This TikTok niche is like microdosing reality TV.                   [View on web]( Let's just all pretend we're picking fresh produce from a billionaire's garden with Meredith Hayden of [Wishbone Kitchen]( this summer. | TikTok I canât escape them, but I also canât look away: All over my For You page, TikTok creators are taking me through days in their lives as Hamptons private chefs. They pick vegetables to use each day from pristine private gardens, prep in big perfect kitchens, and serve lobster and steak poolside. Last month, I [joined Slateâs internet culture podcast ICYMI]( to talk about this growing TikTok niche. With beach house season in full swing, the saturation of private chef content is making me feel almost like Iâm in one of those ritzy Hamptons towns, too. The private chef-to-TikTok star pipeline gained steam last summer. The sceneâs breakout star is Meredith Hayden of [Wishbone Kitchen](, with 1.8 million TikTok followers today. Hayden, who is young and likable, blew up last summer by showing [a 17-hour day in her life as a live-in Hamptons private chef]( to a client who has since been revealed as fashion designer Joseph Altuzarra; it has 24.3 million views as of this writing. Not long after, the New York Times [profiled Khristianne Uy](, known as Chef K, who went from cooking behind the scenes for the Kardashians [to being a microcelebrity on her own thanks to the platform.]( Their success has spurred [a new genre: Hamptons private chef content](. There is [Reilly Meehan](, who [cooks venison for a well-heeled poodle]( in a Nancy Meyers-worthy kitchen; [Juliana White](, who runs a private chef service called [Plate in Progress](; [Rob Li](, who [captions his videos]( âPOV: Youâre a private chef for a b*llionaire in the Hamptonsâ; [Ayla Ochoa](, who [recently cooked]( a pizza party for 48 guests; and more. As these creators gain traction â along with clout, sponsorships, new clients, and dedicated viewers â more private chefs are inclined to also turn their day jobs into content in hopes of gaining the same perks from their oft-obscured jobs. The initial appeal of this corner of TikTok is the obvious sense of aspiration. But, as Hayden [told Thrillist last year](, itâs also the âpeeling back the curtainâ on both a family in the Hamptons and a ânon-traditional career.â Itâs a chance to get answers to the questions we ponder while watching the clock at our own jobs: What does wealth really look like? Is someone working a noncorporate schedule and ~pursuing their passion~ happier or less stressed than someone at a 9-to-5? With Hayden having pivoted from working at Condé Nast to private cheffing because of the pandemic, itâs a chance to see an alternative to the corporate grind in a way thatâs also more comfortable and chill than most food jobs. Could I do that, too? The thread I find so interesting is the labor undergirding it all, because even if it happens in a pretty kitchen in the Hamptons, itâs still work (17-hour days!). When I get wrapped up in the fantasy of these videos, Iâm not imagining hiring the private chef but being the private chef. Itâs a fantasy of labor that just happens in circumstances that appear more beautiful than my reality. Iâd love to cook like that all day, I think. For creators, that work remains a tether. It seems that no matter how successful they become as creators â perhaps successful enough to make social content full-time â their public appeal hinges on the daily grind of private cheffing. Hayden has returned to the Hamptons this summer for what sheâs calling Season 2. That perspective is echoed by fans: Pamela Wurst Vetrini, who also shares a lot of Real Housewives content, posts a weekly video in which she [recaps]( what she calls âeveryoneâs favorite TikTok reality series, Iâm a Private Chef in the Hamptons.â Indeed, following the Hamptons private chef niche, along with much of TikTok, is like microdosing reality TV. Ultimately, that these chefs are in the Hamptons for a season at a time, just like the participants on Summer House, only adds to the appeal. Though I continue to watch Hayden in the winter, when she cooks for herself in Brooklyn, that isnât the draw. For better or worse, itâs the knowledge that soon enough, sheâll be back in the Hamptons. Through the screen, so will I. â Bettina Makalintal, senior reporter Other reading: - Some speculation as to why Lana Del Rey recently worked a shift at a Waffle House, [thanks to the Cut](.
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