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[Making Conscious Decisions]( Our lives belong to us, and so do our decisions. Just because an idea or way of doing things is popular doesn’t mean it’s right for everyone. However, part of the way that something becomes popular is that many of us don’t take the time to determine what’s right for us; we simply do what most of the people we know are doing. In this way, our decisions about life are made by default, which means they aren’t what we call conscious decisions. There may be many other options available, but we don’t always take the time to explore them. This may be the result of feeling overwhelmed or pressured by family, peers, and humanity at large, to do things their way, the way things have always been done. Regardless of the cause, it is important that, as often as we can, we decide for ourselves what to do with our lives rather than just drift along on the current of popular opinion. It is not always easy to make decisions that go against the grain. Many people feel threatened when those close to them make choices divergent from the ones they are making. Parents and grandparents may be confused and defensive when we choose to raise our children differently from the way they raised us. Friends may feel abandoned if we decide to change our habits or behavior. Meanwhile, on our side of the fence, it’s easy to feel frustrated and defensive when we feel unsupported and misunderstood simply because we are thinking for ourselves. It can be exhausting to have to explain and re-explain our points of view and our reasons. This is where gentleness, openness, and tolerance come into play. It helps if we are calmly persistent, consistent, and clear as we communicate to those around us why we are making the choices we are making. At the same time, we have the right to say that we are tired of talking about it and simply need our choices to be respected. Our lives belong to us and so do our decisions. Those who truly love us will stand by us and support our choices, never mind what’s popular.  [PRINT](  [SAVE](  [DISCUSS](  --------------------------------------------------------------- DailyOM Course Spotlight [The Japanese Art of Happy Money]( by Ken Honda Take control of your emotional relationship with money and transform your life. In this insightful course, best-selling author and money expert Ken Honda will provide fundamental teachings to shift any limiting beliefs around our finances so we can cultivate greater prosperity. With the support of video lessons and actionable tips, you’ll learn how to become more financially in flow and experience the abundance that is already waiting for you to enjoy. By the end, you’ll become more at peace with yourself and have the tools for success. [Learn More]( --------------------------------------------------------------- Top 10 DailyOM Courses 1. [4 Minutes for Back Pain]( 2. [Heal Yourself From Adrenal Fatigue]( 3. [Fascia Flows to Free Your Body]( 4. [Shedding Your Menopausal Middle in 10 Days]( 5. [Somatic Exercises to Relax and Release]( 6. [A Year of Writing to Uncover the Authentic Self]( 7. [A Year to Clear What is Holding You Back!]( 8. [The Japanese Art of Happy Money]( 9. [How to Parent Like A Buddhist]( 10. [Shakti Warrior Dance for Healing]( New Courses • [Fascia Flows to Free Your Body]( • [Resistance Band Workout Anytime, Anywhere]( • [Somatic Exercises to Relax and Release]( • [Awaken Your Chakra Energy]( > [More Courses]( --------------------------------------------------------------- [Home]( | [Inspiration]( | [Courses]( | [Horoscopes]( [Email Settings]( | [Unsubscribe]( | [Privacy Policy]( | [Help/FAQ]( ©2022 [Everyday Health, Inc](. All rights reserved. DailyOM is among the federally registered trademarks of Everyday Health, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without explicit permission. 114 Fifth Avenue, 15th Floor, New York, NY 10011 Subscribed as {EMAIL}