Yikes: I Caught My Friend's Boyfriend On A Dating App

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If you and your friend are close enough that you regularly talk about your dating lives, I think it’s fair game to bring it up with her. But do not — and I really mean this — *do not* enter that conversation with preconceived judgments or assumptions. This situation could be an honest mistake, or maybe they’ve very recently broken up, or maybe they’re[exploring non-monogamy](. Or it’s also possible that[he’s cheating](. It’s a sensitive situation, and above all, you want your friend to feel safe when you share this information with her. As for the boyfriend? I’d avoid going to him first — if anything, your loyalty lies with your friend here. If she finds out you came to him before her, she’s likely to be hurt, especially if the worst-case scenario (that he’s cheating) turns out to be true. [Hannah]( This is a tough — but kind of common — situation. (Thanks, men!) My first question: How close are you with this friend? My second: Could they have broken up without you hearing about it? Depending on how you answer, here are your potential game plans: If you’re best friends, and they definitely didn’t break up: You’ve gotta tell your friend, but you have to do it delicately. I’d open up the conversation by asking how their relationship is going, and then explain the reason for your curiosity. You don’t want to beat around the bush too much, but you should have a screenshot ready of the profile, so she doesn’t just have to take your word for it. Keep in mind that once you provide her with the info, your job is done. If she’s in denial (“He forgot to delete the app, but he doesn’t use it!”), that’s her prerogative. Stay neutral and understanding: that way, she knows you’ll be there for her no matter what happens. If you’re not that close, and you don’t know their current sitch: In this case, I’d leave it be. The phrase “not my circus, not my monkeys” comes to mind. But if it’s still weighing on your mind, you could check in with one of her closer friends to see the current status. Whichever way you go about it, make sure what you say is coming from a place of empathy, not gossip. One last thing: definitely don't swipe right. Ask Elite Daily appears biweekly on Fridays. If you have a question that you want Sarah and Hannah to answer, you can reply to this email or[submit one here](. [Submit your question]( TRENDING 📈 ooooh [Camila Cabello Appeared To Reference *That* Coachella Moment In A New Song]( It must be love on the brain. [READ MORE]( delicious [15 Plant-Based Recipes On TikTok For Earth Day Celebrations]( There’s even a Kim Kardashian-inspired recipe. [READ MORE]( reality tv [The 'Hunger Games' Of Dating Shows Is Coming Back]( Marshall, this is could be your chance! [READ MORE]( celeb couples [The Internet Is Having A Field Day With Those Timothée Chalamet & Kylie Jenner Rumors]( Spreading like (hilarious) wildfire. 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