Leading by Example

[View Online]( INSPIRATION [Leading by Example]( Leading by example is inspiring, not only for those whom you lead but also for yourself. We all know from experience that we can’t change other people, yet most of us have a tendency to try. This is because we naturally feel the need to do something to change situations that we find troubling. It often doesn’t occur to us that the best way to create change is not to try to convince others to change but to change ourselves. When we make adjustments from within, we become role models for others, and leading by example is much more inspiring than a lecture or an argument. We sometimes look outside ourselves for what’s wrong with the world, but the outside world is really just a mirror reflecting us back to ourselves. When we encounter negativity — anger or fear — we empower ourselves by looking for its roots inside of ourselves. For example, if you have a friend who is unreliable, observe yourself and notice if there are ways in which you are unreliable. You may be surprised to discover that you have your own struggles with this issue. Once you own the issue yourself, you can begin to work for change within you. This will also enable you to have more compassion for your friend. At the very least, as you strive to become more reliable, you will become more of the person you want to be. In the best-case scenario, you will be an inspiration to others. You can apply the same method to larger issues. For example, if there is something you see in the larger world that you would like to change — let’s say, greed — try taking responsibility for changing it in yourself. Instead of being angry with those you see as greedy, seek out the roots of your own greed and come to terms with your power to transform it. This may be the best way to lead the world toward greater moderation and generosity.   DailyOM Course Spotlight [Sneaky Ways You Sabotage Yourself]( Feeling a lack of motivation? In this course, psychologist Dr. Terri Apter teaches us how sabotaging behaviors get in the way of our own success and happiness. In this inspiring program, you’ll learn how to replace those often unconscious habits with life-affirming practices. Grounding self-care techniques help you gain a greater appreciation for who and where you are now, and effective tools help you pursue your goals and dreams for an abundant future. [Learn More]( New Courses - [20-Minute Metabolic Workout for Women]( - [Healing the Father Wound to Stop Self-Sabotage]( - [Meditations to Unravel Old Patterns and Reshape Your Brain]( - [The Fiber Effect to Heal the Body]( - [3D Stretches for a Fully Functional Body]( Recommended For You [How to Contact Your Spirit Guides]( [Learn More]( [Blessings from A Course in Miracles]( [Learn More]( [Perfect Posture in 14 Days]( [Learn More]( [Spiritual Design for a Healthy Home]( [Learn More]( [Haiku for Healing]( [Learn More]( [How to Create Perfect Feng Shui]( [Learn More]( Top 10 Courses 1. [The Vagus Nerve Miracle]( 2. [Gentle Exercises to Eliminate Your Neck Hump]( 3. [20-Minute Metabolic Workout for Women]( 4. [Heal Your Soul by Letting Go of Emotional Addiction]( 5. [Holistic Vagus Nerve Stretches for Immediate Relief]( 6. [14-Day Spinal Reset]( 7. [Healing the Father Wound to Stop Self-Sabotage]( 8. [Getting Unstuck]( 9. [A Year of Writing to Uncover the Authentic Self]( 10. [Talking to Dead People]( Explore 350+ Courses There's something for everyone. What do you want to learn today? [Browse by Topic]( [DailyOM Logo](   [Facebook]( [Instagram]( [Pinterest]( [Twitter]( You are receiving this email because you're subscribed to DailyOM. You are registered with {EMAIL}. [Inspirations]( | [Courses]( | [Horoscopes]( [Remove me from this list]( | [Help/FAQ]( Copyright © 2023 [Everyday Health, Inc.]( All rights reserved. DailyOM is among the federally registered trademarks of Everyday Health, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without explicit permission. 114 Fifth Avenue, 15th Floor, New York, NY 10011 Subject to our [terms of service]( and [privacy policy](.