiancée will say. “Go to your room.” [Read the Full Story]( Follow Us [Unsubscribe]( | [Privacy Notice/Notice at Collection]( esquire.com ©2022 Hearst Magazine Media, Inc. All Rights Reserved. Hearst Magazines, 300 West 57th Street, New York, NY 10019