Becoming Your Wrong Decisions

  [View Online]( INSPIRATION [Becoming Your Wrong Decisions]( We are not our decisions, and no decision is wrong because we made the choice with the information at hand. Our perception of the traits and characteristics that make us who we are is often tightly intertwined with how we live our life. We define ourselves in terms of the roles we adopt, our actions and inactions, our triumphs, and what we think are failures. As a result, it is easy to identify so strongly with a decision that has resulted in unexpected negative consequences that we actually become that “wrong” decision. The disappointment and shame we feel when we make what we perceive as a mistake grows until it becomes a dominant part of our identities. We rationalize our “poor” decisions by labeling ourselves incompetent decision-makers. However, your true identity cannot be defined by your choices. Your essence — what makes you a unique entity — exists independently of your decision-making process. There are no true right or wrong decisions. All decisions contribute to your development and are an integral part of your evolving existence, yet they are still separate from the self. A decision that does not result in its intended outcome is in no way an illustration of character. Still, it can have dire effects on our ability to trust ourselves and our self-esteem. You can avoid becoming your decisions by affirming that a “bad decision” was just an experience, and next time, you can choose differently. Try to avoid lingering in the past and mulling over the circumstances that led to your perceived error in judgment. Instead, adapt to the new circumstances you must face by considering how you can use your intelligence, inner strength, and intuition to aid you in moving forward more mindfully. Try not to entirely avoid thinking about the choices you have made, but reflect on the consequences of your decision from a rational, rather than an emotional standpoint. Strive to understand why you made the choice you did, forgive yourself, and then move forward. A perceived mistake becomes a valuable learning experience and is, in essence, a gift to learn and grow from. You are not a bad person, and you are not your decisions. You are simply human. Did you like this Inspiration? ❁ Did you miss yesterday's inspiration? Click [here]( to view them all. ♥ Love this inspiration? Share with a friend](   DailyOM Course Spotlight [Getting Unstuck]( By Pema Chodron Get this course before it’s gone! Available for purchase until March 31, but it’s yours to keep for a lifetime. Join beloved Buddhist nun and bestselling author Pema Chödrön as she helps you recognize and transform the stories and patterns that are holding you back. Each lesson includes a series of video teachings and guided meditation techniques as well as questions for reflection that will offer you a direct path to a life of greater joy and genuine happiness. [Learn More]( New Courses - [Break Free From Trauma Bonding]( - [The Intuitive Power of Zodiac Signs]( - [Toxic Positivity: Speak Your Truth and Embrace Your Emotions]( - [A Year of Writing to Reveal Who You Really Are]( - [Gentle Yoga to Rebuild Strength and Flexibility]( Recommended For You [Spoonbenders Course]( [Learn More]( [The Total Self-Care Program Special 3-Course Bundle]( [Learn More]( [Haiku for Healing]( [Learn More]( [Chair Stretches to Overcome Body Stiffness]( [Learn More]( [Heal Addictions With Forgiveness]( [Learn More]( [Overcoming Meaninglessness]( [Learn More]( Top 10 Courses 1. [The Vagus Nerve Miracle]( 2. [The Healing Power of Your Feet]( 3. [Live a Sweet Life Without Sugar]( 4. [The Science of Medical Intuition]( 5. [Somatic Exercises to Relax and Release]( 6. [Separating With Grace and Respect]( 7. [The 10-Minute Method to Naturally Tighten Your Face]( 8. [The 2-Week Fascia Miracle]( 9. [Next Level Fascia Miracle: The Lymphatic Secret]( 10. [Break Free From Trauma Bonding]( Explore 350+ Courses There's something for everyone. What do you want to learn today? [Browse by Topic]( [DailyOM Logo](   [Facebook]( [Instagram]( [Pinterest]( [Twitter]( You are receiving this email because you're subscribed to DailyOM. You are registered with {EMAIL}. [Inspirations]( | [Courses]( | [Horoscopes]( [Remove me from this list]( | [Help/FAQ]( Copyright © 2024 [Everyday Health, Inc.]( All rights reserved. DailyOM is among the federally registered trademarks of Everyday Health, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without explicit permission. 114 Fifth Avenue, 15th Floor, New York, NY 10011 Subject to our [terms of service]( and [privacy policy](.